Anyone else happy/proud to be ace? This subreddit is dragging me down with it’s negativity
How many of you so not mind being ace? I like myself and a huge part of my person is me being ace. Having found out about the term, definition and flag has given me SO much.
But I seem to be part of the minority in that regard? Because it seems that so many people on this subreddit harbour resentment of their asexuality or are ashamed of it, even if there is nothing wrong with being ace. The amount of „I wish I wasn’t ace“ or „I hate being ace“ post seem frankly staggering. I came to this reddit looking forward to interacting with other aces and exchange experiences. But I think I will need to distance myself from this subreddit for my own mental health. The negativity is so overwhelming. I know that a part of this is probably sample selection. If you are settled in who you are (any maybe in a happy relationship), you are less likely to seek out an online exchange platform on the topic of asexuality. So this subreddit gives the impression that most/many aces are unhappy with their sexuality and can not seem to find good romantic partners. It kind of feels like a self fulfilling prophecy. Anyone else feeling the same?
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How many of you so not mind being ace? I like myself and a huge part of my person is me being ace. Having found out about the term, definition and flag has given me SO much.
But I seem to be part of the minority in that regard? Because it seems that so many people on this subreddit harbour resentment of their asexuality or are ashamed of it, even if there is nothing wrong with being ace. The amount of „I wish I wasn’t ace“ or „I hate being ace“ post seem frankly staggering. I came to this reddit looking forward to interacting with other aces and exchange experiences. But I think I will need to distance myself from this subreddit for my own mental health. The negativity is so overwhelming. I know that a part of this is probably sample selection. If you are settled in who you are (any maybe in a happy relationship), you are less likely to seek out an online exchange platform on the topic of asexuality. So this subreddit gives the impression that most/many aces are unhappy with their sexuality and can not seem to find good romantic partners. It kind of feels like a self fulfilling prophecy. Anyone else feeling the same?
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Y’all….i need to say something
Hey so, idk if it is the right place to talk abt it but it really made me want to talk abt it here since i noticed that most ppl here are sometimes annoyed by sex scenes.( which i agree ) but i just saw something that made me want to talk abt that subject and i hope it isnt too TMI. Sooo yeah
So i watched hazbin hotel season 2. I am not really the biggest fan of it but i watch it anyways since i am curious abt it.
I saw like an episode and it had the scene where vaggie and Charlie are together. Which was apparently a sex-scene
And ngl, i liked it so much. It made me happy.
Why?
It is bc most of the time when i watch an episode and there is a sex scene. They would show like…every detail on what they are doing which kind of annoys me in my opinion. And don’t worry i do not hate to ppl who like watching that. I am just sex-repusled and i am not into sexual things and all of that.
But the way that they made the sex scenes was different….LITERALLY. What they did was actually skipped that and instead of seeing them doing it in the musical episode we see them dance with cool dresses. But in reality they are infact doing it, they just portrayed the scene like this as if they are skipping it but they aren’t and when the music ended we see them sleeping in bed
And i personally find it so refreshing to see that bc of how i mostly get annoyed of seeing sex scenes most of the time to the point that i had to skip it. So seeing how they animated it in a way that they skipped the scene and replaced it with them doing a little dancy dance is so nice. Like, i love how they did that, i think it is cool.
So i decided to post abt it and wanted to know if anyone agrees and all of that
It is kind of a stupid post but i just wanted to talk abt it to see what your opinion is on that?
I would like to know
Edit: again, i don’t hate ppl who watch, make and enjoy sex scenes that are specific. It is okay if you do and you can enjoy it as long as you aren’t hurting anybody. It is just my personal opinion on sex scenes since i am sex-repulsed and i don’t really enjoy watching them. Especially when the scene is mixed with a dramatic scene which IN MY OPINION makes it more annoying to me.
So yeah, no hate to ppl who make, like and watch them. You do you boo
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Hey so, idk if it is the right place to talk abt it but it really made me want to talk abt it here since i noticed that most ppl here are sometimes annoyed by sex scenes.( which i agree ) but i just saw something that made me want to talk abt that subject and i hope it isnt too TMI. Sooo yeah
So i watched hazbin hotel season 2. I am not really the biggest fan of it but i watch it anyways since i am curious abt it.
I saw like an episode and it had the scene where vaggie and Charlie are together. Which was apparently a sex-scene
And ngl, i liked it so much. It made me happy.
Why?
It is bc most of the time when i watch an episode and there is a sex scene. They would show like…every detail on what they are doing which kind of annoys me in my opinion. And don’t worry i do not hate to ppl who like watching that. I am just sex-repusled and i am not into sexual things and all of that.
But the way that they made the sex scenes was different….LITERALLY. What they did was actually skipped that and instead of seeing them doing it in the musical episode we see them dance with cool dresses. But in reality they are infact doing it, they just portrayed the scene like this as if they are skipping it but they aren’t and when the music ended we see them sleeping in bed
And i personally find it so refreshing to see that bc of how i mostly get annoyed of seeing sex scenes most of the time to the point that i had to skip it. So seeing how they animated it in a way that they skipped the scene and replaced it with them doing a little dancy dance is so nice. Like, i love how they did that, i think it is cool.
So i decided to post abt it and wanted to know if anyone agrees and all of that
It is kind of a stupid post but i just wanted to talk abt it to see what your opinion is on that?
I would like to know
Edit: again, i don’t hate ppl who watch, make and enjoy sex scenes that are specific. It is okay if you do and you can enjoy it as long as you aren’t hurting anybody. It is just my personal opinion on sex scenes since i am sex-repulsed and i don’t really enjoy watching them. Especially when the scene is mixed with a dramatic scene which IN MY OPINION makes it more annoying to me.
So yeah, no hate to ppl who make, like and watch them. You do you boo
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