kissing (and how I thought I was broken)
Hello everyone!
I want to know if anybody has had a similar experience.
So, back when I was in middle school I figured out I didn't feel attracted to men. Logical conclusion: freaking out cause I might be a lesbian.
A couple of years later, I kissed my best friend. And it was... fine. Just fine. It was nice to kiss her, cause I love her and she's great and she deserves nice kisses. But I didn't have any physiological reaction.
So I thought: maybe I AM straight?
Later on, a guy kissed me, and I was expecting to finally feel a reaction. But no. It was actually worse. With my friend, it had felt nice because it was soft and I had kissed her. With him, he was way rougher and was more of a sloppy makeout. He seemed incredibly into it, so I started to freak out because I thought something was wrong with me.
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After many other experiences like this one and years of thinking there was something wrong with me, I finally found out that I am asexual. But still, I can't help but wonder if something is actually wrong. Is this a normal thing for other ace/aro people?
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Hello everyone!
I want to know if anybody has had a similar experience.
So, back when I was in middle school I figured out I didn't feel attracted to men. Logical conclusion: freaking out cause I might be a lesbian.
A couple of years later, I kissed my best friend. And it was... fine. Just fine. It was nice to kiss her, cause I love her and she's great and she deserves nice kisses. But I didn't have any physiological reaction.
So I thought: maybe I AM straight?
Later on, a guy kissed me, and I was expecting to finally feel a reaction. But no. It was actually worse. With my friend, it had felt nice because it was soft and I had kissed her. With him, he was way rougher and was more of a sloppy makeout. He seemed incredibly into it, so I started to freak out because I thought something was wrong with me.
​
After many other experiences like this one and years of thinking there was something wrong with me, I finally found out that I am asexual. But still, I can't help but wonder if something is actually wrong. Is this a normal thing for other ace/aro people?
https://redd.it/tnkq20
@asexualityonreddit
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kissing (and how I thought I was broken)
Hello everyone! I want to know if anybody has had a similar experience. So, back when I was in middle school I figured out I didn't feel...
💚🤍💜 "A" Stands For The Whole "A-Spec(trum)": But What Do The Other Symbols Stand For❓🤔
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Saw this prominently displayed at my local Barnes & Nobles :) (see bottom right of photo)
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Finally, AceHub, where you only find people cuddling and holding hands
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Read this and instantly thought of this sub I love this meme
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Man I sometimes wish I was not ace.
Iike I just want affection,and like to feel like i can have people love me.
But the only people who want me only want me for sexual attraction, or sex. I don’t know why it’s like this, and I don’t want to live like this anymore. But when I tell people I’m asexual they assume it’s just them. Or they accept it but pull away all interest in me. And I’m still there craving some type of love.
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Iike I just want affection,and like to feel like i can have people love me.
But the only people who want me only want me for sexual attraction, or sex. I don’t know why it’s like this, and I don’t want to live like this anymore. But when I tell people I’m asexual they assume it’s just them. Or they accept it but pull away all interest in me. And I’m still there craving some type of love.
https://redd.it/tpnroa
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Man I sometimes wish I was not ace.
Iike I just want affection,and like to feel like i can have people love me. But the only people who want me only want me for sexual attraction,...