having kids

So I can't be the only person who is an ace and also wants kids later in life, so I am wondering what is the best way to approach getting/having kids, as an ace

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Can someone explain what this means?
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Hi :) just wanted to say this group has some of the kindest vibes ever with a touch of angst. Y’all are so cool :) and many of you have changed my life by showing me acceptance -a fellow aro ace

Not even kidding, most of the time this group is so wholesome and positive! I love that we can share our hard times and not have to carry it alone.

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I just want to eat my garlic bread in peace
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I know some people like a big coming out but I’m just happy with it being something natural that comes out and we move on from rather than them asking a lot of questions and giving me confused looks cause they don’t understand lol
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an asexual flex

My biggest flex as an asexual is that I’m able to admire a woman’s body without sexualizing her. It is my true super power.

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What are some stupid things you thought before you realized you were asexual?

A couple years ago, I remember somehow convincing myself that the reason I wasn't sexually attracted to women even though I liked them romantically was that I wasn't masculine enough, and started lifting weights in the hopes that it would change.

It didn't work, but it did make me more fit and satisfied with the way I look, so it ended up working out for me.

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"So you mean that you can't ever love someone?"
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I just thought the colors are pretty much ace
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I remembered the time a classmate came out as demi in a groupchat, then I remembered what I thought about it...

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I don't know anyone who identifies as ace IRL but that can't stop me from creating my own club, right?

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It's very true, but I don't want to be in a relationship.
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Does anyone else get treated as a "child" because they've never been in a relationship?

So my parents are great but my siblings and extended family treat me (F22) as a child because I've never been in a relationship. What I mean is that they see me as less experienced in life, even my younger sibling and sometimes dismiss me. My older sibling sometimes ignores what I have to say and go to my mum to ask her if I can do something - basically asking for parental permission as if I can't make a decision on my own. She also has gone behind my back a few times and told my mum that I need to lower my standards and find a guy because I'm too old. I'm not out to her because she wouldn't understand but my mum and younger sibling know and tend to be okay with it.

Anyways just seeing if anyone else has gone through this?

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