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All of my boyfriends dumped me.

Before the internet, I didn't know what being asexual was. I just called myself a nonsexual. I didn't know how to explain it to people, so I just told them I was saving myself for marriage. Throughout my life, I've only had three boyfriends. All of them pressured me to have sex with them and all of them left me within three months because I wouldn't give in. It taught me that I was not valued as a human being. I was just a body for satisfying their needs. Has anyone else been through something like this?

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What is best ace representation in media?

What is best character who is on asexual spectrum in media like tv to movies books video games or anything really?

I been wondering since bojack horseman introduced me to Todd who is confirmed to be asexual and kinda find it hard to find other ace characters in media and that are 100% ace in canon

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Ace/Aro Masterdoc

Hi all!

Some of you might know of the legendary Lesbian Masterdoc...

A couple of us are creating a similar resource for those looking to understand the ace/aro spectrum. Basically, the document that we felt we could have used some years ago :)

If you’d like to review what we have so far and share your stories, suggestions, or edits, we’d love to incorporate more ace/aro voices before we begin distributing it. Lmk!

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"Sexual joke" ok or not?

I 27f am not ace but my friend is. One day I was streaming my gaming for them (elden ring) and showed one sexual insinuating message in the game. Personally I found completely harmless and not misogynistic. They didn't say anything so I though maybe they didn't get the joke. But when i asked they got a bit snappy and said it wasn't funny AT ALL. Going on saying several times that the it just wasn't funny and being moody. It kinda made me feel bad and like I'm problematic and stuff... I didn't think it was that deep but now I feel like shit and that they won't hang with me anymore... Do guys you care or take offence about little jokes like "that's what she said" and the like?? Genuinely asking I don't want to hurt my friend 🥲

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So I was talking with a coworker about my love life, and...
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Not being picky

Even though I'm confident with identifying as Asexual, I still wonder if I'm just being picky. Yes, I do have some standards and wouldn't date anyone just because they say they like me. Occasionally though, I can't help but think, "what if Ijustput myself out there?".

But then I remember that even if I met someone who is exactly my type AND we hit it off, I would still have no desire to be intimate with them on that level.

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Am I asexual or stone butch. Sigh.

I think the flair is to be as you see it and rant. I don't know. Sigh.

I think I'm asexual. If I did have sex; I think I'd want for the person to use a body toy that doesn't have a head and is in my skin tone. Best I know how to explain it is like; the person wants to fuck me with a strap and so on; but I don't want to be fucked. But I do want to have sex and I do want the person to do some fucking.

No to pets, kids and being fucked.

Yes to kissing, cuddling; fucking the person with a strap, the person strap fucking the toy I said and all else life.


Also...

I am a lesbian. I am grunge lesbian. That stereotypical ness of long hair. I'm basically look like the actress Sara Gilbert and the singer inside her music video of her song "What I Am Is What I Am Is What You Are" minus the curls and cowboy boots.

You see the specific I am and am into? I'm a 1992 born kid. I feel limited for liking and being into lesbians specifically looking like them two.

Come on. There's got to be Grungy lesbians that look like them two of my age group and are as I explained my best with; with the Asexual.

When saying who I am out loud; I just say grunge lesbian because I have autism as well and don't like the way Assexual sounds. The word itself. Not what it is. All good. ...and just explain myself my dos and donts to the person. Bdbdhdjrhdhehehegeh annoying.

I highly doubt anyone understands.

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Asexuals who aren't aromantic, what do you call yourselves?

I'm an asexual but recently have been thinking... I am not interested in kissing a man but I will a woman, and I am a woman. Now the question is, what the heckle do I call myself? Cause technically I am not a lesbian cause I do not like sex but should I consider that as a title? And just say I'm not homo like that's a difference? Or is there another word for a woman who is attracted to women romantically but not sexually?

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Might be an old one, just found it and it hurts
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I really just want a movie or TV show with an asexual main character

I know there's some movies and TV show with aroace character and they're good! I love them! but sometimes I really just want a proper piece of media that's only completely about an asexual person and their struggles and thoughts and daily lives. I think it'd be nice to see representation like this and have something to fully relate to as someone who's aroace, you know? that's basically also why I'm patiently waiting for the lovess book live action, cause even tho I'm for sure over the age of the original target audience I'd love to see the story portrayed in a TV show

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Asexuals in a healthy relationship with a loving partner, SHARE YOUR STORIES💕

Had a dream which hit me with a lil sadness about possibly being those people who end up alone for the rest of their lives bUT I know people out there do have loving relationships with their partners while either their partner is also ace OR they respect their boundaries! Also feel free to share how you met and I'm looking for stories that symbolize long term relationships but please feel free to share anything! I need some good emotions and encouragement to know I possibly mAY find the one💕🥰 and even if I don't, I'm happy that you all have💕

You can also add articles if you want if stories from history as well if u have any!

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