I wish boobs weren't sexualised
Like, at all. I wish I could walk around totally topless during a hot summer day, or wear pretty see through tops without a bra or anything underneath and not have weird looks thrown at me and gross people trying to make moves on me.
Allos are so damn weird.
Also, apart from boobs quite literally being just baby feeders and nothing more, they are so aesthetically pleasing! It's such a shame we have to hide them In most cases. I wish walking around with a bare chest was as casual as wearing a pair of shorts and showing off your legs.
Anyone else feel this way?
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Like, at all. I wish I could walk around totally topless during a hot summer day, or wear pretty see through tops without a bra or anything underneath and not have weird looks thrown at me and gross people trying to make moves on me.
Allos are so damn weird.
Also, apart from boobs quite literally being just baby feeders and nothing more, they are so aesthetically pleasing! It's such a shame we have to hide them In most cases. I wish walking around with a bare chest was as casual as wearing a pair of shorts and showing off your legs.
Anyone else feel this way?
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I wish boobs weren't sexualised
Like, at all. I wish I could walk around totally topless during a hot summer day, or wear pretty see through tops without a bra or anything...
Daughter (13) just announced she’s ace. Help me support her?
Title pretty much sums it up. A little extra info on her: she’s incredibly smart, somewhat socially isolated (Covid, anxiety, private, all-girls school did lots of home learning over the last two years), and she’s very articulate. Her dad and I are absolutely happy to support her in whatever way she needs. She seemed excited to announce it to us, and told me that a few weeks ago, she heard the term asexuality and did some research and felt like the whole concept really resonated with her. She also stated that “the concept of having sex for enjoyment just seems like something she’ll ever understand”. So she decided that this is her identity (her words).
Just wondering what other ace people would have wanted from their parents at this stage and age.
Also (and forgive me if I step on toes here, I’ve done sooo much reading the last few days that my mind is spinning), is it reasonable to wonder if she hasn’t had enough life experience to even experience sexual attraction? She is only just entering puberty, hormones have barely just started to kick in. Again, I don’t care how she identifies, I just want to make sure she feels supported. She already sees a private therapist, as well as the school counselor, regularly.
Thanks for listening!
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Title pretty much sums it up. A little extra info on her: she’s incredibly smart, somewhat socially isolated (Covid, anxiety, private, all-girls school did lots of home learning over the last two years), and she’s very articulate. Her dad and I are absolutely happy to support her in whatever way she needs. She seemed excited to announce it to us, and told me that a few weeks ago, she heard the term asexuality and did some research and felt like the whole concept really resonated with her. She also stated that “the concept of having sex for enjoyment just seems like something she’ll ever understand”. So she decided that this is her identity (her words).
Just wondering what other ace people would have wanted from their parents at this stage and age.
Also (and forgive me if I step on toes here, I’ve done sooo much reading the last few days that my mind is spinning), is it reasonable to wonder if she hasn’t had enough life experience to even experience sexual attraction? She is only just entering puberty, hormones have barely just started to kick in. Again, I don’t care how she identifies, I just want to make sure she feels supported. She already sees a private therapist, as well as the school counselor, regularly.
Thanks for listening!
https://redd.it/u7vy31
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Daughter (13) just announced she’s ace. Help me support her?
Title pretty much sums it up. A little extra info on her: she’s incredibly smart, somewhat socially isolated (Covid, anxiety, private, all-girls...
is this hoodie too obvious? my parents are aphobic but i really want aroace pride.
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Harder to explain being kiss averse than asexual
I hate mouth kissing. It grosses me out and genuinely just looks boring. Like I’ll read a story where it says “they made out on the couch for hours” and I’m like “but *why*?” At least s*x stimulates body parts that create physical pleasure. That’s just… a mouth? Touching another mouth? My mouth is not sensitive. The only pleasure I get is from putting food in it.
But any time I explain this to people, they look at me like I have three heads. I’ve had friends and former partners more understanding about not experiencing sexual attraction than about not wanting to be kissed on the mouth.
This despite the fact that mouth kissing is not a universal thing. In fact more cultures DON’T make out than do. So why am I the odd one here?
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I hate mouth kissing. It grosses me out and genuinely just looks boring. Like I’ll read a story where it says “they made out on the couch for hours” and I’m like “but *why*?” At least s*x stimulates body parts that create physical pleasure. That’s just… a mouth? Touching another mouth? My mouth is not sensitive. The only pleasure I get is from putting food in it.
But any time I explain this to people, they look at me like I have three heads. I’ve had friends and former partners more understanding about not experiencing sexual attraction than about not wanting to be kissed on the mouth.
This despite the fact that mouth kissing is not a universal thing. In fact more cultures DON’T make out than do. So why am I the odd one here?
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Harder to explain being kiss averse than asexual
I hate mouth kissing. It grosses me out and genuinely just looks boring. Like I’ll read a story where it says “they made out on the couch for...
ITS THE SAME SOURCE OF ASSHOLNES. They can't handle the idea someone is ~not breeding~, for them, breeding reflexes are same as "love". You are betraying your specie by not breeding. That's why they are pissed. Fucking animals.
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Saw this trend on TikTok, got kind of disgusted and decided to make my own version
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