Can I stay a virgin forever ?
Since I (F29) don't feel like making all the efforts that this implies (a bit lazy), I was wondering if we could escape this obligation and if people managed to stay virgins all their lives.
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Since I (F29) don't feel like making all the efforts that this implies (a bit lazy), I was wondering if we could escape this obligation and if people managed to stay virgins all their lives.
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I think I thought of a way to explain liking masturbation but not wanting sex.
I like soda. I don’t want to drink your soda. I want to drink my soda. It tastes the same and I know where my soda’s been so why should I drink your soda when I have my own soda? I don’t feel any need to drink your soda, I don’t feel the need to drink anyone else’s sodas. But I still like soda and will continue to drink my soda.
I don’t know if it’s a good analogy. I just thought of it while drinking soda.
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I like soda. I don’t want to drink your soda. I want to drink my soda. It tastes the same and I know where my soda’s been so why should I drink your soda when I have my own soda? I don’t feel any need to drink your soda, I don’t feel the need to drink anyone else’s sodas. But I still like soda and will continue to drink my soda.
I don’t know if it’s a good analogy. I just thought of it while drinking soda.
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I met a guy :)
So I met this guy and we have been really getting along and I like him a lot and he seems to like me too. I recently learned im asexual and he is the first guy ive talked to since I found this out. He randomly asked me today if I was by chance asexual, he asks random questions a lot so I dont think he was expecting a yes. I said yes and we talked about why for a minute and then I asked him if it changed anything and he said no and that I'm lovely. I was really trying to figure out how to tell him because I didn't wanna make things awkward or anything so I am really happy he brought it up and he is so chill about it. I am very happy :) this will be my first time in a relationship actually feeling comfortable because I'm not trying to force myself to do something I'm not comfortable with.
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So I met this guy and we have been really getting along and I like him a lot and he seems to like me too. I recently learned im asexual and he is the first guy ive talked to since I found this out. He randomly asked me today if I was by chance asexual, he asks random questions a lot so I dont think he was expecting a yes. I said yes and we talked about why for a minute and then I asked him if it changed anything and he said no and that I'm lovely. I was really trying to figure out how to tell him because I didn't wanna make things awkward or anything so I am really happy he brought it up and he is so chill about it. I am very happy :) this will be my first time in a relationship actually feeling comfortable because I'm not trying to force myself to do something I'm not comfortable with.
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Got my lgbtq-uncomfortable mom to take a photo of my aroace rings I got yesterday
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I’m about to start keeping my asexuality to myself. The AUDACITY of some people.
Hi, everyone! Happy Friday!
This is my third post in this thread.
Today, I had a different man tell me that I think like a man because I like to work, volunteer, focus on my studies, and work on myself. And that I don’t make having a man in my life a priority.
That I need to let my walls down and stop being so hard, and let a man come into my life.
What in the world?
I’m a aromantic asexual woman. I never had a partner or relationship. I am still a virgin and I’ve never had my first kiss. And that doesn’t bother me at all. I don’t have a desire to have an intimate relationship or have a romantic partner. I’m genuinely okay with being alone.
I can’t make myself like or love someone. I can’t make myself physically attracted to someone. This is the second man that thinks he can change the way I am. I’m not understanding this at all. Like, I’m telling you, I don’t like you like that and I’m never going to be into you like that. So, why do you keep persisting on this conversation with me?
He was like, you wouldn’t want me to cuddle you, play with your hair, and hold your hands? No, that’s literally going to piss me off. I don’t want to be intimate with anyone.
There’s only a few men that I would let them hug me. My father, brothers, and my male cousins. Other than that, I don’t want to be touched.
It’s crazy how some people don’t understand how there’s some people out there that’s okay with being alone and don’t have a desire to be in love or have a partner.
I was telling one of my cousins today that even though I don’t want a partner, I wouldn’t mind being a mother. And he was actually supportive. He was told me, you could always go to a sperm bank and start your own family. Nothing is wrong with that.
And that he doesn’t think anything is wrong with me not wanting to have a partner.
Jesus Christ.
Y’all have a good weekend!
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Hi, everyone! Happy Friday!
This is my third post in this thread.
Today, I had a different man tell me that I think like a man because I like to work, volunteer, focus on my studies, and work on myself. And that I don’t make having a man in my life a priority.
That I need to let my walls down and stop being so hard, and let a man come into my life.
What in the world?
I’m a aromantic asexual woman. I never had a partner or relationship. I am still a virgin and I’ve never had my first kiss. And that doesn’t bother me at all. I don’t have a desire to have an intimate relationship or have a romantic partner. I’m genuinely okay with being alone.
I can’t make myself like or love someone. I can’t make myself physically attracted to someone. This is the second man that thinks he can change the way I am. I’m not understanding this at all. Like, I’m telling you, I don’t like you like that and I’m never going to be into you like that. So, why do you keep persisting on this conversation with me?
He was like, you wouldn’t want me to cuddle you, play with your hair, and hold your hands? No, that’s literally going to piss me off. I don’t want to be intimate with anyone.
There’s only a few men that I would let them hug me. My father, brothers, and my male cousins. Other than that, I don’t want to be touched.
It’s crazy how some people don’t understand how there’s some people out there that’s okay with being alone and don’t have a desire to be in love or have a partner.
I was telling one of my cousins today that even though I don’t want a partner, I wouldn’t mind being a mother. And he was actually supportive. He was told me, you could always go to a sperm bank and start your own family. Nothing is wrong with that.
And that he doesn’t think anything is wrong with me not wanting to have a partner.
Jesus Christ.
Y’all have a good weekend!
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How do I get my parents to stop making jokes about me and my boyfriend having sex?
Me and my boyfriend are both ace. My mom CONSTANTLY makes jokes about us having sex and it makes me very uncomfortable. (She knows he and I are ace.) How can I stop this?
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Me and my boyfriend are both ace. My mom CONSTANTLY makes jokes about us having sex and it makes me very uncomfortable. (She knows he and I are ace.) How can I stop this?
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