As an Demi sexual heteroromantoc guy is it weird to ask my girl friend to be cuddle buddies?
I don’t want her to take it the wrong way and ruin the friendship. I told her that I liked someone else and it might ruin things friendship wise. I’m at a lost what should I do? Like I don’t even want it to be romantic I just want to cuddle.
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I don’t want her to take it the wrong way and ruin the friendship. I told her that I liked someone else and it might ruin things friendship wise. I’m at a lost what should I do? Like I don’t even want it to be romantic I just want to cuddle.
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As an Demi sexual heteroromantoc guy is it weird to ask my girl...
I don’t want her to take it the wrong way and ruin the friendship. I told her that I liked someone else and it might ruin things friendship wise....
No wonder allos don't understand us, if the internet gives us this kind of definitions...
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Idk if it’s been posted before I feel like it has but enjoy
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Advice- lesbian relationship (asking my girlfriend to explore polyamory)
Hi everyone, I need advice.
My girlfriend is demisexual (she’s never said the word demisexual specifically, but she has described her sexuality in detail, and the conclusion is demisexuality), whereas I’m not. I believe that means I’m alosexual?
We’re in a lesbian relationship.
In our year long relationship we’ve had sex twice. I don’t love her any less for it, but because of our very different sex drives it’s caused problems in our relationship.
My needs really aren’t being met at all in that department, as that is one of the main ways I feel close in a relationship.
She told one of my friends (of her own volition) that she’d be open to exploring polyamory, but she told me that she’d be too jealous.
I love my relationship with her, and I love her more than anything else in the world, but I constantly feel like there’s something missing.
I’ve talked about this with my therapist and she says it might be a good idea to bring my girlfriend in for a session.
I just need advice on what to do?
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Hi everyone, I need advice.
My girlfriend is demisexual (she’s never said the word demisexual specifically, but she has described her sexuality in detail, and the conclusion is demisexuality), whereas I’m not. I believe that means I’m alosexual?
We’re in a lesbian relationship.
In our year long relationship we’ve had sex twice. I don’t love her any less for it, but because of our very different sex drives it’s caused problems in our relationship.
My needs really aren’t being met at all in that department, as that is one of the main ways I feel close in a relationship.
She told one of my friends (of her own volition) that she’d be open to exploring polyamory, but she told me that she’d be too jealous.
I love my relationship with her, and I love her more than anything else in the world, but I constantly feel like there’s something missing.
I’ve talked about this with my therapist and she says it might be a good idea to bring my girlfriend in for a session.
I just need advice on what to do?
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Advice- lesbian relationship (asking my girlfriend to explore...
Hi everyone, I need advice. My girlfriend is demisexual (she’s never said the word demisexual specifically, but she has described her sexuality in...
My fiance broke up with me because I'm asexual
On Thanksgiving day, my fiance dumped me, citing my asexuality as the main reason. We had started dating freshman year of college, and got engaged a few months after graduating. Our relationship was wonderful. She seemed perfect for me, and I dare say I was very nearly perfect for her. I planned proposing to her for months, all while she was begging me to pop the question, and I was singularly happy to think I'd be spending the rest of my life with her.
Of course, it turns out we weren't perfect for each other after all, as I was asexual and she was allosexual. We had talked about my asexuality both before and during the engagement, but it seemed to be a surprisingly insignificant issue. Nonetheless, on Thanksgiving morning she said she had gotten a sudden, unshakable gut feeling that she wouldn't be happy being with someone who wasn't actually sexually attracted to her. She told me she still loved and cared for me, and that she was deeply, deeply sorry for all the pain she was causing.
I am completely and utterly heartbroken. Now, I'm left trying to pick up all the pieces, and separate a life from hers that I had so enthusiastically tied together. I know I'll get over her one day, but boy did she mess me up... Anyway, sorry for being such a downer. I don't typically post on reddit, but I've been wanting to vent somewhere.
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On Thanksgiving day, my fiance dumped me, citing my asexuality as the main reason. We had started dating freshman year of college, and got engaged a few months after graduating. Our relationship was wonderful. She seemed perfect for me, and I dare say I was very nearly perfect for her. I planned proposing to her for months, all while she was begging me to pop the question, and I was singularly happy to think I'd be spending the rest of my life with her.
Of course, it turns out we weren't perfect for each other after all, as I was asexual and she was allosexual. We had talked about my asexuality both before and during the engagement, but it seemed to be a surprisingly insignificant issue. Nonetheless, on Thanksgiving morning she said she had gotten a sudden, unshakable gut feeling that she wouldn't be happy being with someone who wasn't actually sexually attracted to her. She told me she still loved and cared for me, and that she was deeply, deeply sorry for all the pain she was causing.
I am completely and utterly heartbroken. Now, I'm left trying to pick up all the pieces, and separate a life from hers that I had so enthusiastically tied together. I know I'll get over her one day, but boy did she mess me up... Anyway, sorry for being such a downer. I don't typically post on reddit, but I've been wanting to vent somewhere.
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My fiance broke up with me because I'm asexual
On Thanksgiving day, my fiance dumped me, citing my asexuality as the main reason. We had started dating freshman year of college, and got engaged...
Question to my fellow asexuals, does anyone else make sex related jokes with no serious intent? Just humor
My roommate and I are both asexual and we make a lot of sex jokes. Is this prevalent or just an us thing?
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My roommate and I are both asexual and we make a lot of sex jokes. Is this prevalent or just an us thing?
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Question to my fellow asexuals, does anyone else make sex related...
My roommate and I are both asexual and we make a lot of sex jokes. Is this prevalent or just an us thing?
When I tell you I almost cried of joy seeing the tiniest bit of representation in the wild
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is it wrong to like songs about sex? Coming from a close friend and partner, this one kinda stung :|
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Remember this, my sister today officially told my father and I she is ace !!! Proud of her !!
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I was told that I'm "not gay" because I'm asexual.
I'm homoromantic and asexual, and someone actually told me this. What does that even mean?
They were aware of the fact that I'm homoromantic, but they said I can't truly be gay unless I'm explicitly SEXUALLY attracted to men.
Why?
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I'm homoromantic and asexual, and someone actually told me this. What does that even mean?
They were aware of the fact that I'm homoromantic, but they said I can't truly be gay unless I'm explicitly SEXUALLY attracted to men.
Why?
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I was told that I'm "not gay" because I'm asexual.
I'm homoromantic and asexual, and someone actually told me this. What does that even mean? They were aware of the fact that I'm homoromantic,...