I think thinking about my sexual identity is messing me up
I accepted myself as asexual maybe 2 months ago. Sexuality was never a forefront in my mind and I just never thought too much about it. I knew I never experienced sexual attraction hence I know and accept myself to be asexual.
Now, for the past months I was at home a lot. Recently restrictions have loosen and I had the chance to meet up with friends, go out and socialize etc etc. I realize that because I've been thinking so much about sexual orientation and the different types of attraction, it's popping up in my head more often now. Sometimes when I see someone that is aesthetically attractive / personality is attractive, the question of "hey, do I find them sexually attractive" is pops up. And I don't exactly like these thoughts it's so disturbing. I imagine sex with them and I recoil and while that affirms that I am asexual, I DON'T LIKE HAVING THESE THOUGHTS. How to stop?????
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I accepted myself as asexual maybe 2 months ago. Sexuality was never a forefront in my mind and I just never thought too much about it. I knew I never experienced sexual attraction hence I know and accept myself to be asexual.
Now, for the past months I was at home a lot. Recently restrictions have loosen and I had the chance to meet up with friends, go out and socialize etc etc. I realize that because I've been thinking so much about sexual orientation and the different types of attraction, it's popping up in my head more often now. Sometimes when I see someone that is aesthetically attractive / personality is attractive, the question of "hey, do I find them sexually attractive" is pops up. And I don't exactly like these thoughts it's so disturbing. I imagine sex with them and I recoil and while that affirms that I am asexual, I DON'T LIKE HAVING THESE THOUGHTS. How to stop?????
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I think thinking about my sexual identity is messing me up
I accepted myself as asexual maybe 2 months ago. Sexuality was never a forefront in my mind and I just never thought too much about it. I knew I...
What of these things counts as sexual or not and can asexuals still do them and still be ace?
1: Make out. Maybe with tongue. I hate it with tongue.
2: Give or take oral sex
3: Want to do the motorboat between a woman's boobs.
4: Lay naked or exposed beside someone.
5. Have low libido and can barely get aroused.
6: Like to watch naked women.
7: Kinks. Are kinks like dominatrix a kink an ace can have? Because I have this fantasy of dominating a partner (of course someone who enjoys it as well), naked, and there may or may not involve a knife in my hand playing along their body while I wear a thick choker. Only none of this involves genitals. Just boobs.
8: Is sexual actions about putting one genital into another one? Because that has always confused me. Is sex just the meaning of intercourse between people of all genders?
9: Are things like caressing sensually and kissing considered sex? Are touching someone else's genital considered sex? If you would want to do this, I'm not, I think, are you still ace?
10: What is really the defination of sex?
I can't figure out any more rn but happy for answers,
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1: Make out. Maybe with tongue. I hate it with tongue.
2: Give or take oral sex
3: Want to do the motorboat between a woman's boobs.
4: Lay naked or exposed beside someone.
5. Have low libido and can barely get aroused.
6: Like to watch naked women.
7: Kinks. Are kinks like dominatrix a kink an ace can have? Because I have this fantasy of dominating a partner (of course someone who enjoys it as well), naked, and there may or may not involve a knife in my hand playing along their body while I wear a thick choker. Only none of this involves genitals. Just boobs.
8: Is sexual actions about putting one genital into another one? Because that has always confused me. Is sex just the meaning of intercourse between people of all genders?
9: Are things like caressing sensually and kissing considered sex? Are touching someone else's genital considered sex? If you would want to do this, I'm not, I think, are you still ace?
10: What is really the defination of sex?
I can't figure out any more rn but happy for answers,
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What of these things counts as sexual or not and can asexuals...
1: Make out. Maybe with tongue. I hate it with tongue. 2: Give or take oral sex 3: Want to do the motorboat between a woman's boobs. 4: Lay...
Got the idea from another person here months ago, tweaked it.
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Reddit, I promise you that there is absolutely NOTHING like what you're asking happening here!!!!!
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Do you guys know other animated TV series that has good asexuality representation?
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Almost passed out from the asexuality that radiated from this video
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