purity culture and asexuality
I grew up in the 2000s-2010s and I tentatively say I was a victim of purity culture. I had the ring and the high I got from thinking I was better than everyone else makes me so embarrassed to this day. As a teen, I started labeling myself as a sex repulsed asexual and sometimes I think that I was just, being performative but I know now, as an atheist and an adult that I still am asexual. I feel comfortable in my identity and I am sex repulsed but I feel so bitter at the idea of not being able to stick it to big purity culture and be a whore. Like this isn't a joke, I wish I was not sex repulsed, I am so resentful of the way purity culture harmed me. I did turn out to be asexual but sometimes I still wonder if thats just because of my fear of intimacy because I didnt allow myself to explore. I'm happy where I am all in all but idk, tldr; i wish i could be sexually active out of spite
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I grew up in the 2000s-2010s and I tentatively say I was a victim of purity culture. I had the ring and the high I got from thinking I was better than everyone else makes me so embarrassed to this day. As a teen, I started labeling myself as a sex repulsed asexual and sometimes I think that I was just, being performative but I know now, as an atheist and an adult that I still am asexual. I feel comfortable in my identity and I am sex repulsed but I feel so bitter at the idea of not being able to stick it to big purity culture and be a whore. Like this isn't a joke, I wish I was not sex repulsed, I am so resentful of the way purity culture harmed me. I did turn out to be asexual but sometimes I still wonder if thats just because of my fear of intimacy because I didnt allow myself to explore. I'm happy where I am all in all but idk, tldr; i wish i could be sexually active out of spite
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Hey, bros, what are your sensual desires?
I’ve noticed that I like to dream about kissing someone’s neck or cuddling, hugging them or brushing their hair. I think if someone does that for me, these actions are pleasing too. What are your most desirable actions?
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I’ve noticed that I like to dream about kissing someone’s neck or cuddling, hugging them or brushing their hair. I think if someone does that for me, these actions are pleasing too. What are your most desirable actions?
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Fam look at these asexual flag trinkets I've been making 🥺
I'm just so proud of them bc I think they're so cute, like I put one on my bag and I love it so much 🥺 (I do sell them, so if anyone wants, I can drop links)
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I'm just so proud of them bc I think they're so cute, like I put one on my bag and I love it so much 🥺 (I do sell them, so if anyone wants, I can drop links)
https://preview.redd.it/a0qkktdu24hd1.jpg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1cc9bc477b322bf22d659ea2e753152fec69107e
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I'm working on an OC who's an Asexual Detective. The head kinda feels off though
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Cuddles > Sex
But the moment I share this opinion, I get allos trying to say “oh but sex is so good” or “oh just do both” or “you’re just not doing it right” like I don’t think you quite understand where I’m coming from with this
Or I just get people going “OMG fuck no you’re weird”
And I tried explaining the term “allosexual” to one of them and they’re like “oh, so… sexual?” Like intentionally ignoring correct terminology and the reasons why we need it
Like I’m not even sex repulsed but the lack of understanding from allos might actually drive me there one day ffs
Good lord at least my wife gets me.
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But the moment I share this opinion, I get allos trying to say “oh but sex is so good” or “oh just do both” or “you’re just not doing it right” like I don’t think you quite understand where I’m coming from with this
Or I just get people going “OMG fuck no you’re weird”
And I tried explaining the term “allosexual” to one of them and they’re like “oh, so… sexual?” Like intentionally ignoring correct terminology and the reasons why we need it
Like I’m not even sex repulsed but the lack of understanding from allos might actually drive me there one day ffs
Good lord at least my wife gets me.
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wanna hear a joke?
What do you call a fighter pilot that has never had sex?
An ACE pilot!
(My jokes suck)
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What do you call a fighter pilot that has never had sex?
An ACE pilot!
(My jokes suck)
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Writing a book about an aroace character
Hi, I am thinking of writing a short book about an aroace character that is mainly about love. It is going to be based on experiences mixed with an educational flair about many different perceptions of love and how it works and applying it to a real life situation. I myself can only imagine how it is to grow up as an aroace person, which is why I want to learn about your experiences growing up (small kid to teens), so I can make the story as authentic as possible. A big thanks in advance to everyone who answers, because I am experiencing a little bit of a writers block atm, cause I want to make this book authentic. <3
I have posted this to multiple subreddits if you are wondering, but I want to reach a few people, so I am trying to post it to a few subreddits.
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Hi, I am thinking of writing a short book about an aroace character that is mainly about love. It is going to be based on experiences mixed with an educational flair about many different perceptions of love and how it works and applying it to a real life situation. I myself can only imagine how it is to grow up as an aroace person, which is why I want to learn about your experiences growing up (small kid to teens), so I can make the story as authentic as possible. A big thanks in advance to everyone who answers, because I am experiencing a little bit of a writers block atm, cause I want to make this book authentic. <3
I have posted this to multiple subreddits if you are wondering, but I want to reach a few people, so I am trying to post it to a few subreddits.
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New account but not new to this subreddit
Just wanted to introduce myself, I had to delete my old account because I posted about myself on a bad sub and apparently those people hate people who are different. I was constantly being harassed and my only option left was to delete my account.
I am 34 years old and Asexual 100% and kind of aromantic. I am an AAA, Asexual, Aromantic, and Autistic. I’d live to answer any questions anyone might have.
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Just wanted to introduce myself, I had to delete my old account because I posted about myself on a bad sub and apparently those people hate people who are different. I was constantly being harassed and my only option left was to delete my account.
I am 34 years old and Asexual 100% and kind of aromantic. I am an AAA, Asexual, Aromantic, and Autistic. I’d live to answer any questions anyone might have.
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