Never wanting to be viewed sexually
I've noticed that generally asexual people find it hard to understand how some people can look at a stranger and imagine sexual things about them. Well, I don't want to be part of anyone's sexual thoughts. I hear that if you're a girl and friends with a straight man, there's no way he hasn't imagined something about you. I hate this, I hate this so much and it's so normalized. This honestly terrifies me to no end but I somehow don't feel like I have permission to express it in any way.
I don't really know how to explain it but the thought of someone looking at certain parts of me and making assumptions, forming opinions, judging me based on them or even worse, imagine scenarios... is literally the worst thing I can think of. I feel ridiculous for making this such a huge issue, you can't know what anyone's thinking or control anyone's thoughts. But that's what terrifies me, There's no way to really control people's perception of you because any body type, any outfit, any style can be sexualized.
Sometimes I just wish I was born without the typical physical characteristics of a woman. I just wish I could delete the sexual parts of me, I don't want them. Idk if anyone can relate to this
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I've noticed that generally asexual people find it hard to understand how some people can look at a stranger and imagine sexual things about them. Well, I don't want to be part of anyone's sexual thoughts. I hear that if you're a girl and friends with a straight man, there's no way he hasn't imagined something about you. I hate this, I hate this so much and it's so normalized. This honestly terrifies me to no end but I somehow don't feel like I have permission to express it in any way.
I don't really know how to explain it but the thought of someone looking at certain parts of me and making assumptions, forming opinions, judging me based on them or even worse, imagine scenarios... is literally the worst thing I can think of. I feel ridiculous for making this such a huge issue, you can't know what anyone's thinking or control anyone's thoughts. But that's what terrifies me, There's no way to really control people's perception of you because any body type, any outfit, any style can be sexualized.
Sometimes I just wish I was born without the typical physical characteristics of a woman. I just wish I could delete the sexual parts of me, I don't want them. Idk if anyone can relate to this
https://redd.it/rp6iq7
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Never wanting to be viewed sexually
I've noticed that generally asexual people find it hard to understand how some people can look at a stranger and imagine sexual things about them....
Do aces also sit gay?
There's a meme of gay and bi people never sitting properly in chairs if given a choice. Aces, do we do the same?
I do, but that might be the biromantic in me.
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There's a meme of gay and bi people never sitting properly in chairs if given a choice. Aces, do we do the same?
I do, but that might be the biromantic in me.
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Do aces also sit gay?
There's a meme of gay and bi people never sitting properly in chairs if given a choice. Aces, do we do the same? I do, but that might be the...
This gave me asexual vibes until I read about the misted water and potato 😂
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I draw on my bedsheets when I can't sleep. Drew this one last night in the ace colors. Ignore the remnants of old drawings lol.
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I'm ace so I made my character in my comic also ace. Here's her coming out.
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TW: aphobia. I hoped to educate someone, but realised my username might do more harm then good here...
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TW: aphobia. I hoped to educate someone, but realised my username...
Posted in r/asexuality by u/___Lucifer_ • 60 points and 15 comments
Hey, wanna hear a joke about sexual attraction?
Never mind, you probably don't get it.
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Never mind, you probably don't get it.
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Hey, wanna hear a joke about sexual attraction?
Never mind, you probably don't get it.