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The story of me and my girlfriend (OC) 💜♠️ a surprising turn of events for meeting by matching on Tinder
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My school's lgbt club starts tomorrow and I'm hesitant to go
I'm aroace, my school has a club for lgbt people run by my painting teacher. I have no idea how it works , and what we'd do there. I want to go so bad, but I'm a bit worried. Do I really want to be out to so many people? I don't know. Maybe I'll go and see how it is, If it's not my thing that's ok.
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I'm aroace, my school has a club for lgbt people run by my painting teacher. I have no idea how it works , and what we'd do there. I want to go so bad, but I'm a bit worried. Do I really want to be out to so many people? I don't know. Maybe I'll go and see how it is, If it's not my thing that's ok.
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My school's lgbt club starts tomorrow and I'm hesitant to go
I'm aroace, my school has a club for lgbt people run by my painting teacher. I have no idea how it works , and what we'd do there. I want to go so...
apparently my asexuality is a "total buzzkill"
I need to rant. not sure if I'm overreacting, but I'm still a little upset about this.
a while ago my roommate had a small birthday party at our place. two of her friends hit it off and went into the bathroom to do the doodle, which I didn't mind.
unfortunately shortly after I realized that I had to pee really, REALLY badly, so I knocked and asked them to clear the bathroom. there were plenty of other rooms but they chose the only room everyone needed to enter.
I was being direct but still nice and discrete and did my best not to make them feel like they're being shamed or anything. they got noticeably uncomfortable anyway and the guy started joking about how my asexuality just spreads over everyone and kills all the fun. I was really offended by that. I always show respect for other people's sexuality and I don't like being painted as a prude buzzkill in return. I told him that I don't give a flying fuck about anyone having sex here but I'm not going to take my ass outside to pee because he chose to get some in my bathroom. like dude, not my problem.
I ranted about this to my roommate and all she had to say was something along the lines of "well what did you expect? you talk about being asexual all the time, how are people supposed to take that?"
that pissed me off even more. I talk about my sexuality just like allos do. when I'm with friends and the topic comes up, I participate. I don't understand how that counts as "talking about it all the time", like what am I supposed to do? just exclude myself? how would that be fair? I want to be allowed in those spaces just like allos are. if my friends don't want me there, they shouldn't bring it up in my presence.
idk, this whole situation still annoys me and I feel like what my friends said was pretty mean.
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I need to rant. not sure if I'm overreacting, but I'm still a little upset about this.
a while ago my roommate had a small birthday party at our place. two of her friends hit it off and went into the bathroom to do the doodle, which I didn't mind.
unfortunately shortly after I realized that I had to pee really, REALLY badly, so I knocked and asked them to clear the bathroom. there were plenty of other rooms but they chose the only room everyone needed to enter.
I was being direct but still nice and discrete and did my best not to make them feel like they're being shamed or anything. they got noticeably uncomfortable anyway and the guy started joking about how my asexuality just spreads over everyone and kills all the fun. I was really offended by that. I always show respect for other people's sexuality and I don't like being painted as a prude buzzkill in return. I told him that I don't give a flying fuck about anyone having sex here but I'm not going to take my ass outside to pee because he chose to get some in my bathroom. like dude, not my problem.
I ranted about this to my roommate and all she had to say was something along the lines of "well what did you expect? you talk about being asexual all the time, how are people supposed to take that?"
that pissed me off even more. I talk about my sexuality just like allos do. when I'm with friends and the topic comes up, I participate. I don't understand how that counts as "talking about it all the time", like what am I supposed to do? just exclude myself? how would that be fair? I want to be allowed in those spaces just like allos are. if my friends don't want me there, they shouldn't bring it up in my presence.
idk, this whole situation still annoys me and I feel like what my friends said was pretty mean.
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apparently my asexuality is a "total buzzkill"
I need to rant. not sure if I'm overreacting, but I'm still a little upset about this. a while ago my roommate had a small birthday party at our...
WHY EVEN SAY YOU SLEPT WITH SOMEONE WHEN YOU DIDN'T EVEN FUCKING SLEEP
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My therapist congratulated me on my Asexuality on our last therapy session yesterday
So I've been in therapy with this wonderful godsend of a therapist for about 2 years, and at the beginning of the therapy I had to fill out a lot of questionnaires, and one of the questions was "what is your current sexual drive" with answers
-I'm interested in sex
-I'm not as interested as I used to be
-I'm more interested than I used to be
- I have no interest in sex at all
But the test is quite old and takes lack of sexual drive as a sign of depression. When I started therapy I was severely depressed, and didn't have any interest in sex, like its been for as long as I can remember, so I crossed the last box.
Then during our sessions, we talked a lot about sexuality, my fears, my real needs, and last year I discovered that what really described myself was Asexuality, and she helped me a lot to get to that realisation and showed me some communities and forums to find like minded people, and it's been a life changer for me.
And now yesterday, we had our last session. And as part of the final comparisons and my progress, I filled out the questionnaire again, ticked the same box as two years ago and added a happy smiley face.
And when we went through the results, she smiled at the happy face and counted it as 0 points, so a healthy answer, and told me she is rarely that happy about a before and after answer having the same result, and that she's proud of me :)
She also gifted me a rock as a final parting gift, it looks like a tiny universe and it reminded her of me and I should always remember the progress I made and my life is as limitless as my little universe rock.
It's been a really emotional goodbye for me and I couldn't really share it with anyone, so I just had to let someone know :)
Thank you guys for being here, I'm happy I joined the crew
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So I've been in therapy with this wonderful godsend of a therapist for about 2 years, and at the beginning of the therapy I had to fill out a lot of questionnaires, and one of the questions was "what is your current sexual drive" with answers
-I'm interested in sex
-I'm not as interested as I used to be
-I'm more interested than I used to be
- I have no interest in sex at all
But the test is quite old and takes lack of sexual drive as a sign of depression. When I started therapy I was severely depressed, and didn't have any interest in sex, like its been for as long as I can remember, so I crossed the last box.
Then during our sessions, we talked a lot about sexuality, my fears, my real needs, and last year I discovered that what really described myself was Asexuality, and she helped me a lot to get to that realisation and showed me some communities and forums to find like minded people, and it's been a life changer for me.
And now yesterday, we had our last session. And as part of the final comparisons and my progress, I filled out the questionnaire again, ticked the same box as two years ago and added a happy smiley face.
And when we went through the results, she smiled at the happy face and counted it as 0 points, so a healthy answer, and told me she is rarely that happy about a before and after answer having the same result, and that she's proud of me :)
She also gifted me a rock as a final parting gift, it looks like a tiny universe and it reminded her of me and I should always remember the progress I made and my life is as limitless as my little universe rock.
It's been a really emotional goodbye for me and I couldn't really share it with anyone, so I just had to let someone know :)
Thank you guys for being here, I'm happy I joined the crew
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My therapist congratulated me on my Asexuality on our last therapy...
So I've been in therapy with this wonderful godsend of a therapist for about 2 years, and at the beginning of the therapy I had to fill out a lot...
Another invitation to the ace Planet discord is up now , link in comments . As always hope you enjoy !
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Sex positive aces are aces too!
I've been seeing a lot of posts here recently that heavily imply that everyone here is sex repulsed and that hating sex is a given thing here and I just want to say sex positive aces are real and valid too! They are out there and they are beautiful, so we should stop the implied exclusion of them (I know nobody here is deliberately excluding them, but if the trend continues, they may feel excluded nonetheless)
Anyway, hope everyone's doing well, and don't forget to love each other!
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I've been seeing a lot of posts here recently that heavily imply that everyone here is sex repulsed and that hating sex is a given thing here and I just want to say sex positive aces are real and valid too! They are out there and they are beautiful, so we should stop the implied exclusion of them (I know nobody here is deliberately excluding them, but if the trend continues, they may feel excluded nonetheless)
Anyway, hope everyone's doing well, and don't forget to love each other!
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Sex positive aces are aces too!
I've been seeing a lot of posts here recently that heavily imply that everyone here is sex repulsed and that hating sex is a given thing here and...