Am I in the wrong?!
So I’ve recently started speaking to this guy and he’s been talking an awful lot about you know however, I had put it on the table that it repulses me but I didn’t straight up tell him I was asexual.
I did feel like crap that I didn’t tell him though I spoke to a friend and they told me to be straight up with him, especially while it’s early on in the talking stage, so I did I told him and he had said “I can adapt to that” which idk what that means but I was happy so we spoke about it more and I told him that I know he wants to experience it all in the near future but I’m not that person to experience it with.
He then said that he “doesn’t know how to NOT be sexual” which in all honesty, annoyed me so I told him that if he wants to leave he can like I don’t care about it and if it’s too much hassle to deal with then he can leave but he told me to tell him where the line is but again there is no line I don’t want any do that full stop.
So am I in the wrong for letting him down slowly??!!
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So I’ve recently started speaking to this guy and he’s been talking an awful lot about you know however, I had put it on the table that it repulses me but I didn’t straight up tell him I was asexual.
I did feel like crap that I didn’t tell him though I spoke to a friend and they told me to be straight up with him, especially while it’s early on in the talking stage, so I did I told him and he had said “I can adapt to that” which idk what that means but I was happy so we spoke about it more and I told him that I know he wants to experience it all in the near future but I’m not that person to experience it with.
He then said that he “doesn’t know how to NOT be sexual” which in all honesty, annoyed me so I told him that if he wants to leave he can like I don’t care about it and if it’s too much hassle to deal with then he can leave but he told me to tell him where the line is but again there is no line I don’t want any do that full stop.
So am I in the wrong for letting him down slowly??!!
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Ace but I identify as straight to everyone
I've never told anyone that im like not straight, and like I dont think anybody would judge me but still it feels wierd to not say im straight because I realized s was disgusting and that straight people like it then I did more digging and realized im ace like a month ago. Sorry if this is the wrong flair, just wanted to get it off my chest.
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I've never told anyone that im like not straight, and like I dont think anybody would judge me but still it feels wierd to not say im straight because I realized s was disgusting and that straight people like it then I did more digging and realized im ace like a month ago. Sorry if this is the wrong flair, just wanted to get it off my chest.
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