I've noticed a lot of casual sexism and slut shaming here.
It makes me not want to contribute. Women face so many obstacles already. Can we not add to it by calling women who enjoy sex sluts, hookers, and other hurtful things so casually? We know what it's like to be misunderstood and hurt. Please stop doing it to others. You don't need to bring allos, especially women, down to shine light on your struggles and pain.
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It makes me not want to contribute. Women face so many obstacles already. Can we not add to it by calling women who enjoy sex sluts, hookers, and other hurtful things so casually? We know what it's like to be misunderstood and hurt. Please stop doing it to others. You don't need to bring allos, especially women, down to shine light on your struggles and pain.
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I've noticed a lot of casual sexism and slut shaming here.
It makes me not want to contribute. Women face so many obstacles already. Can we not add to it by calling women who enjoy sex sluts, hookers, and...
Hugs are amazing for my depression. Kisses are fine but not a fan of making out. :)
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I just bought my first ace flag :) (ps. My family doesn’t know I’m ace)
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I have specialized training for denmark and I won't hesitate to use it
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I wish we could normalise platonic hugging
Why do allos find it weird if you wanna cuddle with someone that's just a friend and have no romantic/sexual feelings towards?
A lot of people won't hug someone the same gender as them because they don't wanna be seen as gay, and won't hug someone a different gender as them because they don't want people to think that they're together. Then of these people go on to complain that they're touch starved.
I just don't get it? Who actually cares what other people think? I cuddle with my best friend while some people think that we're together, but I don't care because it's damn nice to get hugged.
Sure don't hug a stranger or someone you've just met, but why not cuddle with someone you trust? Platonic love exists too god damnit.
But a lot people who are in relationships think that if they're partner hugs them then they're gonna have sex, and won't bother to have intimacy with them if they know they're not gonna have sex. I don't understand people like this.
Hugging does not equal sex.
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Why do allos find it weird if you wanna cuddle with someone that's just a friend and have no romantic/sexual feelings towards?
A lot of people won't hug someone the same gender as them because they don't wanna be seen as gay, and won't hug someone a different gender as them because they don't want people to think that they're together. Then of these people go on to complain that they're touch starved.
I just don't get it? Who actually cares what other people think? I cuddle with my best friend while some people think that we're together, but I don't care because it's damn nice to get hugged.
Sure don't hug a stranger or someone you've just met, but why not cuddle with someone you trust? Platonic love exists too god damnit.
But a lot people who are in relationships think that if they're partner hugs them then they're gonna have sex, and won't bother to have intimacy with them if they know they're not gonna have sex. I don't understand people like this.
Hugging does not equal sex.
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I wish we could normalise platonic hugging
Why do allos find it weird if you wanna cuddle with someone that's just a friend and have no romantic/sexual feelings towards? A lot of people...