Turns Out 'm Not Ace
Since I was about 12 I thought I was ace. Turns out 'm not. I'm just very, very demi-sexual. Like fully repulsed apart from him. So yea. It's been a wild ride. Not really. Been quite tame. Anywho, 'm stayin' in the subreddit cus y'all 're cool as heck 'nd I don't wanna leave yet. <3
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Since I was about 12 I thought I was ace. Turns out 'm not. I'm just very, very demi-sexual. Like fully repulsed apart from him. So yea. It's been a wild ride. Not really. Been quite tame. Anywho, 'm stayin' in the subreddit cus y'all 're cool as heck 'nd I don't wanna leave yet. <3
https://redd.it/skvxzl
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Turns Out 'm Not Ace
Since I was about 12 I thought I was ace. Turns out 'm not. I'm just very, very demi-sexual. Like fully repulsed apart from him. So yea. It's been...
I have lots of sex but think I might be asexual?
A few pointers here:
1. Previously I had been single for 5 years after breaking up with my boyfriend and “sex” has never crossed my mind. Never thought about it or felt deprived. In fact when I was dating someone I went up to his place and never even thought of touching him.
2. I have never reached orgasm, and I don’t masturbate as well because I’m scared which brings me to the next point
3. I am so damn scared of the female vagina!!! Lol. Looks so raw and fleshy and I don’t touch it myself cos I imagine I’ll hate the feeling. When men finger me it’s okay, I just don’t do it myself.
4. I have since started dating around a lot and admittedly - sleeping around. But I still don’t enjoy sex. I LOVE The idea of it! I get all kinky and tease them and wear all sexy - but when it comes down to penetration most of the time in my head I’m just relieved when he finished and the sex ends.
5. Again - I love the idea of sex, but never enjoyed it no matter how “good” it was. Most of my fav is the foreplay and the dry humping / grinding. But as soon as the genitalia is out… then I just want to get it over and done with.
FINALLY -
so what if I’m asexual and what if I’m not? what impact or difference would it make? Because if I’m asexual and I never felt the sexual urge or need to “release” it shouldn’t affect anything right?
The only thing I can think of is future husband / boyfriend - but I CAN have sex.
So are there really any potential concerns I should take note of ? Sorry guys I’m new to the community and have a lot to learn from. Thank you and appreciate your educating me!
https://redd.it/skx5am
@asexualityonreddit
A few pointers here:
1. Previously I had been single for 5 years after breaking up with my boyfriend and “sex” has never crossed my mind. Never thought about it or felt deprived. In fact when I was dating someone I went up to his place and never even thought of touching him.
2. I have never reached orgasm, and I don’t masturbate as well because I’m scared which brings me to the next point
3. I am so damn scared of the female vagina!!! Lol. Looks so raw and fleshy and I don’t touch it myself cos I imagine I’ll hate the feeling. When men finger me it’s okay, I just don’t do it myself.
4. I have since started dating around a lot and admittedly - sleeping around. But I still don’t enjoy sex. I LOVE The idea of it! I get all kinky and tease them and wear all sexy - but when it comes down to penetration most of the time in my head I’m just relieved when he finished and the sex ends.
5. Again - I love the idea of sex, but never enjoyed it no matter how “good” it was. Most of my fav is the foreplay and the dry humping / grinding. But as soon as the genitalia is out… then I just want to get it over and done with.
FINALLY -
so what if I’m asexual and what if I’m not? what impact or difference would it make? Because if I’m asexual and I never felt the sexual urge or need to “release” it shouldn’t affect anything right?
The only thing I can think of is future husband / boyfriend - but I CAN have sex.
So are there really any potential concerns I should take note of ? Sorry guys I’m new to the community and have a lot to learn from. Thank you and appreciate your educating me!
https://redd.it/skx5am
@asexualityonreddit
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r/Asexual - I have lots of sex but think I might be asexual?
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We are the Great African LGBTIQ+ …..We are not in closet…… we came out Years ago! We celebrate our gender everyday
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We are the Great African LGBTIQ+ …..We are not in closet…… we came...
Posted in r/Asexual by u/Emmus1997 • 157 points and 2 comments
When you have difficulty making and maintaining eye contact with certain people so you always end up staring at their lips and and they think you want to kiss them.
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