Note: don't out people 🫢

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I don’t have a license either
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How do you respond to why you don’t want to date?

I’m running out of responses to explain. I’m not aromantic, I just don’t want to date. Never started and don’t plan to rn. Last time I had this convo w/a friend, I said, “I understand the benefits/why, I love to see a healthy couple, but I’m not interested in it myself.”

They couldn’t understand it until they said, “… is it like loving shoes, but not wanting to make shoes?”

I said, “… yeahhhh” lmao they got the spirit though

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Am I Asexual?

If you are questioning whether or not you are asexual (including all microlabels), reply to this post with what made you start questioning, and why.

If you are too shy to post a reply, then you can scroll through the responses for the advice you may be searching for.

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The fact that i crave bodies sensually makes it even worse
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How did my candle holder turn out?

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any lesbian asexuals here

hi guys just wondering if any lesbian ace people here!

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Do asexuals like Chicago pizza?

Do asexuals like Chicago pizza? I must know. Thank you!

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I bought my very first ace pin
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"Thank God you're ace, the very thought of you having sex disgusts me"

Any time I bring up the possibility of me being asexual, it always turns out so uncomfortable. People have made weird questions about whether my bringing it up was just me coping for being ugly, or an incel, or just not understanding how humans "work". I imagine a lot of you have gone through similar reactions? I'm not sure how to handle it all.

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Any asexuals found love?

I know it's a weird question, but I've been rejected a lot for being ace and it would be nice to hear some success stories. Thank you :)

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Do you consider yourself attractive?

I know most aces are very humble. And that’s such a great quality.

I just wanted to get an idea of how many of us feel that you are generally on the more attractive side?

And then a question for everyone. How do you think attractiveness impacts the experience of asexuality? If at all. Thank you!

#discussion #curiosity #mindpicking



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Anyone else also childfree?

In 23M and I also am childfree. An additional hurdle lol. I don’t have anything against kids, but I’m just not sure if being a father is for me. And, I’ve heard and follow the advice that, if you’re not sure, just don’t have kids, since it’s not something you can undo. And contrary to what people say, it’s not just 18 years, I believe parents should accept the responsibility and be parents forever, cuz your adult kids could always need help.

Also, not to come across selfish, but I would rather just spend money with my future spouse on stuff we like to do than kids 💀

This is challenging for me. I’m from America, but my background is that my folks are Hindu and we’re ethnically Indian. I’m not out as ace to anyone irl, but I think my dad would genuinely find me being ace and childfree bad lol. I’m the only child of an only son, and my dad is a “bloodline matters” guy. My mom wouldn’t care, she’s super chill.

But yeah, wondering and would like to hear experiences from those of us who are ace and also childfree!

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I think I am Asexual

Any advice I have no idea what the hell is happening but I think I am Asexul I am confused

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I think I found an ally. Is it okay that he's not of the garlic variety?
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