Not nervous around “crush” (Is this actually romantic attraction?)
So, let’s start with the fact that this is one of the only girls I’ve ever been attracted to, (I believe I’ve been attracted to maybe one or two other girls, but I’m not sure.) and that I’ve been having trouble with aesthetic and romantic attraction lately. I’ve only ever been attracted to guys and this feels different to word in at best. That’s why I’m thinking it might not be romantic. I don’t feel nervous around her (at least not that much.) I’m good friends with her and pretty comfortable around her. I only realized I might like her after someone mentioned something to me. Mostly about the way I speak about her. I thought about it and I would like to do more “intimate things” with her. Nothing sexual, just things that would be deemed romantic, which I’m honestly not sure if I’ve ever wanted to do with guys or other genders in general. It’s the fact that I’m not nervous around her that throws me off. Could this be romantic attraction, or maybe a different form of attraction? Could one of you explain romantic attraction in a better way? Thank you. I’m only asking because of that. Not because I plan on getting with her
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So, let’s start with the fact that this is one of the only girls I’ve ever been attracted to, (I believe I’ve been attracted to maybe one or two other girls, but I’m not sure.) and that I’ve been having trouble with aesthetic and romantic attraction lately. I’ve only ever been attracted to guys and this feels different to word in at best. That’s why I’m thinking it might not be romantic. I don’t feel nervous around her (at least not that much.) I’m good friends with her and pretty comfortable around her. I only realized I might like her after someone mentioned something to me. Mostly about the way I speak about her. I thought about it and I would like to do more “intimate things” with her. Nothing sexual, just things that would be deemed romantic, which I’m honestly not sure if I’ve ever wanted to do with guys or other genders in general. It’s the fact that I’m not nervous around her that throws me off. Could this be romantic attraction, or maybe a different form of attraction? Could one of you explain romantic attraction in a better way? Thank you. I’m only asking because of that. Not because I plan on getting with her
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Not nervous around “crush” (Is this actually romantic attraction?)
So, let’s start with the fact that this is one of the only girls I’ve ever been attracted to, (I believe I’ve been attracted to maybe one or two...
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Why is everyone so obsessed with my sex life???
HELLO
I am allo. The love of my life is ace af yall.
I'm the type of person who loves to tell people about things that excite me. I will gush about my love, my day, my job, my workout, all of the things! Whenever I'm happy I HAVE to tell someone and I have no idea why, thats just how I roll I guess.
H O W E V E R.. one thing I can not talk to people about is my relationship with my beautiful boyfriend because all anyone cares about is if we've touched genitals or not???
I'll go on and on about something cute or fun we did to my roomie, and I'll get "Ok thats nice but did you have sex yet?" And when I tell her that my sex life is noones business but I then remind her that my bf is ace, she shrugs and says "You never know."
BUT I DO KNOW??? AND SO DOES HE???
Others have also asked if we've done the sex yet and everytime I'm like "Noneya business." But theyre obsessed and its soooo bizarre. He bought me an adorable necklace for xmas and I knitted him a blanket and a mutual friend legit asked if I gave him a little "something" as a thank you for the gift.
YEAH MOTHER-EFFER, I SAID THANKS, WE KISSED, AND THEN WE WATCHED A HORROR MOVIE AND CUDDLED UNDER HIS NEW BLANKET wtf you mean did I GiVe HiM sOMetHiNg, I pity your wife my guy.
Last Monday, my bf and I had an intense, and indepth discussion about what would happen if I suddenly turned into a racoon and how it would affect our relationship but yet nobody cares because it doesn't involve us being naked..
Smfh. What a time to be alive.
Thanks for coming to my TED Talk.
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HELLO
I am allo. The love of my life is ace af yall.
I'm the type of person who loves to tell people about things that excite me. I will gush about my love, my day, my job, my workout, all of the things! Whenever I'm happy I HAVE to tell someone and I have no idea why, thats just how I roll I guess.
H O W E V E R.. one thing I can not talk to people about is my relationship with my beautiful boyfriend because all anyone cares about is if we've touched genitals or not???
I'll go on and on about something cute or fun we did to my roomie, and I'll get "Ok thats nice but did you have sex yet?" And when I tell her that my sex life is noones business but I then remind her that my bf is ace, she shrugs and says "You never know."
BUT I DO KNOW??? AND SO DOES HE???
Others have also asked if we've done the sex yet and everytime I'm like "Noneya business." But theyre obsessed and its soooo bizarre. He bought me an adorable necklace for xmas and I knitted him a blanket and a mutual friend legit asked if I gave him a little "something" as a thank you for the gift.
YEAH MOTHER-EFFER, I SAID THANKS, WE KISSED, AND THEN WE WATCHED A HORROR MOVIE AND CUDDLED UNDER HIS NEW BLANKET wtf you mean did I GiVe HiM sOMetHiNg, I pity your wife my guy.
Last Monday, my bf and I had an intense, and indepth discussion about what would happen if I suddenly turned into a racoon and how it would affect our relationship but yet nobody cares because it doesn't involve us being naked..
Smfh. What a time to be alive.
Thanks for coming to my TED Talk.
https://redd.it/rx1f74
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Why is everyone so obsessed with my sex life???
HELLO I am allo. The love of my life is ace af yall. I'm the type of person who loves to tell people about things that excite me. I will gush...
Hey y'all, so I don't really wanna know, but tell me your own bad takes on what these mean.
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