Told my nearly-girlfriend I was ace today! Didn't go quite as planned.
So I've had a couple dates with this girl and we talk basically everyday over text, and after our date yesterday which went really well I decided that I was at the point where I was comfortable enough to tell her I am ace. I'm still sort of questioning my exact position on the spectrum because I'm not 100% sure but I know I'm somewhere on it hahahah
but anyways I wrote this little paragraph saying thank you for the date and coming out to her, and her initial response was sweet but she'd asked what asexual meant which I understand since it's not as well know as other sexualities. After I explained it to her she again didn't really give her own thoughts about it but still thanked me for telling her.
I then had to straight up ask "what do you think about the ace thing" and she then said I'm obviously going to accept you, and I don't want you to pretend you're something that you're not but I need to have a think about it and I'll get back to you. Obviously not the response I'd hoped for. I'm first of all glad she's going about it in a nice way but I've been so happy with her and I'd be so upset to see that end.
I just wanted to share this experience with some other ace people just to get a bit of support :)
https://redd.it/rj6oc0
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So I've had a couple dates with this girl and we talk basically everyday over text, and after our date yesterday which went really well I decided that I was at the point where I was comfortable enough to tell her I am ace. I'm still sort of questioning my exact position on the spectrum because I'm not 100% sure but I know I'm somewhere on it hahahah
but anyways I wrote this little paragraph saying thank you for the date and coming out to her, and her initial response was sweet but she'd asked what asexual meant which I understand since it's not as well know as other sexualities. After I explained it to her she again didn't really give her own thoughts about it but still thanked me for telling her.
I then had to straight up ask "what do you think about the ace thing" and she then said I'm obviously going to accept you, and I don't want you to pretend you're something that you're not but I need to have a think about it and I'll get back to you. Obviously not the response I'd hoped for. I'm first of all glad she's going about it in a nice way but I've been so happy with her and I'd be so upset to see that end.
I just wanted to share this experience with some other ace people just to get a bit of support :)
https://redd.it/rj6oc0
@asexualityonreddit
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I drew these… Thinking of making them into pins, what do you think?
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world map of 3021, purple is our land. pink is canada cuz OT
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[OC] Doubt your asexuality? Here are some things I didn’t know asexual people could do/have before I joined the community (SWIPE to see individual slides)
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[OC] Doubt your asexuality? Here are some things I didn’t know...
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I looked up on Google garlic bread costume (but this is tough)
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