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Happy Ace week!!!

Starting today October 19th and ends October 25th is asexual awareness week.
I hope all my fellow aces have a very happy Ace week!!!!

Let's all eat cake and garlic bread!!!!!!!!

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How did you find out you’re asexual?

I found out masterbating. My face was all red and chapped as if a wrong bad product. Then when I left the bathroom I saw my coffee pot and I decided to make coffee. As I was making it; loving the taste I was like “This is so much better than any sexual activity.”

My reason for no sex is I just don’t care. No thanks.


Update: Hello fellow Asexuals whichever asexual term… I cannot respond to a lot of you. But just know; HELL YEAH! Hope you’re happy. Much love.

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Frustrated about what to say to BF

I’ve identified as ace for forever, and I know I am. But my bf doesn’t believe me. He says I can’t be ace if we have sex. We do have sex, but from my end it’s just to please him. I’m always super bored and faking it and definitely not interested or having fun.

I don’t understand how to explain to him that yes, I can be ace while also engaging in sexual activity. I don’t want him to know I don’t like it or that I’m faking it.

Okay Reddit, thoughts?

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Why does the Incel Wiki kinda actually get asexuality??
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People keep calling me gay after I say im asexual

People keep calling me gay after I say im asexual because of it being in the Lgbtq+ community

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how to not feel bad knowing i’m going to end my bloodline

first off, i’m out to my parents as asexual. unfortunately, i also don’t have any siblings, and i’m sure my parents are going to want grandchildren once i’m an adult. i’m planning on maybe adopting a kid or two, but i feel like that may not feel the same for them also, i’m diagnosed as autistic and i think i heard somewhere that it’s harder for autistic people to adopt children?? idk if that’s true or not

how do i stop feeling guilty about this??

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I am still disappointed...

When I was in college, this guy and I kept talking about watching iron man together. I loved those movies. We never watched iron man though, and I only realized years later that he only just wanted to have sex. :( He never even liked iron man at all! And first I hated myself for having been so naive... but fuck that guy, he is the loser missing out on iron man.

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I’m sure this has been said a million times, but I’ll say it again
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HAPPY ACE WEEK!🍰♠️

HAPPY ACE WEEK!🍰♠️
This is my first ACE week. After so many years of confusion and exploration this year, now I can proudly say that I am asexual.

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I don’t want to be this way

I always thought I’d “grow out of” my lack of interest in romantic relationships. In my teens I just acted like I was too cool for all the lovey dovey awkward high school dating. But as I’ve gotten older more and more I just wish to be…normal. In college I remember multiple times begging my own body to just please flip that switch that says “I would like to be physically intimate with my partner now”. Instead I went through cycle after cycle of starting to date a person, trying to make my mind and body just be normal, failing and they eventually breaking it off with me because to them I just looked like I had commitment issues. Or I was a prude. Or just a massive weirdo.

The older I get the weirder it is to society that I don’t have a partner. And frankly without a partner you miss out on alot. Just recently I was excluded from a friend event because the host said “sorry—couples only”. And don’t get me started on how many times I heard (about other people); “oh we were really worried about him but then he got a girlfriend” or “he’s so grown up now he’s even got a girlfriend!”. I am literally treated as less of an adult because I can’t hold down a partner.

And I know the rebuttal will be “just date someone who’s ace”. …do you all know how difficult that is? And I’m not a looker so I have trouble catching anyone’s attention. But trying to find that small sliver of a sliver of a percent of people in my area who are: single, ace, looking for a partner, find me interesting, and we get along in all other relationship facets? Impossible. I just want to force myself to be normal.

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