GF of four years just told me she was asexual.
I’ll cut to the chase, we had lots of sex when we started dating and the sex slowly started dwindling down and heard a lot of the times that sex is all I wanted from her and so on. I went 6 months without sex and when I finally asked her about it she explains to me that she’s asexual. I feel lied to but I also want to understand how she can go from having sex to no becoming asexual.
I just feel like I’m not good enough.
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I’ll cut to the chase, we had lots of sex when we started dating and the sex slowly started dwindling down and heard a lot of the times that sex is all I wanted from her and so on. I went 6 months without sex and when I finally asked her about it she explains to me that she’s asexual. I feel lied to but I also want to understand how she can go from having sex to no becoming asexual.
I just feel like I’m not good enough.
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GF of four years just told me she was asexual.
I’ll cut to the chase, we had lots of sex when we started dating and the sex slowly started dwindling down and heard a lot of the times that sex...
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I CAME OUT! 🖤🤍💜
Soo this was something I wasnt even thinking about doing but it happened.
Yesterday night one of my friends and I were talking about general stuff, like religion, society, politics etc etc... Then while we were talking she mentioned how sex seems so disturbing to her and she doesnt understand why media is obsessed with it. Honestly her words gave me strength and I told her I feel the same and I identify as asexual. She accepted it with open arms and told me that as far as she knows asexual people want to be in a romantic relationship too(some context here: in our friend group when the topic of crushes open I always tell them how I dont like anyone or dont find any men attractive. Its not because I am aro, I am just homoromantic and I couldn't say that to them so I just acted like I like no one). I said yes I want to be in a relationship and before I knew it I also told her I like woman. I was so nervous that I couldn't stop shaking and my chin was constantly trembling. She said she still accepts me and sees me as her friend and I couldn't be happier. It felt like a dream, that I finally told someone and my world didnt crash. I just wanted to post it here to remind to all of us that even in the most religious and homophobic spaces there are people who will still love us.
This sounded so corny lol, anyways stay safe everyone.
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Soo this was something I wasnt even thinking about doing but it happened.
Yesterday night one of my friends and I were talking about general stuff, like religion, society, politics etc etc... Then while we were talking she mentioned how sex seems so disturbing to her and she doesnt understand why media is obsessed with it. Honestly her words gave me strength and I told her I feel the same and I identify as asexual. She accepted it with open arms and told me that as far as she knows asexual people want to be in a romantic relationship too(some context here: in our friend group when the topic of crushes open I always tell them how I dont like anyone or dont find any men attractive. Its not because I am aro, I am just homoromantic and I couldn't say that to them so I just acted like I like no one). I said yes I want to be in a relationship and before I knew it I also told her I like woman. I was so nervous that I couldn't stop shaking and my chin was constantly trembling. She said she still accepts me and sees me as her friend and I couldn't be happier. It felt like a dream, that I finally told someone and my world didnt crash. I just wanted to post it here to remind to all of us that even in the most religious and homophobic spaces there are people who will still love us.
This sounded so corny lol, anyways stay safe everyone.
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I CAME OUT! 🖤🤍💜
Soo this was something I wasnt even thinking about doing but it happened. Yesterday night one of my friends and I were talking about general...
Saw this on IG, probably one of the easiest choices I've ever made lol
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My daughter (freshman in high school) told me she was Asexual, what’s next?
Hello! first off, I want to say forgive me if I get any of the terms wrong. I am here to educate myself as a momma!
Second, I want to say that as a momma, reading a lot of your stories….. You are all such beautiful souls. I hope all of your lives are filled with happiness. You deserve it!
My daughter has told me she is asexual, and non romantic? (She doesn’t want to be touched. At all). My questions are…. Well. I’m not exactly sure? Obviously I responded with respect, and a massive hug telling her I love her no matter who she loves, and we had a long talk. Oh. Yeah. And we live in the south. 🙃😑 so that can put a damper on anyone’s party.
So I guess, my question is, what’s next? What do I do to support her? when do I buy the flags and start screaming how proud and how much I love my asexual daughter? I mean, she’s a freshman in high school. Surly kids are knowing who they are at a younger age, isn’t that what our generation was trying to do? Pave the road for future generations to live in peace? (Well. We tried. I’m not a boomer. So….) and to no longer have the need to come out, just “be”.
I hope what I’m saying is making sense. I knew at a very young age, (because of my best friend being gay and their awful experiences growing up in the south…) that no matter who my children love, I would love them even more. But I also am trying not to overcompensate the task at hand too, if that makes sense.
Help.
Love,
A momma.
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Hello! first off, I want to say forgive me if I get any of the terms wrong. I am here to educate myself as a momma!
Second, I want to say that as a momma, reading a lot of your stories….. You are all such beautiful souls. I hope all of your lives are filled with happiness. You deserve it!
My daughter has told me she is asexual, and non romantic? (She doesn’t want to be touched. At all). My questions are…. Well. I’m not exactly sure? Obviously I responded with respect, and a massive hug telling her I love her no matter who she loves, and we had a long talk. Oh. Yeah. And we live in the south. 🙃😑 so that can put a damper on anyone’s party.
So I guess, my question is, what’s next? What do I do to support her? when do I buy the flags and start screaming how proud and how much I love my asexual daughter? I mean, she’s a freshman in high school. Surly kids are knowing who they are at a younger age, isn’t that what our generation was trying to do? Pave the road for future generations to live in peace? (Well. We tried. I’m not a boomer. So….) and to no longer have the need to come out, just “be”.
I hope what I’m saying is making sense. I knew at a very young age, (because of my best friend being gay and their awful experiences growing up in the south…) that no matter who my children love, I would love them even more. But I also am trying not to overcompensate the task at hand too, if that makes sense.
Help.
Love,
A momma.
https://redd.it/q0hluz
@asexualityonreddit
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My daughter (freshman in high school) told me she was Asexual,...
Hello! first off, I want to say forgive me if I get any of the terms wrong. I am here to educate myself as a momma! Second, I want to say that as...