Saying that you've turned asexual is really problematic.

You cannot become a sexuality because it's not a choice, what can happen is that you've had a realization of what your sexuality is because you've done the self discovery and you now know who you are. I don't think people realize how dangerous saying that you've 'turned ace' is because with that logic you can turn yourself straight and this can be applied to gays, lesbian and trans people ect. This is also the same logic that's used in conversation therapy. It is that deep and it's not something that's okay to say. I understand that some people after going on hrt they might discover that they identify with a different kind of sexuality and that's okay but hormones can't change yourself sexuality. Years ago they used hormones and medications fix queer people . As for victims of abuse I know that there is another term for not wanting engage in sex because of tramua and using asexuality as a label just to not explain yourself to random people and that's completely fine.



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Is anyone else here like me—someone who loves romance but isn’t sure if romantic relationships are actually for them? What can i do to process this?

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Question?

What age did you find out about your asexuality

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Jughead, the one guy in classic Archie who *doesn't* eat the eyecandy 😏

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I’ve accepted that my dating life is just doomed

Maybe I’m being dramatic but it sure feels like its true, because I‘m about to enter my 30’s soon and if I ever think about dating again in the future I feel like its just going to be a revolving door of rejections not just cause I’m asexual but cause I’m still a VIRGIN and my dating history is pretty limited and different compared to others. I never had a sexual relationship so I have no experience and not feeling sexual attraction is already just enough to turn off people. Nobody wants to date a female virgin in her 30’s who has only had a “childish“ relationship history.

I honestly don’t care if I remain alone forever cause I been single for a few years now and I don’t miss being with someone. I love having my own freedom and not having someone whine at me over things that I can’t change about myself. Sometimes though I feel like it would be nice to have someone but I feel like its just not gonna happen and that actual true love is not actually real these days since half the people I know in relationships are only in it for financial support and to have a place to stay.

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