After a lifelong struggle, trauma, discomfort, tears and feeling seriously broken, I admitted to myself that I was asexual. For the first time in my life I feel like I can breathe. I am FREE. I can begin a new chapter of my life in which I am true to myself. I'm so happy.
I was always strongly sex repulsed (I'd rather be washing dirty dishes or going through trash to find a lost ring, you guys), I rarely ever feel arousal and my libido is nonexistent.
I came out to a few of my closest friends at work and my flatmates. It was difficult, but now, I feel so amazing. I no longer have to pretend I am someone I am not. I no longer have to worry about eventually having to force myself into doing things that repulse me and are foreign to me. I no longer have to feign interest in lewd topics just to fit in.
This is who I am, this is me. I am not broken. I tell myself every day now, Annie, you aren't broken. Different yes, but that doesn't make you broken.
I'm just so happy you guys. That's all. I guess I just needed a place to share my feelings. I'm almost 26, but I believe better figure this out late, than never.
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I was always strongly sex repulsed (I'd rather be washing dirty dishes or going through trash to find a lost ring, you guys), I rarely ever feel arousal and my libido is nonexistent.
I came out to a few of my closest friends at work and my flatmates. It was difficult, but now, I feel so amazing. I no longer have to pretend I am someone I am not. I no longer have to worry about eventually having to force myself into doing things that repulse me and are foreign to me. I no longer have to feign interest in lewd topics just to fit in.
This is who I am, this is me. I am not broken. I tell myself every day now, Annie, you aren't broken. Different yes, but that doesn't make you broken.
I'm just so happy you guys. That's all. I guess I just needed a place to share my feelings. I'm almost 26, but I believe better figure this out late, than never.
https://redd.it/olohyt
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After a lifelong struggle, trauma, discomfort, tears and feeling...
I was always *strongly* sex repulsed (I'd rather be washing dirty dishes or going through trash to find a lost ring, you guys), I rarely ever feel...
“How can you be asexual if you have sex everyday?” Well how can you eat if you’re not hungry?
Especially when your mom prepares a plate and puts it under your nose and expects you to eat. You know it will make her happy too since she hasn’t seen you eat in a while. Sure you don’t crave it but you can eat. That’s right, I don’t want to, but I’ll fuck your mom
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Especially when your mom prepares a plate and puts it under your nose and expects you to eat. You know it will make her happy too since she hasn’t seen you eat in a while. Sure you don’t crave it but you can eat. That’s right, I don’t want to, but I’ll fuck your mom
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“How can you be asexual if you have sex everyday?” Well how can...
Especially when your mom prepares a plate and puts it under your nose and expects you to eat. You know it will make her happy too since she hasn’t...
"Don't worry, we won't find any nudes in here."
A few weeks ago I was at a small gathering with friends that I'm out to and we were quite a few drinks in. I, being my usual self, was showing some cute pics of my cats and one of my friends took my phone and started swiping through my pictures with some others, looking at my cats, bad memes and dice pictures. I didn't protest, i have a lot of cute cat pics on there to share.
We were all laughing along but one of my other friends started to protest to not look through stuff that may be private.
So the friend that took my phone said what is in the title, and yes, she was right of course. It was a really good feeling to hear her say it so casually, like it was the most normal thing in the world.
A few swipes later she quickly put my phone on lock screen and tossed it back and went: "Nope I found something worse than nudes: D&D spoilers."
It feels good to have such a supportive friend group, it took me a long time to get to this point but now that I'm here it is the best feeling ever.
https://redd.it/olspcs
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A few weeks ago I was at a small gathering with friends that I'm out to and we were quite a few drinks in. I, being my usual self, was showing some cute pics of my cats and one of my friends took my phone and started swiping through my pictures with some others, looking at my cats, bad memes and dice pictures. I didn't protest, i have a lot of cute cat pics on there to share.
We were all laughing along but one of my other friends started to protest to not look through stuff that may be private.
So the friend that took my phone said what is in the title, and yes, she was right of course. It was a really good feeling to hear her say it so casually, like it was the most normal thing in the world.
A few swipes later she quickly put my phone on lock screen and tossed it back and went: "Nope I found something worse than nudes: D&D spoilers."
It feels good to have such a supportive friend group, it took me a long time to get to this point but now that I'm here it is the best feeling ever.
https://redd.it/olspcs
@asexualityonreddit
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"Don't worry, we won't find any nudes in here."
A few weeks ago I was at a small gathering with friends that I'm out to and we were quite a few drinks in. I, being my usual self, was showing...
Felt like drawing today so i drew this 💜(i swear it looks better in real life)
https://redd.it/olr55c
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https://redd.it/olr55c
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I'm creating a membership community for Muslim aces. Please give it a try even if you aren't Muslim
Salaam,
I wanted to get some feedback on a new Muslim membership community I am building. In my search for a companion after realizing I'm asexual, I found that even though there might be more of us out there, no one will be able to find anyone reliably with the current communities. Every Ace community I found was non-Muslim, and no Muslim community I found had any Aces in my age range, let alone location. So I wanted to create a community where we can find others like us, while also staying close to our Iman (faith).
The site is currently in the Beta testing phase, and will stay free for all members until the final launch. Here is what I am currently working on and I would love your feedback to help make this a community that protects the safety of its members, helps educate members and their families and friends about the Asexual umbrella, and to help our ummah navigate the world of being “queer” while staying true to our faith.
* A membership site that includes a website and app for both ios and android
* Free content that is heavily researched before publication on topics such as mental health, culture clash, topics in Islam, advice on finding a partner, and different sexual orientations
* Paid groups/ memberships at affordable prices that will allow access to private spaces that include the following
* Female only groups to discuss topics and chat with other females without visibility to males
* Male only groups to discuss topics and ask questions that females cannot see
* Companion groups where both genders are able to post and interact with each other in order to find a partner.
* Secure ID verification to help prevent fraudulent accounts, catfishing, scamming and predatory behavior. With Strict ID verification, we can help minimise threats to individual safety.
Please use this link [https://www.muslimace.com/share/fxPH1VWC1Ko8dvqb?utm\_source=manual](https://www.muslimace.com/share/fxPH1VWC1Ko8dvqb?utm_source=manual), or go to muslimace.com to navigate through the site and give feedback.
Thank you for your help
Arafyn Anon
MACE- For Muslim Aces
https://redd.it/olroto
@asexualityonreddit
Salaam,
I wanted to get some feedback on a new Muslim membership community I am building. In my search for a companion after realizing I'm asexual, I found that even though there might be more of us out there, no one will be able to find anyone reliably with the current communities. Every Ace community I found was non-Muslim, and no Muslim community I found had any Aces in my age range, let alone location. So I wanted to create a community where we can find others like us, while also staying close to our Iman (faith).
The site is currently in the Beta testing phase, and will stay free for all members until the final launch. Here is what I am currently working on and I would love your feedback to help make this a community that protects the safety of its members, helps educate members and their families and friends about the Asexual umbrella, and to help our ummah navigate the world of being “queer” while staying true to our faith.
* A membership site that includes a website and app for both ios and android
* Free content that is heavily researched before publication on topics such as mental health, culture clash, topics in Islam, advice on finding a partner, and different sexual orientations
* Paid groups/ memberships at affordable prices that will allow access to private spaces that include the following
* Female only groups to discuss topics and chat with other females without visibility to males
* Male only groups to discuss topics and ask questions that females cannot see
* Companion groups where both genders are able to post and interact with each other in order to find a partner.
* Secure ID verification to help prevent fraudulent accounts, catfishing, scamming and predatory behavior. With Strict ID verification, we can help minimise threats to individual safety.
Please use this link [https://www.muslimace.com/share/fxPH1VWC1Ko8dvqb?utm\_source=manual](https://www.muslimace.com/share/fxPH1VWC1Ko8dvqb?utm_source=manual), or go to muslimace.com to navigate through the site and give feedback.
Thank you for your help
Arafyn Anon
MACE- For Muslim Aces
https://redd.it/olroto
@asexualityonreddit
MACE - For Muslim Aces, Beta
This community is currently in Beta and testing, therefore all features have not yet been integrated. Salaam, Welcome to MACE - For Muslim Aces. This community became an idea during my search for a companion once I realized I wasn't "straight". Once I identified…
The Ace of Clubs is finished!!! I'm going to make two other versions of the simplified symbols for the number cards, one for the even numbers and one for the odd numbers, after that it's the Kings, the Queens and the Jokers.
https://www.reddit.com/gallery/olwegw
https://redd.it/olwegw
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https://www.reddit.com/gallery/olwegw
https://redd.it/olwegw
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a little gift my brother's girlfriend got me a few weeks ago :'). i didn't think of posting it until now, though! 😅
https://redd.it/olyh43
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https://redd.it/olyh43
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Came out as aroace to cousin sister, didn't go well :(
TL;DR: I'm 17 and came out as aroace to my cousin sister and she said to wait until I'm 18-19 because I haven't reached my puberty yet, but I know what I feel and what I don't for over 1.5 years.
So, I'm a 17y/o aroace (male) and I came out to my cousin sister last week, who is also 17. I tried to explain her what asexuality and aromanticism is by giving analogies, definitions, etc. but she kept insisting that I'm yet to complete my puberty and basically indirectly declining that I'm aroace. She kept saying that you might change once you become 18-19 y/o.Now, of course, after feeling invalidated, I checked about delayed signs of puberty and very well, none of those signs matched with me. I told her that I had already experienced the signs of puberty when I was 13 y/o but she refused to accept it. I then told about all this to another friend of mine, and while she was supportive before, she turned her back and agreed with what my sister had said.Now I'm feeling like I should wait and see if my sexuality does change. I feel sad and lonely because she was the only person I had ever trusted and loved so much. I feel really broken.
https://redd.it/olx9yg
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TL;DR: I'm 17 and came out as aroace to my cousin sister and she said to wait until I'm 18-19 because I haven't reached my puberty yet, but I know what I feel and what I don't for over 1.5 years.
So, I'm a 17y/o aroace (male) and I came out to my cousin sister last week, who is also 17. I tried to explain her what asexuality and aromanticism is by giving analogies, definitions, etc. but she kept insisting that I'm yet to complete my puberty and basically indirectly declining that I'm aroace. She kept saying that you might change once you become 18-19 y/o.Now, of course, after feeling invalidated, I checked about delayed signs of puberty and very well, none of those signs matched with me. I told her that I had already experienced the signs of puberty when I was 13 y/o but she refused to accept it. I then told about all this to another friend of mine, and while she was supportive before, she turned her back and agreed with what my sister had said.Now I'm feeling like I should wait and see if my sexuality does change. I feel sad and lonely because she was the only person I had ever trusted and loved so much. I feel really broken.
https://redd.it/olx9yg
@asexualityonreddit
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Came out as aroace to cousin sister, didn't go well :(
TL;DR: I'm 17 and came out as aroace to my cousin sister and she said to wait until I'm 18-19 because I haven't reached my puberty yet, but I know...
i came out!!
i (28, afab, enby) recently came out as ace after years of stress, denial and struggle ♠♠ just feels so good 💗💗💗💗
https://redd.it/om3ec7
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i (28, afab, enby) recently came out as ace after years of stress, denial and struggle ♠♠ just feels so good 💗💗💗💗
https://redd.it/om3ec7
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i came out!!
i (28, afab, enby) recently came out as ace after years of stress, denial and struggle ♠♠ just feels so good 💗💗💗💗
Just got sent this by one of my friends who I thought was completely fine with me being aroace and tbh I feel kinda guilty (and the spelling and grammar also bugs me) :(
https://redd.it/om3ogx
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https://redd.it/om3ogx
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