My boyfriend made me touch him while I was asleep. Is it okay for me to feel hurt?
I’m a 20 year old female and I came out as asexual last year. I’ve struggled with my sexuality for years. I don’t find pleasure in sex or anything sexually related. My boyfriend and I have had sex before. Coming out as asexual was quite a shock but he was very accepting of it.
We’re in a long distance relationship so he flew out here to spend time with me for a few weeks. He asked me what I’m not comfortable with and I told him. He once again was very accepting.
At least that’s what I thought.
While I was asleep, I felt him take my hand and place it on his penis over his underwear. I didn’t say anything. I was just in a state of shock. I felt sick to my stomach. I pretended to still be asleep. He took off his underwear and placed my hand on his bare penis. After a while, he rolled over and started jacking off next to me.
I just feel extremely uncomfortable. I made it clear to him what I didn’t like and he took advantage of me when he thought I was asleep.
Idk if I’m overreacting. All I know is I wanna cry and scream.
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I’m a 20 year old female and I came out as asexual last year. I’ve struggled with my sexuality for years. I don’t find pleasure in sex or anything sexually related. My boyfriend and I have had sex before. Coming out as asexual was quite a shock but he was very accepting of it.
We’re in a long distance relationship so he flew out here to spend time with me for a few weeks. He asked me what I’m not comfortable with and I told him. He once again was very accepting.
At least that’s what I thought.
While I was asleep, I felt him take my hand and place it on his penis over his underwear. I didn’t say anything. I was just in a state of shock. I felt sick to my stomach. I pretended to still be asleep. He took off his underwear and placed my hand on his bare penis. After a while, he rolled over and started jacking off next to me.
I just feel extremely uncomfortable. I made it clear to him what I didn’t like and he took advantage of me when he thought I was asleep.
Idk if I’m overreacting. All I know is I wanna cry and scream.
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I just experienced sexual attraction!
I've been identifying as ace or grey ace for most of my life now, and have always been curious about this elusive sexual attraction that allos talk about.
Well I just experienced it for the first time in my life (as far as I remember). I won't go into the specifics of how it happened since it's personal to me, but I can share that a key aspect was this person is from my own ethnicity and culture, which I don't see all that often in the western world.
This is what it felt like: I noticed it as soon as I saw the other person, as soon as I was in the same room as them. There was this "magnetic" energy, very visceral in my body, seeming to physically pull me towards them. I wanted to look at them, stare at them if I could, just drink in the view of them. The energy excited me, woke me up. It was strangely pleasurable just to feel it in my body. It was impossible not to notice. I had a physical urge to be near them, hold them tightly, kiss them all over, have sex with them, merge together with them. I don't know how I knew I wanted those things, I just knew, and it felt like I could so easily just allow myself to completely lose myself in the passion of what I was feeling and my body would act automatically. My body knew exactly what it wanted and what to do.
This is the first time in my life I've felt this with another. It was quite overpowering, I couldn't think of anything else or focus on a conversation with anyone else while I was in the same room as them. To any other aces that are wondering about sexual attraction, when it happens you literally cannot miss it. Like it's right there, in your face.
I still identify as greyace, and it's exciting to explore these new realms and feelings.
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I've been identifying as ace or grey ace for most of my life now, and have always been curious about this elusive sexual attraction that allos talk about.
Well I just experienced it for the first time in my life (as far as I remember). I won't go into the specifics of how it happened since it's personal to me, but I can share that a key aspect was this person is from my own ethnicity and culture, which I don't see all that often in the western world.
This is what it felt like: I noticed it as soon as I saw the other person, as soon as I was in the same room as them. There was this "magnetic" energy, very visceral in my body, seeming to physically pull me towards them. I wanted to look at them, stare at them if I could, just drink in the view of them. The energy excited me, woke me up. It was strangely pleasurable just to feel it in my body. It was impossible not to notice. I had a physical urge to be near them, hold them tightly, kiss them all over, have sex with them, merge together with them. I don't know how I knew I wanted those things, I just knew, and it felt like I could so easily just allow myself to completely lose myself in the passion of what I was feeling and my body would act automatically. My body knew exactly what it wanted and what to do.
This is the first time in my life I've felt this with another. It was quite overpowering, I couldn't think of anything else or focus on a conversation with anyone else while I was in the same room as them. To any other aces that are wondering about sexual attraction, when it happens you literally cannot miss it. Like it's right there, in your face.
I still identify as greyace, and it's exciting to explore these new realms and feelings.
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