Stfu I don’t even have the energy to argue against this anymore
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What are some reasons that you’re happy you’re asexual?
Hi y’all, so my friend is asexual, and recently told me she wishes she wasn’t. It lowkey broke my heart. So what reasons are there to be happy to be asexual?
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Hi y’all, so my friend is asexual, and recently told me she wishes she wasn’t. It lowkey broke my heart. So what reasons are there to be happy to be asexual?
Thank you guys! 💜🖤🤍
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What are some reasons that you’re happy you’re asexual?
Hi y’all, so my friend is asexual, and recently told me she wishes she wasn’t. It lowkey broke my heart. So what reasons are there to be happy to...
Feel isolated for not liking breasts.
It feels like everyone, no matter who they are, like breasts. Gay men? Straight women? Doesn’t matter; it feels like everyone I’ve ever met loves them. Even asexuals very often seem to at least be neutral, if not somewhat positive on them, even if it’s in less of a sexual way. Yeah it’s fine that people do, but I feel isolated for legitimately just hating them. I could rant about why, but that’s not the point.
It makes me feel outcast or stupid for not liking them. A good example is how I really like the idea of cuddling and resting my head on a flat chest, regardless of gender, just a flat chest. I think it seems a lot nicer and less awkward than resting your head on the chest of someone with breasts. Like sure they’re soft, but they’re not big enough to be too great as pillows, them being not too big means it’s gonna feel kinda uneven or odd to rest your head on, and it’ll just feel awkward to have my head on that when cuddling if I don’t want it to be sexual. However, I feel like anytime I express this, people try to shoot down my claims and tell me that they are functional as pillows and nicer to rest your head on than a flat chest. As the only person I know that feels this way, it makes me feel like I’m just flat out wrong; that my opinion on this is incorrect. I should like breasts and I don’t. Doesn’t help that all of my best friends are trans girls that are super big fans of them. If everyone, even if they’re not attracted to women, seem to unanimously agree on how great they are, then I wish I could be in on that club and feel like dogshit for something so stupid…
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It feels like everyone, no matter who they are, like breasts. Gay men? Straight women? Doesn’t matter; it feels like everyone I’ve ever met loves them. Even asexuals very often seem to at least be neutral, if not somewhat positive on them, even if it’s in less of a sexual way. Yeah it’s fine that people do, but I feel isolated for legitimately just hating them. I could rant about why, but that’s not the point.
It makes me feel outcast or stupid for not liking them. A good example is how I really like the idea of cuddling and resting my head on a flat chest, regardless of gender, just a flat chest. I think it seems a lot nicer and less awkward than resting your head on the chest of someone with breasts. Like sure they’re soft, but they’re not big enough to be too great as pillows, them being not too big means it’s gonna feel kinda uneven or odd to rest your head on, and it’ll just feel awkward to have my head on that when cuddling if I don’t want it to be sexual. However, I feel like anytime I express this, people try to shoot down my claims and tell me that they are functional as pillows and nicer to rest your head on than a flat chest. As the only person I know that feels this way, it makes me feel like I’m just flat out wrong; that my opinion on this is incorrect. I should like breasts and I don’t. Doesn’t help that all of my best friends are trans girls that are super big fans of them. If everyone, even if they’re not attracted to women, seem to unanimously agree on how great they are, then I wish I could be in on that club and feel like dogshit for something so stupid…
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Feel isolated for not liking breasts.
It feels like everyone, no matter who they are, like breasts. Gay men? Straight women? Doesn’t matter; it feels like everyone I’ve ever met loves...
I've always knew that I was not sexually attracted to others, but something happened.
My whole life, I thought something was wrong with me, just because I couldn't understand (or feel) what my friends were talking about. They often talked about how boys were so hot and wanted a relationship. I had never felt such a thing, since my childhood. As I grew up, I started to feel a strong connection with a friend of mine. She deeply cared about me and we were so happy together. As the days passed, I started to think about being in a relationship with her, like my "normal" friends. But I am a girl, so I never thought she would feel the same for me. I never wanted a sexual intercourse though, it was only a platonic thing. Anyways, after a long long time (I think 2 years?) she told me about her feelings and we started dating. It was NOTHING like dating tho, we still did the same things together. Only thing changed was I could call her "my girlfriend".
When I started highschool, I thought I was lesbian because there was an only 1 one person I felt something for, and she was a girl. After a short period of time, I started talking more with a boy friend of mine. He was curious about how I felt and wanted to know more about me, unlike other people. So I started feeling the same thing for him. (I immediately broke up with my girlfriend.) A looot of time passed again and we became really close. We went on dates, had deep conversations and such. In one of our dates, we started kissing and I realised I liked it. We kissed more than once and every time it happened, I liked it. He knew that I identified myself as asexual, so he was nervous if I liked it or not. I told him that I liked it so yea.
I tried masturbating before, but I couldn't feel anything so I thought "Yea it's not for me." But after I kissed him I felt a thing and tried again and I liked it.
So here's my story of relationships. I DO know that I am on the aspec, but would it be wrong if I identify as asexual?
Thank you if you read it till here! Lemme know what you think. Have an amazing day! :3
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My whole life, I thought something was wrong with me, just because I couldn't understand (or feel) what my friends were talking about. They often talked about how boys were so hot and wanted a relationship. I had never felt such a thing, since my childhood. As I grew up, I started to feel a strong connection with a friend of mine. She deeply cared about me and we were so happy together. As the days passed, I started to think about being in a relationship with her, like my "normal" friends. But I am a girl, so I never thought she would feel the same for me. I never wanted a sexual intercourse though, it was only a platonic thing. Anyways, after a long long time (I think 2 years?) she told me about her feelings and we started dating. It was NOTHING like dating tho, we still did the same things together. Only thing changed was I could call her "my girlfriend".
When I started highschool, I thought I was lesbian because there was an only 1 one person I felt something for, and she was a girl. After a short period of time, I started talking more with a boy friend of mine. He was curious about how I felt and wanted to know more about me, unlike other people. So I started feeling the same thing for him. (I immediately broke up with my girlfriend.) A looot of time passed again and we became really close. We went on dates, had deep conversations and such. In one of our dates, we started kissing and I realised I liked it. We kissed more than once and every time it happened, I liked it. He knew that I identified myself as asexual, so he was nervous if I liked it or not. I told him that I liked it so yea.
I tried masturbating before, but I couldn't feel anything so I thought "Yea it's not for me." But after I kissed him I felt a thing and tried again and I liked it.
So here's my story of relationships. I DO know that I am on the aspec, but would it be wrong if I identify as asexual?
Thank you if you read it till here! Lemme know what you think. Have an amazing day! :3
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I've always knew that I was not sexually attracted to others, but...
My whole life, I thought something was wrong with me, just because I couldn't understand (or feel) what my friends were talking about. They often...
Found this on Pinterest a while ago, thought it was amusing.
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Asexual Things I Did Before Realizing I was Asexual #4. This goes out to my aces who thought they were bi at first…. Because we felt the same amount of sexual attraction to all genders, which was none at all!
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Don’t mind me just showing off my Ace Pride in the form of Joy-Cons
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why did a lot of asexuals think they were bi at first?
I just think it’s weird to me because I never really felt attraction to anyone. I’m not against bi people, just wanted to ask you guys why you thought you were bi.
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I just think it’s weird to me because I never really felt attraction to anyone. I’m not against bi people, just wanted to ask you guys why you thought you were bi.
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why did a lot of asexuals think they were bi at first?
I just think it’s weird to me because I never really felt attraction to anyone. I’m not against bi people, just wanted to ask you guys why you...
My friend made this meme for me to get me through the stressful holidays!
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