Just because you don't find men aesthetically atractive, doesn't mean you have to be obnoxious about it and ofend people who do find them atractive, please be respectful to everyone's preferences.

I'm a bi-aesthetic ace guy and honestly i think i'm growing tired of people like this, who think because they like women everyone else does, and because they find guys unatractive everyone else does, it's a really obnoxious mentality, people are diferent, get over it.
I've seen bi aesthetic guy/girls, heteroaesthetic women and homoaestethic men complaining about those type of people, basically saying stuff like "girls are perfect and guys are ugly" and i'm like keep it to yourself? , it's okay to not find a gender atractive but calling them ugly it's sexist and obnoxious and it's ofensive towards people who find them atractive.
Just a heads up, if you find a gender unatractive don't call them ugly please, there's people with internalized homophobia/acephobia/biphobia that might feel broken if they read your post, my homoromantic asexual friend wanted to k*** himself because he though finding guys handsome was wrong.

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That's a way more realistic Cinderella
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I'M ACE!!!!!

Hi, I wanted to scream into the void that I'm asexual. I adopted this label last year but I think I've always known at the back of my head. I've come out to my friends and they've all been very understanding. I haven't had the courage to come out to my family yet, but I will eventually.
I guess I just wanted to feel like I belong and be part of the community.
So, if you wanna be friends, feel free to message me!
I'M ACE!!!! IT FEELS SO GOOD TO SAY IT!!!

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Erm.... Gone with the wind?
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Excited to see an Ace-themed book display at my local library!
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happy ace pride week ✨
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We need to protect this man

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We all agree he's Asexual right? My dude is not only obsessed with dragons but he made a suit to look like one. HIS BEST FRIEND IS A DRAGON LIKE.

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Sexy and sexless in my asexual leather harness<3 donate to my local ace/aro group for us to be in pride next year if you can: https://gofund.me/7e41045c
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Wanted to share this with all you Ace peeps
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I stopped visiting this sub months ago because of this and I return to it still happening. I wish it’d stop. Happy Ace week from a black, African ace whose country is about 30 years old because some white people came and invaded it:)
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What word did the allos ruin for you?

Personally it's the word "daddy" I'm a grown ass man and I still call my dad "daddy" because old habits die hard I guess. Whenever I would have friends over as a teen or as a kid and I'd ask my father for something I'd always get weird looks from them.

Like christ allos get your head out of the gutter, this is the guy I share 50% of my genes with, not whatever y'all are thinking about.

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Done this multiple times
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Ace Awareness Week!!✨
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To celebrate ace week I made my own ring! Black wood, hand carved
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Title the tittle
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Its kinda disheartening opening this sub to see it flooded with "partner came out as ace and I can't handle it" posts

/mild rant

I understand they feel the need to get advice on the matter, but seeing it so often it's coming up every 5 or 6 posts is getting to be a bit much.

Many of us already struggle with feeling like we're burdens, not enough, too much work, etc. and having to see the same "I totally support them and their asexuality but I NEED sex and I'm not sure what to do" and them coming here trying to get reassurance polyamorism or "compromise sex" is okay instead of actually speaking to their partner and being honest.. They don't even feel comfortable just having a conversation with their so-called beloveds?

It's also just kinda sad to see these allosexuals all talking about how their insatiable lust and sex drive is possibly going to be the deal breaker in an otherwise amazing relationship. Maybe I just don't understand, maybe it's me missing out on this important piece of the puzzle, but come on, it can't be that necessary? It's just... body parts.

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