How do you guys feel about the statement, "Asexuality isn't a sexuality, it's the lack of one."
My friend said this, and I wasn't sure what to think of it. They said that asexuals and aromantics are 'valid but not lgbt' :/
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My friend said this, and I wasn't sure what to think of it. They said that asexuals and aromantics are 'valid but not lgbt' :/
https://redd.it/rxwmhx
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How do you guys feel about the statement, "Asexuality isn't a...
My friend said this, and I wasn't sure what to think of it. They said that asexuals and aromantics are 'valid but not lgbt' :/
Wish Me Luck
I've gone out with a guy a few times and I really like him. We're going out for the third time tomorrow. There is a chance he could be ace, but statistically speaking, he probably isn't. I'm planning on telling him that I'm asexual tomorrow. I'm sure he'll be chill about it, but I'm still nervous.
Wish me luck. (Advice is also welcome)
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I've gone out with a guy a few times and I really like him. We're going out for the third time tomorrow. There is a chance he could be ace, but statistically speaking, he probably isn't. I'm planning on telling him that I'm asexual tomorrow. I'm sure he'll be chill about it, but I'm still nervous.
Wish me luck. (Advice is also welcome)
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Wish Me Luck
I've gone out with a guy a few times and I really like him. We're going out for the third time tomorrow. There is a chance he could be ace, but...
A lot of Christians don't understand abstinence vs asexuality
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Do any of you guys like the idea of sex or sexual things but then hate actually trying them out? I'm trying to see if I'm ace or not.
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Do any of you guys like the idea of sex or sexual things but then...
Posted in r/asexuality by u/Buggybruce2020 • 37 points and 20 comments
Do allos actually like the thought of someone imagining having sex with them?
I once read on a self-love insta: "You are the reason someone masturbates" and I just felt so violated and disgusted and just overall grossed out. Do allos actually like that thought? Do they like to be objectified/ sexualized?
I once had a probably allo boyfriend and I was really into Yoga at the time and told him about the different Yoga types, e.g. Hot Yoga. And his response just was "Isn't all Yoga you do hot Yoga?" Like, eww. Just let me live! How do they make everything sexual?
I also told him about an Influencer who always walks around her appartment naked in the summer. For self-love and self-acceptance reasons. And he asked if we could do it too, in a very suggestive voice. And when I said no, he thought I found his body disgusting. (I didn't know I was ace back then, I thought I was demi)
So yeah, I probably wouldn't date an allo again. But this got a little of track. So, back to the initial question: Would an allo like that or was it just toxic masculinity or something?
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I once read on a self-love insta: "You are the reason someone masturbates" and I just felt so violated and disgusted and just overall grossed out. Do allos actually like that thought? Do they like to be objectified/ sexualized?
I once had a probably allo boyfriend and I was really into Yoga at the time and told him about the different Yoga types, e.g. Hot Yoga. And his response just was "Isn't all Yoga you do hot Yoga?" Like, eww. Just let me live! How do they make everything sexual?
I also told him about an Influencer who always walks around her appartment naked in the summer. For self-love and self-acceptance reasons. And he asked if we could do it too, in a very suggestive voice. And when I said no, he thought I found his body disgusting. (I didn't know I was ace back then, I thought I was demi)
So yeah, I probably wouldn't date an allo again. But this got a little of track. So, back to the initial question: Would an allo like that or was it just toxic masculinity or something?
https://redd.it/ry63ju
@asexualityonreddit
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Do allos actually like the thought of someone imagining having sex...
I once read on a self-love insta: "You are the reason someone masturbates" and I just felt so violated and disgusted and just overall grossed out....