thoughts ?
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real
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Acephobia and Lesphobia

Acephobia and Lesphobia
Vent
What the hell do some people get off thinking that I can't be both?

Do you do everything? DO YOU?!

No?

Well, I don't have to either.

I still kiss long as my face don't get touched because I'm not letting my acne come back.

I still cuddle long as only the one where one is on their back and the other leans on them a bit as other cuddles I'll burn up.

Good lord.

I may be specific in my wants and needs; desires. But I don't choose that and I also have mild autism. Pppft. I'm more than happy to give an in depth description; explanation of it too for "relating same as me don't feel alone" purposes.

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Y’all i am so cooked. My cousin caught me-



Ok soooo hi!
This might not make sense but i am literally freaking out and scared bc my cousin caught me from being on the asexual sub and i am literally freaking out rn. Im scared if he is gonna tell my mom man


Ok sooo, i was scrolling on the ace sub somewhere from my comments but then decided to put my phone away to do something else. I was in my cousins house, we were having a great Time and all watching shows on the tv and making stupid jokes.

All of this was fun until my STUPID COUSIN DECIDED TO GRAB MY PHONE AND OPENED TO SEE THE ASEXUAL SUBS.


He was literally jaw dropped and i scream so loud at the top of my lunes to the point that his mom came in to Ask who yelled.

I grabbed my phone, got scolded by my aunt. And everything went silent. I felted so awkward bc after this he started to feel very uncomfortable around me and all of that and this has made me go insane. Bc il my cousin at the back of my hand. He has the BIGGEST MOUTH OF ALL, ik very well he was abt to snitch to my mom rn.

Cuz lemme tell you this. This dude snitches as loud as possible. Literally louder then the gospels man….


After leaving my aunties house i mentioned it on why did he grabbed my phone without permission and then he said how he saw a sub talking abt sex and sexuality….BRO I AM SO COOKED RN

I felted so embarrassed i literally thought of brainwashing him man. Do you know for HOW LONG I KEPT HIDING ASEXUALITY FROM MY FAMILLY. FOR FIVE WHOLE YEARS.


Bro i am literally cooked. And he had the BALLS to tell me this ‘’ bro at least my pages are normal, yours talk abt this- ‘’



….SHUT UP DAWG YOU TALK ABT YOUR STUPID TESTOSTERONES ( he overshares everything ) AND TALKING ABT BALLS AND PENISES MAN.

And you think I AM WEIRD FOR TRYKNG TO UNDERSTAND MY OWN SEXUALITY AND OTHERS?????

This HYPOCRITICAL BABOON


Y’all i am so scared rn…My parents are the ultimate anti-lgbts. This is gonna be SO HORRIBLE if he snitches on me.


Pls, quickly, help me try to brainwash him.


What am i gonna do??????



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Transphobia in this sub

The transphobia here is ridiculous and no one cares. Trans people say hey can you not use this language and cis people go NO YOURE STUPID AND HURTING MY FEEWINGS. Like come the fuck on. A transgender person will know 100% more than any cis ally claims to know about trans issues. I’m sick of this sub. Have fun with your rampant transphobia and the people it harbors. Bye. ✌️

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I’m not sure of my sexuality

I'm a teenager, so naturally I'm not sure what I am. I can feel physically attracted to both men and women, but I'm not bisexual; it's just that I like cute people. I can also feel attracted romantically, like I want to marry and everything, so I thought I must be heterosexual, right? But I don't even like the idea of having sex or any physical contact. I dislike kisses too. I always thought it was because I'm still too young, but most kids my age have sexual desires (16 going to 17), so I've been wondering if I could be asexual. Can I be both heterosexual and asexual at the same time? ¿Is there a term for it?

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Hello to the peeps scrolling through

I just wanna say hello to all the good folks scrolling through this sub. Hope y'all are having a a great day/afternoon/night/whatever time of the day it is for you.

Don't forget to drink water especially for those living in regions where it is summer time now. Take breaks and smile whenever you see a slice of garlic bread. Peace!

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Apparently, these are the first few spacing color options on imgflip. Guess this is why they call it spACEing
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'Finally' experienced some aphobia. 🙃

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Whoever came up with this is a genius
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Sounds relatable
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I mean, I can't figure it out either. Then there is the whole doing it thing....
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Sex ist so... Underwhelming

Honestly idk what I expected in detail, but it definitely wasn't this....
Idk so many ppl make such a fuzz about it.
And it's not like I haven't tried a lot of stuff, but it's all so unexiting.

Idk for me it feels like attraction cannot make THAT much of a difference...

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I hate being asexual sometimes

I keep seeing/hearing about people my age on tiktok or irl doing some romantic and sexual things with each other or those tiktok rants with block blast in the background about crushes and all that and I'm jealous. But my jealousy isn't caused by me not having anyone to do these things with, it's because even if I did, I wouldn't want to do these things. But I want to want. That's my problem. I want to feel those things, but I don't and it hurts me. Because I feel like I'm missing out a lot.
Me and my best friend recently kissed (again, 2nd time) (it's a long story okay) and I didn't really feel anything. I just want to like it, but I don't think I do.
Not having sex is okay, because I'm still a teenager, so I feel like it would be too soon anyway, but just to feel the need to make out with someone yk..... I really hope that someday when I'm older, I'll just, idk, stop being asexual. But I don't think that's possible. If in 5 or 10 years time I'm still like this, I don't know how I'm gonna live. Whenever I watch a movie or a tv show and there is a kiss or sex scene I'm just hoping that someday as an adult, I could experience this. But asexuality is not something you can grow out of, is it?

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How did you knew you were asexual? How are you supposed to deal with it?

Extremely introverted virgin. I've never had a romantic interest in real life, it has been either platonic or online. I've been thinking about being asexual since I was around 16yo, but it's confusing. I do want to have intercourse but my libido is really low, I get frustrated often, and thinking about actually having sex is kinda scary. I have never been able to get a partner, which is kinda sad imo. Any advice?

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The only sex I need
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What are the 10 most common things acephobes have said to you when you tell them you're asexual?

I got around to thinking today. I had this thought running around in my head. I was thinking of all the times I came out to people as asexual, and these negative experiences ran into my head.

In my case, I decided to make a list. I came up with 17 different responses I've heard in my lifetime by acephobes when I tell them I'm asexual. This is the list that I came up with just instantly. I wonder if anyone has heard any of the same responses I have or if anyone can relate. Let me know.

17 Acephobic things people have said to me.

1. "You just need to get laid!"

2. "How do you know you don't like sex? You've never tried it!"

3. "You're really missing out!"

4. "You just need a good screwing!"

5. "One night with me would change that."

6. "You're only saying you're asexual because you're ugly. No one in their right mind would ever want to screw you!"

7. "You're just repressed and need to live a little."

8. "You're just scared to have sex."

9. "You're only using asexuality as an excuse to avoid sex, because you believe sex is dirty."

10. "You're frigid!"

11. "You must have traumatized as a kid."

12. "You're just a loser who can't get laid. You couldn't get any if you even tried."

13. "You're just picky. You don't give anyone a chance."

14. "You're just an uptight prude."

15. "Nobody waits until marriage anymore, goody, two shoes!."

16. "You're just a weird geek and nerd that no one would ever want anyway."

17. "You're not a real man. You're just a little child who won't grow up."

So, that is my list. What are some things acephobes say to you? Anyone relate to my post?

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19 Acephobic Things People Have Said To Me When I Tell Them I'm Asexual.

I've been having this thought running around in my head lately. I was thinking of all the times I came out to people as asexual, and these negative experiences ran into my head.

In my case, I decided to make a list. I came up with 19 different responses I've heard in my lifetime by acephobes when I tell them I'm asexual. This is the list that I came up with just instantly. I wonder if anyone has heard any of the same responses I have, or if anyone can relate. Let me know.

19 Acephobic things people have said to me.

1. "You just need to get laid!"

2. "How do you know you don't like sex? You've never tried it!"

3. "You're really missing out!"

4. "You just need a good screwing!"

5. "One night with me would change that."

6. "You're only saying you're asexual because you're ugly. No one in their right mind would ever want to screw you!"

7. "You're just repressed and need to live a little."

8. "You're just scared to have sex."

9. "You're only using asexuality as an excuse to avoid sex, because you believe sex is dirty."

10. "You're frigid!"

11. "You must have traumatized as a kid."

12. "It's probably because of your religious upbringing, I'm sure."

13. "You're just a loser who can't get laid. You couldn't get any if you even tried."

14. "You're just picky. You don't give anyone a chance."

15. "You're just an uptight prude."

16. "Nobody waits until marriage anymore, goody, two shoes!."

17. "You're just a weird geek and nerd that no one would ever want anyway."

18. "You're not a real man. You're just a little child who won't grow up."

19. "No man would ever turn down sex. All men think about is sex."

So, that is my list. What are some things acephobes say to you? Anyone relate to my post?

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