TIL Club Penguin had a scarf with the ace colors (minus gray but like c'mon)

https://redd.it/1oy28ys
@asexualityonreddit

Me too, Batman. Me too.
https://redd.it/1oy6q7v
@asexualityonreddit

Question for non asexual people with asexual partners

This is very simple and straight to the point. If your partner is asexual, has no interest in sex but doesn’t mind having sex with you because they know you want it. Why would you still have sex with them even if they say they don’t mind? Especially knowing that it’ll be 100% one sided? How could you enjoy sex with someone for basically your own sake?

I know asexuals can enjoy sex before anyone says anything. But Im talking about the asexuals who really could go the rest of their life without sex but only end up doing it because their partner seems to need it, so they just try to satisfy THEM which to me I think makes the sex not 50/50 at all.

https://redd.it/1oy7i6h
@asexualityonreddit

Exchanges on Hinge
https://redd.it/1oy2ke6
@asexualityonreddit

Stop sexualising everything
https://v.redd.it/d3g557cqvg1g1

https://redd.it/1oy2f7s
@asexualityonreddit

Did you also thought you were bi because you felt the same about everyone?

I thought I was bisexual because I felt the same for everyone. Then I realized that what I feel is nothing for everyone. So now I just label myself as queer cause anyone could probably not but almost get it if you know what I mean. Have you experienced this ?

Also what's your sexuality?

https://redd.it/1oybpz7
@asexualityonreddit

I made this weird meme and i hope y’all like it!
https://redd.it/1oy4wnz
@asexualityonreddit

Do you ever talk/think about romance drive?

So I see people talk about sex drive all the time but I dont see people talk about romance drive. And it's been a problem in all of my relationships way more than my tiny sex drive has been.

So the second I learned about asexual I knew that was me. But then I learned about aromantic shortly there after and I still don't know if tbats me. I say I'm aromantic cause I dont want to explain it to people. But I do want to a romantic partner. I want to have someone to go on dates and cuddle with. Someone I can show my whole self too. Someone to take to funerals (have you ever gone to a funeral by yourself? One of the worst experiences of my life.)

But

I only want to go on dates like once every other month. And things like gift giving, kissing, holding hands, all of those couple things I only like to do on the rare occasion. I do like cuddling a lot but I need my own bedroom and bathroom. I hate sharing a bathroom or a bed. And I need plenty of time to myself. Like at least two hours a day and at least 2 days a week. I just don't think about romance or wanting to be romantic often.

And yeah that would make me a terrible girlfriend. But all of the advice I ever got is that relationships are work and I'm just being lazy or selfish. But I feel smothered by affection. I feel about it the same way I do sex. I want it a very small amount and I'm willing to put in the work to go above what I want but there is a limit.

Does this make sense to anyone else or am I just lazy/selfish/crazy?

https://redd.it/1oyfc4s
@asexualityonreddit

They exist 🖤 happy story

I found out I’m gray and this week my gf told me she would be happy to spend her life with me even if it means we won’t have sex anymore together. It lifted something off my chest I didn’t knew lied there 🖤

https://redd.it/1oyjcnm
@asexualityonreddit

To each their own
https://redd.it/1oynubg
@asexualityonreddit

I posted on a relationship advice Reddit and now I need a hug

I posted in a relationship advice Reddit basically about how my partner is upset with our sex life. I won’t post many details but basically my boyfriend is regularly upset we don’t have sex as often as he wants to (which is every day) but we do around 1-3 (more like 3) times a week and as someone on the asexual scale that’s a lot.

Anyways some people were kind but a lot of people were also saying stuff like “you aren’t willing to do the bare minimum” or “you’re always going to have this problem” and just the idea that I should compromise because that’s what you do in relationships. Some people compared having sex when you don’t want to to listening to your partner when they’ve had a bad day.

Idk man. I feel like i really needs hug and feel so alone….

https://redd.it/1oymxh6
@asexualityonreddit