I dropped the most obvious "hint" about my asexuality
CW: Sex frequently mentioned
Yesterday, I was talking to my dad and somehow the topic of sex came up. He was kind of awkward when talking about it, which I get cause I'm his teenage daughter lol. So I decided to tested the waters and see if he would be accepting. The conversation is paraphrased:
Me: "I honestly don't get sex or wanting to have sex with someone, it seems gross."
Dad: "Well, you may just be a late bloomer, and that's fine."
Me: "I don't know dad, I'm Fifteen, I would think me developing sexual attraction would happen by now."
Dad: "Hmm... okay. That might effect your future relationships, not everyone will want to just hold hands forever. You might never get into a relationship."
Me: "That's fine, I don't mind. I'm not going to force myself to do anything that I'm uncomfortable with. Maybe one day I could find someone like me, but if not that's fine too."
Dad: "Yeah, don't force yourself out of your comfort zone, I just wanted to let you know that most people will develop sexual attraction."
Me: "And, what if I don't?"
Dad: "I won't complain, Id rather not think about my kid....y'know anyways. I am perfectly happy if you decide if you never wanted to get into sexual relationship, though If that changes I would totally get it. It would be unrealistic to expect you to never feel sexual attraction. But, if you don't then hey." *Then he just gave me a smile and shrug*
Can I count this as coming out lmao? It seems to have gone well. Anyways, thank you for reading.
https://redd.it/1etf07h
@asexualityonreddit
CW: Sex frequently mentioned
Yesterday, I was talking to my dad and somehow the topic of sex came up. He was kind of awkward when talking about it, which I get cause I'm his teenage daughter lol. So I decided to tested the waters and see if he would be accepting. The conversation is paraphrased:
Me: "I honestly don't get sex or wanting to have sex with someone, it seems gross."
Dad: "Well, you may just be a late bloomer, and that's fine."
Me: "I don't know dad, I'm Fifteen, I would think me developing sexual attraction would happen by now."
Dad: "Hmm... okay. That might effect your future relationships, not everyone will want to just hold hands forever. You might never get into a relationship."
Me: "That's fine, I don't mind. I'm not going to force myself to do anything that I'm uncomfortable with. Maybe one day I could find someone like me, but if not that's fine too."
Dad: "Yeah, don't force yourself out of your comfort zone, I just wanted to let you know that most people will develop sexual attraction."
Me: "And, what if I don't?"
Dad: "I won't complain, Id rather not think about my kid....y'know anyways. I am perfectly happy if you decide if you never wanted to get into sexual relationship, though If that changes I would totally get it. It would be unrealistic to expect you to never feel sexual attraction. But, if you don't then hey." *Then he just gave me a smile and shrug*
Can I count this as coming out lmao? It seems to have gone well. Anyways, thank you for reading.
https://redd.it/1etf07h
@asexualityonreddit
Reddit
From the asexuality community on Reddit
Explore this post and more from the asexuality community
A gallery of aro/ace characters in anime & manga. Look for them at your favorite outlet.
https://redd.it/1ete3vy
@asexualityonreddit
https://redd.it/1ete3vy
@asexualityonreddit
Reddit
From the asexuality community on Reddit: A gallery of aro/ace characters in anime & manga. Look for them at your favorite outlet.
Explore this post and more from the asexuality community
Why do none asexuals say this 😭
Little rant here- so I'm a virgin and I know I'm asexual. I hate the phrase 'well you never know till you try it' when telling people. I don't need to try it to know I don't want it. Nothing turns me on (literally I took anatomy in high school), the concept of sex (having other ppl's body or fluids enter yours) grosses me out, and I don't like ANYTHING touching me down there. It's not hard to figure out that you're asexual.
https://redd.it/1etkxph
@asexualityonreddit
Little rant here- so I'm a virgin and I know I'm asexual. I hate the phrase 'well you never know till you try it' when telling people. I don't need to try it to know I don't want it. Nothing turns me on (literally I took anatomy in high school), the concept of sex (having other ppl's body or fluids enter yours) grosses me out, and I don't like ANYTHING touching me down there. It's not hard to figure out that you're asexual.
https://redd.it/1etkxph
@asexualityonreddit
Reddit
From the asexuality community on Reddit
Explore this post and more from the asexuality community
Suletta showing off her fingering skills. [Gundam: The Witch from Mercury] by (@apazeru)
https://redd.it/1eto6bp
@asexualityonreddit
https://redd.it/1eto6bp
@asexualityonreddit
Goku is asexual right?
So let's lay out the facts.We have seen all throughout classic Dragonball that he has been in situations where other male characters show Clear signs of arousal but he himself doesn't show the slightest sign of sexual attraction.I don't really see him brought up on convos about ace representation tho.
https://redd.it/1etqmu5
@asexualityonreddit
So let's lay out the facts.We have seen all throughout classic Dragonball that he has been in situations where other male characters show Clear signs of arousal but he himself doesn't show the slightest sign of sexual attraction.I don't really see him brought up on convos about ace representation tho.
https://redd.it/1etqmu5
@asexualityonreddit
Reddit
From the asexuality community on Reddit
Explore this post and more from the asexuality community