how do aces date allos?
I'm ace and I would definitely prefer an asexual partner because I feel like I'd feel almost uncomfortable(?) with a sexual partner, but ik that's pretty uncommon (to find aces). For those who are dating allos, how do they idk manage their libido(?) without hooking up or having sex w you?
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I'm ace and I would definitely prefer an asexual partner because I feel like I'd feel almost uncomfortable(?) with a sexual partner, but ik that's pretty uncommon (to find aces). For those who are dating allos, how do they idk manage their libido(?) without hooking up or having sex w you?
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Made this small "bracelet" of the asexual flag (Might change flair)
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Made garlic bread to celebrate Ace Week yesterday! Plus my outfits from the week and a lanyard and some dice I made
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I hadn't known that the word "cake" was used as an euphemism for ass or butt until recently. It's kind of ironic? that there are many memes about asexual loving cakes
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Am I an Asexual if I yearn for it but cannot feel it or I just havent met the right person?
My experience with asexuality is full of doubt. That's a given, of course, since that's how you figure it out. But the weird thing I experienced was how that doubt was fueled by the partners I've had.
At first, I genuinely believed that I would like intimacy since I've consumed so much content around it. But when I experienced my first interaction with intimacy, I did not feel any arousal at all. I convinced myself that I'll like it eventually, but it did not happen. The worst part was that my partner would encourage me to spice things up, but I could not fake what I felt anymore.
Then I thought maybe it was the person I was with, but it went the same direction with the next two partners I had.
They all said the same thing, "Oh, what if you try this and you'll like it," and I just want to pull my hair out because I tried, and the answer is no. Sometimes I envy other couples; I also want to feel pleasure.
In recent years, I'm still filled with doubt. How many years do I have to figure it out and doubt myself? I wish I knew the answer.
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My experience with asexuality is full of doubt. That's a given, of course, since that's how you figure it out. But the weird thing I experienced was how that doubt was fueled by the partners I've had.
At first, I genuinely believed that I would like intimacy since I've consumed so much content around it. But when I experienced my first interaction with intimacy, I did not feel any arousal at all. I convinced myself that I'll like it eventually, but it did not happen. The worst part was that my partner would encourage me to spice things up, but I could not fake what I felt anymore.
Then I thought maybe it was the person I was with, but it went the same direction with the next two partners I had.
They all said the same thing, "Oh, what if you try this and you'll like it," and I just want to pull my hair out because I tried, and the answer is no. Sometimes I envy other couples; I also want to feel pleasure.
In recent years, I'm still filled with doubt. How many years do I have to figure it out and doubt myself? I wish I knew the answer.
Your thoughts?
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Fucking tired... Found this on IG...
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No clue what other flair to put this under... Close enough.
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