Does anyone go through different phases of alternating between high and low libido?

It’s been like this for me since middle school. Sometimes I can go a while without having sexual urges, or if I do have any, they’re relatively low and I’m able to resist them. Sometimes they’re unusually high and I can’t resist the urge to look at porn and/or jerk off, no matter what I do. It frustrates me to no end, because I have no intention of dating or having sex, and I’d be happy if I never felt these urges ever again. Anyone else relate?

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Do asexual people have crushes?

Like when you look at someone who matches your interests do you get a feeling of "i have to be with them" also a second question on top of that do you all ever feel the need to have physical touch like i don't mean simply "oh hugs are warm and nice" i mean like "if i don't get someone close to me to stick to me like glue I'm gonna collapse" sorry if these questions sound dumb I'm genuinely curious because i haven't met any asexual person before (or maybe i have but due to the certain phobias where I live I didn't know they were asexual) anyway genuinely curious about this and got other questions to.

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Please stop with the "how can people..." and "do people actually enjoy..." posts!

I wonder whether the admins here can clamp down on the endless stream of posts from people who post stuff like this? Does this sub really just exist to assure people that lots of people do, indeed, enjoy a variety of sexual acts? Are these people really so naive that they aren't aware of human sexual behaviour? Do we really need yet another thread in which we have a lot of people saying, "Yeah, that's pretty normal," and a lot of other people saying, "Ew, gross!"

I'm sex averse, myself, but I don't feel the need to go around making gagging noises because other people like sex.

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Can aro and aro-ace people have a dating relationship despite not feeling romantic attraction towards another person?



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Me irl
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How Do You Define Asexuality?

My partner and I are having a disagreement about what asexuality is.



In his view it is “not being horny.”



In my view it is “lacking sexual attraction to others.” You can still feel horny and get urges, you just don’t feel the attraction to another.


(And I do know it’s kinda weird we’re in a relationship, it kinda just happened 😅)

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Are there statistics on how common the various kinds of asexuality are?

the title, I'm really curious about it, I have only met a few aces in my life (I'm one of them)! All I know is that there's just a small percentage of the global population overall that is asexual in some way, not what kind of ace they are.

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Do you guys have kinks?

Being asexual, it might sound strange, but I mean those who enjoy watching it or get aroused thinking about it. I haven't seen many here who have one, and that makes me feel a bit like an alien 😅

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I hate post like this 🙄 you cannot turn acesexual
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