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Feel like I’m being forced to come out?

I’m 30 years old and I’ve recently started identifying as asexual - prior this I went through the “maybe I’m bi?” And “maybe I just have low sex drive?” or “maybe it’s hormones causing me to not want or like sex” or “why doesn’t a different partner make me feel different about sex” or “why does everyone think this is great?”

Anyway, I am married and having some relationship problems with my husband. We started couples therapy yesterday. It was a good session and we plan to go back for more. However, at the end of this session he mentions the lack of sex and asks why it changed so much. We decided to defer the conversation to next week.

When we were first together I was more sex favorable to the point that I didn’t realize I was just acting on romantic attraction rather than sexual attraction. For a while we had sex, I was in it as a connection/ fulfill my partners needs. Recently I’ve been more sex averse, especially with the other problems going on.

All of this to say I am not out yet to anyone except my individual therapist. I’m not sure if I’m ready to come out to my husband? And I don’t know if couples therapy is the best place to do it? It feels like way sooner than I was ready, but I don’t know how to have that conversation without addressing asexuality.

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I took an "Am I Gay?" quiz because I saw an ad and thought "Why not?". Anyways, we're off to a great start!
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You can call something hot without wanting to fuck it and/or have it fuck you.

Poison(particularly in USFIV) from Final Fight, Brain Drain from Skullgirls, Heisenberg from REVIII, Nyarlathotep, Garchomp from Pokémon, all absolute hotties and I do not wish to engage in intercourse with a single one of them. I just find them all very nice to look at, is that so hard to believe? Their vibes are amazing. I hate how just looking at things has been sexualized.

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I wish I had no genitals

I’m not non-binary, I just think it would be easier and (maybe neater?) to have nothing down there. Just smooth skin. Like a Barbie or something.

I’m asexual, sex neutral-repulsed for myself, and never want kids so it’s pretty useless. It’s like a vestigial organ of a bygone time. I wish I could just tell my body, “oh no thanks, that can go”

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Made this a few days ago because I was bored.
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Reading this image makes me think I might be asexual I've done all the stuff on the bottom, but in reflection I've never felt the top one. I'm also completely ok with never having any sexual intimacy in a relationship.
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