I told a guy I was AroAce before sleeping over but woke up to him touching me up
I started talking to a guy I met online and he mentioned having dinner with his friends at his place, I agreed to go for the food but I asked him if he knew was AroAce was, I had to give him a long lecture about it so he would understand that I was only coming for food, I wanted nothing but platonic interaction during my stay. He said he understood.
Fast forward to the dinner party, I said I had to go cause it was well past 8pm but the person kept asking me to stay over and I gave in on the promise it would just be movies and sleeping. We headed back to his place I was exhausted and wanted nothing but to sleep, but when I did fall asleep I felt hands touching me up and sliding in my clothes. I woke up to find him half naked and my clothes pushed out the way.
I felt violated, an idiot for believing the person would respect me and heed my explanation that I wanted nothing but to hang out and eat. I hated it.
I exclaimed my disappointment and he apologized, he asked if we could just go to sleep after talking about it. I couldn't sleep, it was too late to get a ride and I was sort of stuck in his house so I stayed awake all night while he slept and left first thing in the morning.
He messaged me after I left but I want nothing to do with him anymore, should I block him?
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I started talking to a guy I met online and he mentioned having dinner with his friends at his place, I agreed to go for the food but I asked him if he knew was AroAce was, I had to give him a long lecture about it so he would understand that I was only coming for food, I wanted nothing but platonic interaction during my stay. He said he understood.
Fast forward to the dinner party, I said I had to go cause it was well past 8pm but the person kept asking me to stay over and I gave in on the promise it would just be movies and sleeping. We headed back to his place I was exhausted and wanted nothing but to sleep, but when I did fall asleep I felt hands touching me up and sliding in my clothes. I woke up to find him half naked and my clothes pushed out the way.
I felt violated, an idiot for believing the person would respect me and heed my explanation that I wanted nothing but to hang out and eat. I hated it.
I exclaimed my disappointment and he apologized, he asked if we could just go to sleep after talking about it. I couldn't sleep, it was too late to get a ride and I was sort of stuck in his house so I stayed awake all night while he slept and left first thing in the morning.
He messaged me after I left but I want nothing to do with him anymore, should I block him?
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I told a guy I was AroAce before sleeping over but woke up to him...
I started talking to a guy I met online and he mentioned having dinner with his friends at his place, I agreed to go for the food but I asked him...
How do I figure out my family's opinions on asexuals without making it obvious?
I really want to come out as I'm sick of being asked if I have a girlfriend, sick of people making the same unfunny "iS sHe YoUr GiRlFrIeNd" joke whenever I'm taking to a female like is it illegal to have a female friend or something? I'm also tired of people trying to talk about sex with me, but I'm worried people will be aphobic but I don't know how to figure out their opinions on it.
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I really want to come out as I'm sick of being asked if I have a girlfriend, sick of people making the same unfunny "iS sHe YoUr GiRlFrIeNd" joke whenever I'm taking to a female like is it illegal to have a female friend or something? I'm also tired of people trying to talk about sex with me, but I'm worried people will be aphobic but I don't know how to figure out their opinions on it.
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How do I figure out my family's opinions on asexuals without...
I really want to come out as I'm sick of being asked if I have a girlfriend, sick of people making the same unfunny "iS sHe YoUr GiRlFrIeNd" joke...
**Almost** All my homemade pride merchandise since I'm closeted. (I made perler bead flags but my mom found them and now idk if they were thrown out or is she just forgot.)
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**Almost** All my homemade pride merchandise since I'm closeted....
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Ace pride kandi I made 💜 Are there any other ace ravers in this sub? If so, will you be going to Lost Lands? This is my first time posting in this sub, I hope this kind of post is allowed :)
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So you shave?
I'm curious. Some people shave because it feels and looks nice, some people shave for their partners and for sex and some don't shave at all. What about us?
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I'm curious. Some people shave because it feels and looks nice, some people shave for their partners and for sex and some don't shave at all. What about us?
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Why is everything assumed to be sexual?
Certain hair styles, shorter clothing, pole dancing, socks.
I hear people making jokes about a guy with earrings assuming his sexuality with something like “oh he’s a bottom.”
Yes, I do sometimes have sexual thoughts about these things but it’s probably because the l idea has been conditioned into me. Seeing pole dancing at first was like “woah that’s cool.” If no one never made that connection to me I wouldn’t think anything of it.
It’s really annoying. People have associated taking too big of a bite with a banana to be sexual.
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Certain hair styles, shorter clothing, pole dancing, socks.
I hear people making jokes about a guy with earrings assuming his sexuality with something like “oh he’s a bottom.”
Yes, I do sometimes have sexual thoughts about these things but it’s probably because the l idea has been conditioned into me. Seeing pole dancing at first was like “woah that’s cool.” If no one never made that connection to me I wouldn’t think anything of it.
It’s really annoying. People have associated taking too big of a bite with a banana to be sexual.
https://redd.it/pmvv3x
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Why is everything assumed to be sexual?
Certain hair styles, shorter clothing, pole dancing, *socks.* I hear people making jokes about a guy with earrings assuming his sexuality with...