Yo, i just found out that this is how sexual attraction works ( or maybe i am dumb. Take this post as a grain of salt please, i might be the one who is misunderstanding the comment and it )
https://redd.it/1p6ypzh
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I dont know if im asexual or just insecure

Hey, so 17F here! I was talking to some of my friends and realized all of them have a lot of sexual experience which...I dont have.

I used to have a very strong libido when I was 15 and I did a bunch of stuff (like pics) but never physical, and I feel guilty ever since bc it was with an older guy. So after that I feel little to none actual sexual attraction to men close to me...yeah I have a crush once in a while and I make sexual jokes about it, or I enjoy being called pretty or stuff like that, but im too scared to actually do anything. Also bc Im really insecure about my body.

This only gets worse when I get boyfriends...they always want to do soemething and I dont want to, I feel horrible but I genuinely dont feel the need to do anything sexual. Could this be me being asexual?

https://redd.it/1p6zons
@asexualityonreddit

Libido vs. Sex Drive

Libido vs. Sexual Attraction***

My mistake on the title.

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Hello.

I have recently seen a few comments where someone was saying that libido & sexual attraction are two different things.

Is there anyone here educated on this matter that could help break it down for me? I would have asked the last commentor I saw, but it was on an archived post.

https://redd.it/1p6vtti
@asexualityonreddit

In the anime, James from Team Rocket (Pokemon) is asexual for sure
https://redd.it/1p7273d
@asexualityonreddit

am i asexual???

i've honestly never really thought about sex as a genuine thing before, mostly because ive had no sexual advances. recently i had someone comment on something sexual related to me very subtly, and i felt like literally crying. childish, i know, but i just felt so upset for no reason. i don't regard sex or masturbation as gross or disgusting, but i have no interest in it at all and the thought makes me panic and want to burst into tears.

https://redd.it/1p72mux
@asexualityonreddit

Accurate description
https://redd.it/1p75mj9
@asexualityonreddit

I need to share this .-.

Hey, I have never posted on reddit before but now I need some support from people of the ace + aro community… I have been out and proud as an asexual biromantic person since I think about five years now. My first ever relationship ended partially because I found out I was asexual during that relationship (but mostly other reasons this one just stuck with me .-.) and I got over it and when I got over it i immediately got a crush again (lucky me) and to cut a long story short I confessed my crush to this person and they were flattered but didn't think we would work out because you know … me being ace and all…. I think I got over that now. But now my best friend got a boyfriend. And I am super happy for her! But there is some part of me that starts to think again that I will never find someone because my asexuality will always be a problem. I know it's possible but I just feel a little hopeless right now and wanted to share this instead of botteling it up again.

thank you for reading <3

https://redd.it/1p75maq
@asexualityonreddit

I saw this line up of knights on Wplace and I added an ace knight

https://redd.it/1p789x4
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My godfather thought I was going to get a boyfriend after I came out to him

He really thought I was going to find a boyfriend, but I explained to him that I was aroace and I explained what it was and I also said that I wasn't interested in dating, and he understood well, he's like a father to me.

https://redd.it/1p7bc48
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