Hard time seeing the connection between love and sex
Maybe it's trauma based since I did experience unpleasant things against my will in that department when I was a child
But I just can't wrap my head around the fact that people have sex because they love each other. I always understood it for reasons of reproduction since babies don't grow on trees hahah yknow? And I do kinda try to get that people do it because it's supposed to feel good, even though I can't relate to that since i still find it gross. But it just feels wrong to think that you do it out of love? I mean if you love that person why the hell do you need/want to stick your genitals in them or need/want someone to stick into you, like what?? 😅
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Maybe it's trauma based since I did experience unpleasant things against my will in that department when I was a child
But I just can't wrap my head around the fact that people have sex because they love each other. I always understood it for reasons of reproduction since babies don't grow on trees hahah yknow? And I do kinda try to get that people do it because it's supposed to feel good, even though I can't relate to that since i still find it gross. But it just feels wrong to think that you do it out of love? I mean if you love that person why the hell do you need/want to stick your genitals in them or need/want someone to stick into you, like what?? 😅
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Is it just me?
Is it an ace thing to have less of a problem being naked in front of others or is it just me?
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Is it an ace thing to have less of a problem being naked in front of others or is it just me?
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