I made something! What do you guys think? 🖤🤍💜
https://redd.it/oqfhg4
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These new cubes are fun
https://redd.it/oqjhs3
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Am I too young to identify as asexual?

I (18F) came out to my parents a few days ago and they told me I was too young to decide that and I shouldn’t tell people that. I guess asexuality might be different from other LGBT orientations since sex is supposedly a grown up topic and whatnot, idk. I’ve thought about it for a long time now though, and I just believe this is the best way to label myself and how I feel. Let me know what you think :)

https://redd.it/oqboc2
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I was watching asexual ticktoks and when I clicked on this playlist I noticed the number of likes😂
https://redd.it/oqmw6t
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I came out to my wife and I feel terrible.

For reference, I'm 22 M and she is 22 F.

She is also a member of the LGBT community as bi.

And finally, sorry for any grammatical and or clerical errors as this was written on my phone.

So, I've noticed for a long time with my first sexual partner that sex felt very forced for me. Seemed not very interesting, but instead did it as that was what teenagers did. I remember being very much always thinking of other things or having a wandering mind while having sex. Not to say I wasn't interested, but because sex was? I don't know. Not interesting.

Fast forward a few years, I broke up with that partner. And I am now with my current partner (wife). We have a very healthy relationship, we communicate well, we don't yell at each other during arguments, and can set boundaries. However, she has a high sex drive. Which was never a problem for me, I still love her no matter what and she understood that I have a low sex drive. While we have been together, sex always seemed like a weird point. Because I have felt disconnected since I don't really care for it. Sure it feels nice, and is cool I guess? But for her, having that intimacy, and physical touch, or whatever the love language is is her thing.
Side note: our relationship is more than just sex to her. But when we have sex, wanting to have good sex, and sex that is connecting is important.

I watched the YouTube video of Anthony Padilla on: I spent a day with Asexuals. And it seemed to resonate with me. It made sense, but I didn't know what to make of it. I spent a few days really trying to rack my brain on what to do and my wife noticed something was really wrong. She was concerned I was going to ask for a divorce.

I sat her down and told her, I think I'm Ace and she took a moment and thought. She hugged me and said it is okay. Things haven't changed between us, and she doesn't view me any different. As I mentioned before, she is also Bi.

But now that I have a title to what I'm feeling, I feel relieved maybe that I know what is going on. But also, feel extreme feelings of guilt and shame that this is now apart of my identity with my wife. I do not know how to come to terms with it, and how to make myself feel better for it.

Any advice would be helpful. I just feel lost and drained.

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Asexual because of abuse

I just realised the other day that I am only asexual because my mum sexually abused me for 3 years. That’s kinda depressing….

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So that just happened
https://redd.it/oqos3l
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The ace rep we need 😤
https://redd.it/oqly5n
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This is just a question

So, can asexuals think people are hot? Or can we not do that?? Like I don’t wanna f*ck them, but they’re hot, is that allowed?? I think that may be going against being asexual, but I may be wrong. Could someone help me please??

https://redd.it/oqqjge
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i put at asexual flag on top of my house in minecraft. pretty ace decoration. get it? ace? anyways yeah hope you like it

https://redd.it/oqrvkp
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Garlic bread, anyone want some?
https://redd.it/oqs6vs
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I made an asexual flag! It's my first time making something like this and it shows, but I still like the result
https://redd.it/oqmdgv
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I'm trying to learn, does this meme more depict demisexual or aceflux or...?
https://redd.it/oqsue6
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Same
https://redd.it/oqtttk
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Asexuality Is Beautiful. 💜 For those who forget. For those who are told otherwise. For those who don’t know it yet. 🖤 Stay beautiful, beloved. 🤍
https://redd.it/oquvae
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"What a horrible night to have a curse"
https://redd.it/oqui6b
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I'm wearing this until my ace ring comes in because I can't wait. I'm so happy this community exists!
https://redd.it/oqvtwy
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Saw this post and was like *demisexual confusion* so I made a meme
https://redd.it/oqvo6w
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This post is aimed for D&D nerds but feel free to choose the dragon based on their looks
https://redd.it/oqze77
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Money is ours
https://redd.it/or25us
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