I hate masterbating with a burning passion.

My reasons for being asexual and not having sex is plain ol “never thought about it other than learning about it and don’t care”.

I decided to masterbate. I get it. But I also don’t.

Like I rather be making an omelette with bacon in it.

…and that is exactly what I did. The food was good.

To the however we exist if we even exist at all… Thank you for asexuality in its simplest form as well as all else me.

Fun? I love being an asexual; but damn it all the hell that those such as me didn’t get no sexy drive. Pfttttttttttttt.

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This sexuality is a love hate relationship

i hate this so much , but yet i’m so lucky. I hate this because i’ll never be normal, and i’ll end up living alone. But i’m so lucky because there’s a chance i could be infertile, but that doesn’t really affect me because i don’t ever plan on having kids. Like genuinely i’m pretty lucky because if i wasn’t ace, i would be devastated, but like gwaiuwbehwjwksyenebeueieibeueuehr

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Everyone is accepting but?

So I have been out as an ace for 10 years. I have noticed that ppl will accept it when I tell them. However, when I say things like ”i have been seeing this new girl” ppl that know still act like I am trying to make the relationship sexual. Its like I never said that im ace. I have took it as a joke but now its getting old. Next time im gonna remind them that Im ace in case they forgot. Anyone relates to this?

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My roommates’ hookup culture makes me feel uncomfortable and out of place

I’m a 21 year old girl, and i’m still a virgin. i never thought it was weird and im fully aware that everyone is different..BUT i recently moved in with two of my friends, and they have quite a different sex life from me. They constantly talk about who they’re hu with in great detail and honestly i think it’s gross to hear about. i obv don’t wana hurt their feelings, but im stuck w this alienated feeling like something’s wrong with me. my friend group kinda mocks me for it, as im the only one left who’s still a virgin. i’ve thought about the fact that im asexual, but i still kinda hope i don’t have to have a label like that, and that im just not into HU culture. my roomates will bring guys over at night and hearing them makes me so grossed out and feeling weird. living at home w my parents used to be good because i wasn’t met w it as much. now its everyday im met w friends who constantly talk about sex in gross detail, and i’m honestly so tired. Am i normal for feeling this way? as stated i’ve considered asexuality, but idk..

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Coming out😊

I used to be a very very sexual person, even in my previous relationship, while finding myself within the relationship I discovered I am not into sex or hookups or anything in that sense. That was the downfall of my relationship but it's okay, I have found a new version of myself. I used to think I was emotionally broken and not okay since I couldn't get myself to do anything with my partner, but that was not the answer. The answer is I am Asexual. I've never met anyone like me. But I've googled and everything points to being asexual. So since I've cut everyone out of my life while being in the relationship and after since I thought I was broken and have literally no one to tell. I'm telling everyone in this community. I'm a 22 year old little Gay boy and I'm Asexual❤️

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Ace Ring
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Biromantic asexual confusion

Just a vent about how being ace makes finding your romantic orientation confusing.

I’m a 40 year-old woman, and I’ve known since my early 20s (when I found myself having some intense feelings for a female roommate) that I’m probably something other than straight. I mostly use the bisexual label nowadays, but I’m pretty sure I’m also somewhere on the ace spectrum.

I’m not sure if there’s a term for this but I feel like I’m some combination of grey ace and demi, because I do experience random sexual attraction to people sometimes but it’s very infrequent, and I find I don’t actually want to act on it physically unless there’s emotional intimacy and deep trust there. I don’t experience attraction to anyone based only on appearance, and things like celebrity crushes have always seemed completely foreign and bizarre to me (which I know is a common ace thing). I haven’t dated much and haven’t had sex in years, but I don’t feel deprived by it at all. I’ve just focused most of my energy on things other than finding a relationship, as it always just felt like something that would be nice to have but not something I necessarily needed.

What’s confusing about this is that it makes me question my romantic orientation too. I’ve only had sex with three people, all cis men. But the anticipation of it was always more exciting than the act itself, which never did that much for me. I have occasionally wondered if maybe I just prefer women, but I can’t say I feel that excited about the idea of sex with a woman either. I find women’s bodies more aesthetically appealing, but I have basically no interest in anyone’s genitals regardless of variety. And since I can’t really do casual sex and don’t want to just use someone, I’ve never had the opportunity to find out from experience if I actually prefer women sexually. So then I wonder, do I actually like women, or do I just like the idea of liking women because my experiences with men have been so disappointing?

To confuse things further, my sexual fantasies are almost exclusively about men, but it’s always some faceless man and almost never a specific real person. I’m also pretty sure I don’t actually want these scenarios to be anything more than fantasies. Even so they make me feel like a fake or an impostor, yet I like the idea of being with a woman romantically.

I recently matched with an ace woman on a dating app, and I realized I feel really comfortable talking to her largely because I know there will be no expectation of things turning immediately sexual. I never even realized before that I had been feeling this pressure and unconsciously putting walls up with allo people on the apps because of it, but chatting with an ace person feels so different and refreshing. I don’t know if it’s going anywhere, because we only just started talking, but it’s making me realize that maybe I’m more ace than I thought. I think I always hesitated to fully embrace the label before because I do sometimes experience sexual attraction, but it’s so complicated.

I’m not really sure why I’m posting this honestly, but I guess I’m just a bit confused and wondering if anyone out there can relate.

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