I've always knew that I was not sexually attracted to others, but something happened.
My whole life, I thought something was wrong with me, just because I couldn't understand (or feel) what my friends were talking about. They often talked about how boys were so hot and wanted a relationship. I had never felt such a thing, since my childhood. As I grew up, I started to feel a strong connection with a friend of mine. She deeply cared about me and we were so happy together. As the days passed, I started to think about being in a relationship with her, like my "normal" friends. But I am a girl, so I never thought she would feel the same for me. I never wanted a sexual intercourse though, it was only a platonic thing. Anyways, after a long long time (I think 2 years?) she told me about her feelings and we started dating. It was NOTHING like dating tho, we still did the same things together. Only thing changed was I could call her "my girlfriend".
When I started highschool, I thought I was lesbian because there was an only 1 one person I felt something for, and she was a girl. After a short period of time, I started talking more with a boy friend of mine. He was curious about how I felt and wanted to know more about me, unlike other people. So I started feeling the same thing for him. (I immediately broke up with my girlfriend.) A looot of time passed again and we became really close. We went on dates, had deep conversations and such. In one of our dates, we started kissing and I realised I liked it. We kissed more than once and every time it happened, I liked it. He knew that I identified myself as asexual, so he was nervous if I liked it or not. I told him that I liked it so yea.
I tried masturbating before, but I couldn't feel anything so I thought "Yea it's not for me." But after I kissed him I felt a thing and tried again and I liked it.
So here's my story of relationships. I DO know that I am on the aspec, but would it be wrong if I identify as asexual?
Thank you if you read it till here! Lemme know what you think. Have an amazing day! :3
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My whole life, I thought something was wrong with me, just because I couldn't understand (or feel) what my friends were talking about. They often talked about how boys were so hot and wanted a relationship. I had never felt such a thing, since my childhood. As I grew up, I started to feel a strong connection with a friend of mine. She deeply cared about me and we were so happy together. As the days passed, I started to think about being in a relationship with her, like my "normal" friends. But I am a girl, so I never thought she would feel the same for me. I never wanted a sexual intercourse though, it was only a platonic thing. Anyways, after a long long time (I think 2 years?) she told me about her feelings and we started dating. It was NOTHING like dating tho, we still did the same things together. Only thing changed was I could call her "my girlfriend".
When I started highschool, I thought I was lesbian because there was an only 1 one person I felt something for, and she was a girl. After a short period of time, I started talking more with a boy friend of mine. He was curious about how I felt and wanted to know more about me, unlike other people. So I started feeling the same thing for him. (I immediately broke up with my girlfriend.) A looot of time passed again and we became really close. We went on dates, had deep conversations and such. In one of our dates, we started kissing and I realised I liked it. We kissed more than once and every time it happened, I liked it. He knew that I identified myself as asexual, so he was nervous if I liked it or not. I told him that I liked it so yea.
I tried masturbating before, but I couldn't feel anything so I thought "Yea it's not for me." But after I kissed him I felt a thing and tried again and I liked it.
So here's my story of relationships. I DO know that I am on the aspec, but would it be wrong if I identify as asexual?
Thank you if you read it till here! Lemme know what you think. Have an amazing day! :3
https://redd.it/roth1i
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Found this on Pinterest a while ago, thought it was amusing.
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Asexual Things I Did Before Realizing I was Asexual #4. This goes out to my aces who thought they were bi at first…. Because we felt the same amount of sexual attraction to all genders, which was none at all!
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Don’t mind me just showing off my Ace Pride in the form of Joy-Cons
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why did a lot of asexuals think they were bi at first?
I just think it’s weird to me because I never really felt attraction to anyone. I’m not against bi people, just wanted to ask you guys why you thought you were bi.
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I just think it’s weird to me because I never really felt attraction to anyone. I’m not against bi people, just wanted to ask you guys why you thought you were bi.
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why did a lot of asexuals think they were bi at first?
I just think it’s weird to me because I never really felt attraction to anyone. I’m not against bi people, just wanted to ask you guys why you...
My friend made this meme for me to get me through the stressful holidays!
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Never wanting to be viewed sexually
I've noticed that generally asexual people find it hard to understand how some people can look at a stranger and imagine sexual things about them. Well, I don't want to be part of anyone's sexual thoughts. I hear that if you're a girl and friends with a straight man, there's no way he hasn't imagined something about you. I hate this, I hate this so much and it's so normalized. This honestly terrifies me to no end but I somehow don't feel like I have permission to express it in any way.
I don't really know how to explain it but the thought of someone looking at certain parts of me and making assumptions, forming opinions, judging me based on them or even worse, imagine scenarios... is literally the worst thing I can think of. I feel ridiculous for making this such a huge issue, you can't know what anyone's thinking or control anyone's thoughts. But that's what terrifies me, There's no way to really control people's perception of you because any body type, any outfit, any style can be sexualized.
Sometimes I just wish I was born without the typical physical characteristics of a woman. I just wish I could delete the sexual parts of me, I don't want them. Idk if anyone can relate to this
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I've noticed that generally asexual people find it hard to understand how some people can look at a stranger and imagine sexual things about them. Well, I don't want to be part of anyone's sexual thoughts. I hear that if you're a girl and friends with a straight man, there's no way he hasn't imagined something about you. I hate this, I hate this so much and it's so normalized. This honestly terrifies me to no end but I somehow don't feel like I have permission to express it in any way.
I don't really know how to explain it but the thought of someone looking at certain parts of me and making assumptions, forming opinions, judging me based on them or even worse, imagine scenarios... is literally the worst thing I can think of. I feel ridiculous for making this such a huge issue, you can't know what anyone's thinking or control anyone's thoughts. But that's what terrifies me, There's no way to really control people's perception of you because any body type, any outfit, any style can be sexualized.
Sometimes I just wish I was born without the typical physical characteristics of a woman. I just wish I could delete the sexual parts of me, I don't want them. Idk if anyone can relate to this
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Never wanting to be viewed sexually
I've noticed that generally asexual people find it hard to understand how some people can look at a stranger and imagine sexual things about them....