Reminder that what you wear doesn't matter and there is many ways to be ace (OC)
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Reminder that what you wear doesn't matter and there is many ways to be ace (OC)
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Turns Out 'm Not Ace
Since I was about 12 I thought I was ace. Turns out 'm not. I'm just very, very demi-sexual. Like fully repulsed apart from him. So yea. It's been a wild ride. Not really. Been quite tame. Anywho, 'm stayin' in the subreddit cus y'all 're cool as heck 'nd I don't wanna leave yet. <3
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Since I was about 12 I thought I was ace. Turns out 'm not. I'm just very, very demi-sexual. Like fully repulsed apart from him. So yea. It's been a wild ride. Not really. Been quite tame. Anywho, 'm stayin' in the subreddit cus y'all 're cool as heck 'nd I don't wanna leave yet. <3
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Turns Out 'm Not Ace
Since I was about 12 I thought I was ace. Turns out 'm not. I'm just very, very demi-sexual. Like fully repulsed apart from him. So yea. It's been...
I have lots of sex but think I might be asexual?
A few pointers here:
1. Previously I had been single for 5 years after breaking up with my boyfriend and “sex” has never crossed my mind. Never thought about it or felt deprived. In fact when I was dating someone I went up to his place and never even thought of touching him.
2. I have never reached orgasm, and I don’t masturbate as well because I’m scared which brings me to the next point
3. I am so damn scared of the female vagina!!! Lol. Looks so raw and fleshy and I don’t touch it myself cos I imagine I’ll hate the feeling. When men finger me it’s okay, I just don’t do it myself.
4. I have since started dating around a lot and admittedly - sleeping around. But I still don’t enjoy sex. I LOVE The idea of it! I get all kinky and tease them and wear all sexy - but when it comes down to penetration most of the time in my head I’m just relieved when he finished and the sex ends.
5. Again - I love the idea of sex, but never enjoyed it no matter how “good” it was. Most of my fav is the foreplay and the dry humping / grinding. But as soon as the genitalia is out… then I just want to get it over and done with.
FINALLY -
so what if I’m asexual and what if I’m not? what impact or difference would it make? Because if I’m asexual and I never felt the sexual urge or need to “release” it shouldn’t affect anything right?
The only thing I can think of is future husband / boyfriend - but I CAN have sex.
So are there really any potential concerns I should take note of ? Sorry guys I’m new to the community and have a lot to learn from. Thank you and appreciate your educating me!
https://redd.it/skx5am
@asexualityonreddit
A few pointers here:
1. Previously I had been single for 5 years after breaking up with my boyfriend and “sex” has never crossed my mind. Never thought about it or felt deprived. In fact when I was dating someone I went up to his place and never even thought of touching him.
2. I have never reached orgasm, and I don’t masturbate as well because I’m scared which brings me to the next point
3. I am so damn scared of the female vagina!!! Lol. Looks so raw and fleshy and I don’t touch it myself cos I imagine I’ll hate the feeling. When men finger me it’s okay, I just don’t do it myself.
4. I have since started dating around a lot and admittedly - sleeping around. But I still don’t enjoy sex. I LOVE The idea of it! I get all kinky and tease them and wear all sexy - but when it comes down to penetration most of the time in my head I’m just relieved when he finished and the sex ends.
5. Again - I love the idea of sex, but never enjoyed it no matter how “good” it was. Most of my fav is the foreplay and the dry humping / grinding. But as soon as the genitalia is out… then I just want to get it over and done with.
FINALLY -
so what if I’m asexual and what if I’m not? what impact or difference would it make? Because if I’m asexual and I never felt the sexual urge or need to “release” it shouldn’t affect anything right?
The only thing I can think of is future husband / boyfriend - but I CAN have sex.
So are there really any potential concerns I should take note of ? Sorry guys I’m new to the community and have a lot to learn from. Thank you and appreciate your educating me!
https://redd.it/skx5am
@asexualityonreddit
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r/Asexual - I have lots of sex but think I might be asexual?
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