Are the allosexuals okay?
https://redd.it/p27yam
@asexualityonreddit

Ayelet if someone writes something like this please send it to me
https://redd.it/p29rkw
@asexualityonreddit

I'm in the closet so I made some pride flags in terraria, on a floating island because I don't want someone walking in on me playing Terraria and seeing the flags at spawn ^^'
https://redd.it/p2agfj
@asexualityonreddit

The Ace energy is strong with this one
https://redd.it/p2coko
@asexualityonreddit

I am tired of hearing "that'll change soon" in regard of getting children

(I am on my phone, so I apologize for formatting issues)

Quick Background:
I (21F) found out that I am on the ace spectrum a few months ago, even though I had the feeling ever since I was a young teenager.

I had "adult fun time" once in my life and felt nothing, except shame.
I also tried plenty of sexual stuff with my ex, but I always felt like I was forcing myself to do it for him, even though I never felt right with it.


Anyways, I absolutely don't want children. I never wanted. When we had Sex Ed back in Elementary School and we learned about pregnancies, I felt sick. Every time I thought and still think of getting pregnant, I feel extremely uneasy.
I personally think my fear of getting pregnant ties in with my asexuality to some degree.

A few days ago, I had to fill out a form with lots of questions bc I wanna get therapy (for multiple reasons).

One of the Questions was if I had children and if yes, how many.
I sat in a room with my mother and just said "I'll never want children, this question is unnecessary for me."
My mom replied with a simple "That'll change when you get older."
I replied "I already know that I don't want children, so no, it won't change."

My mom then proceeded to talk about how she always wanted two children, but only got one (me) and blah blah.


I love both of my parents a lot, but every time I try to explain to them that they won't become grandparents one day they always say "That'll change" and I absolutely hate it.

I can't stand children, I couldn't care about children, heck I can't even take care of myself properly.
Why are parents always thinking that their children will definetely get own children one day?


Sorry for the rant, but I just had to get it out of my head ;;;;

https://redd.it/p2c7cu
@asexualityonreddit

Finally figured out what that "touch starved" thing meant

Dont want to go into how i figured this out but the realisation hit me hard. I always thought i never really wanted relationships but maybe i do just for the sake of being able to hug someone, Maybe closeness with others isnt over rated?

https://redd.it/p2ddy8
@asexualityonreddit

Birb will Bonk
https://redd.it/p2c2bc
@asexualityonreddit

I made myself some ice cream
https://redd.it/p2h6r8
@asexualityonreddit

These just popped into my head this morning so I made a meme about it.

https://redd.it/p2fz27
@asexualityonreddit

Therapist Win!

I told my therapist yesterday that I’m asexual and she asked me to explain what that meant for me. So I did. And she validated me! It feels wonderful to know that there are people in counseling who understand!

https://redd.it/p2g4gy
@asexualityonreddit

I had a bit of an Ace moment a few days ago, XD
https://redd.it/p2l4i8
@asexualityonreddit

New ring just came in from Etsy

https://redd.it/p2ih7y
@asexualityonreddit

Obsessions I’ve seen is common for asexual people get into, what’s the most popular?

I’m sure we all apply to more than just one so pick your favorite and put another you’ve seen is common for us to be in to in the comments!

View Poll

https://redd.it/p2h1w2
@asexualityonreddit

Anyone else feel VERY uncomfortable when they're sexualized?

I know the look when people wanna do that with me. I don't like it. But sometimes in the past it was 'flattering' to be acknowledged as worth something (even if vain for physical appearance), specifically because I don't feel valued or appreciated by anyone. For this I mean when I was just walking past someone or they were, so momentary and not prolonged.


Then sometimes (most of the time actually) I feel very uncomfortable and disgusted by it. It's just creepy and unsettling to me when people have eyes locked on me, with that specific smirk/smile on their face. And I just get this feeling like I should hide or get away, it's just unsettling.


I have a lot of experiences with this despite not showing interest in a relationship of any kind with anyone lol.
Do you relate?

https://redd.it/p2iv2s
@asexualityonreddit

Always sucks to see aphobia
https://redd.it/p2gpkk
@asexualityonreddit