What is with ppl always assuming paper rolls in bed are for something sexual?
I have always had a roll of paper on top of my bed frame or sometimes even in bed. I have allergies and struggle with my nose being stuffy when i try to sleep. I also wear glasses and it’s convenient to be able to clean my glasses with a fresh piece of paper whenever they get dusty.
I spend a lot of time in bed bc its comfy obviously so its nice to have. But i swear in every video i watch ppl make it out to be sexual as a joke and honestly maybe even mean it seriously and honestly it makes ME feel weird about it. What do u guys think about it? Am i the weird one?
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I have always had a roll of paper on top of my bed frame or sometimes even in bed. I have allergies and struggle with my nose being stuffy when i try to sleep. I also wear glasses and it’s convenient to be able to clean my glasses with a fresh piece of paper whenever they get dusty.
I spend a lot of time in bed bc its comfy obviously so its nice to have. But i swear in every video i watch ppl make it out to be sexual as a joke and honestly maybe even mean it seriously and honestly it makes ME feel weird about it. What do u guys think about it? Am i the weird one?
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What does it mean to be "queer" in terms of sexuality? It was never clear to me.
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Are You Aro (Advice)?
**Hi everyone!**
Welcome to our weekly Advice post about Aromanticism! Aromantic people experience little to no romantic attraction.
**Do any of these resonate with you?**
\* You rarely (if ever) experience crushes on others.
\* You find the idea of a romantic relationship unappealing, and prefer strong platonic bonds.
\* You've been in romantic relationships but felt like you were going through the motions.
\* You've researched what crushes are "supposed" to feel like, but can't relate.
These are just a few signs you might be Aromantic. Aromanticism is a spectrum, and every person's experience is unique.
\*\*Have questions about aromanticism or your own identity?\*\* Ask away in the comments below, and we'll and your fellow Aro’s will do the best to help!
* [**More signs that you are Aro**](https://aromanticguide.com/am-i-aro)
* [**Honeymoon Phase**](https://health.clevelandclinic.org/what-is-the-honeymoon-phase)
* [**Types of attraction (might be incomplete)**](https://types-of-attraction.carrd.co/)
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**Hi everyone!**
Welcome to our weekly Advice post about Aromanticism! Aromantic people experience little to no romantic attraction.
**Do any of these resonate with you?**
\* You rarely (if ever) experience crushes on others.
\* You find the idea of a romantic relationship unappealing, and prefer strong platonic bonds.
\* You've been in romantic relationships but felt like you were going through the motions.
\* You've researched what crushes are "supposed" to feel like, but can't relate.
These are just a few signs you might be Aromantic. Aromanticism is a spectrum, and every person's experience is unique.
\*\*Have questions about aromanticism or your own identity?\*\* Ask away in the comments below, and we'll and your fellow Aro’s will do the best to help!
* [**More signs that you are Aro**](https://aromanticguide.com/am-i-aro)
* [**Honeymoon Phase**](https://health.clevelandclinic.org/what-is-the-honeymoon-phase)
* [**Types of attraction (might be incomplete)**](https://types-of-attraction.carrd.co/)
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Boyfriend forcefully gave me backshots.
Yeah okay the title is very weird and abstract so long story short. I, 19(M) I'm asexual and I genuinely cringe at the idea of having sex. However I do like kissing,holding hands and cuddling and that's my way of showing love and affection. I have a boyfriend and I told.him casually about asexuality and myself and he took it too in a casual way. He s very caring and loving and we ve been holding hands and kissing untill a few days ago he just pushed me to.the bed and said he wanted to do it. I was sooo taken aback and wanted to say NO GOD I HATE IT. ITS SOO FUCKIN WEIRD AND CRINGY AND WE LL JUST BE DELIVERING OURSELVES PAIN FOR JUST A NICE FEELIMG THAT LASTS ONLY FOR A MIN AND HALF AND THEN IT TAKES SO MUCH TIME TO RECOVER AND CLEAN UP AND ITS SO PAINFUL AND ANNOYING GOD NO STOP IT. but I thought that would make him feel bad and he would leave me if I was not fulfilling his desire over me and so I gave in and said SURE. Honestly it was so painful and I hated every second of it coz I was the bottom. I wanted to curse him and say no but the fear of our relationship coming to an end haunted me so much. After that he said he liked it and maybe would do me more and idk I hate it so much but still I ll have to just agree coz he s so loving,caring,smart,sexy and head over heels for.me and the thought that maybe a girl( he's bi) that is his type will fulfill his sexual desires would just take him away one day and I ll.be left alone.
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Yeah okay the title is very weird and abstract so long story short. I, 19(M) I'm asexual and I genuinely cringe at the idea of having sex. However I do like kissing,holding hands and cuddling and that's my way of showing love and affection. I have a boyfriend and I told.him casually about asexuality and myself and he took it too in a casual way. He s very caring and loving and we ve been holding hands and kissing untill a few days ago he just pushed me to.the bed and said he wanted to do it. I was sooo taken aback and wanted to say NO GOD I HATE IT. ITS SOO FUCKIN WEIRD AND CRINGY AND WE LL JUST BE DELIVERING OURSELVES PAIN FOR JUST A NICE FEELIMG THAT LASTS ONLY FOR A MIN AND HALF AND THEN IT TAKES SO MUCH TIME TO RECOVER AND CLEAN UP AND ITS SO PAINFUL AND ANNOYING GOD NO STOP IT. but I thought that would make him feel bad and he would leave me if I was not fulfilling his desire over me and so I gave in and said SURE. Honestly it was so painful and I hated every second of it coz I was the bottom. I wanted to curse him and say no but the fear of our relationship coming to an end haunted me so much. After that he said he liked it and maybe would do me more and idk I hate it so much but still I ll have to just agree coz he s so loving,caring,smart,sexy and head over heels for.me and the thought that maybe a girl( he's bi) that is his type will fulfill his sexual desires would just take him away one day and I ll.be left alone.
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Sex-averse aces: do you still get crushes on people? What does that look like for you?
I’m sex-averse but I still find myself developing attraction to people for various non-sexual reasons. I’m curious if others experience something similar, or do you just not have attraction to others at all?
My favorite way of putting it is:
I don’t look at someone and think “damn, I want to hit that”.
I think, “damn, I want to cuddle that” :)
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I’m sex-averse but I still find myself developing attraction to people for various non-sexual reasons. I’m curious if others experience something similar, or do you just not have attraction to others at all?
My favorite way of putting it is:
I don’t look at someone and think “damn, I want to hit that”.
I think, “damn, I want to cuddle that” :)
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Older aces do you worry about being lonely?
I’m at a crossroads. I’m almost 30 and every one of my friends is either in a long term relationship, engaged or married. They’re buying houses with their spouses. And I’m single and alone. But I’m ace. But I feel sad that I may just be along the rest of my life. And you could say oh well friendships! But my friends don’t have much time for me now that they’re partnered. And you could say oh find another ace! In my area that’d be like finding a needle in a cornfield. Its hard enough finding someone: single, similar interests, available, within generally my age, and ace?? Not exactly easy.
I wish I could have a normal relationship minus intimacy but who else in the world would want that.
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I’m at a crossroads. I’m almost 30 and every one of my friends is either in a long term relationship, engaged or married. They’re buying houses with their spouses. And I’m single and alone. But I’m ace. But I feel sad that I may just be along the rest of my life. And you could say oh well friendships! But my friends don’t have much time for me now that they’re partnered. And you could say oh find another ace! In my area that’d be like finding a needle in a cornfield. Its hard enough finding someone: single, similar interests, available, within generally my age, and ace?? Not exactly easy.
I wish I could have a normal relationship minus intimacy but who else in the world would want that.
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Downloaded Hinge, now I want to delete it
For some context, all throughout middle school, high school, and college I was pretty boy crazy. I had a lot of talking phases, but never had a proper boyfriend. I would lose interest really quickly though once they reciprocated, and eventually labeled myself as aroace. I still found men attractive throughout my 20’s, but it was mainly limerence and I got over it after a few months. I never talked to them or initiated anything.
I’m 29 now and decided to downloaded Hinge to test the waters. However, I’ve been finding myself so icked out as I look through the profiles. Not icked out by the men, but icked out by the concept of dating. It just feels so cringe and stressful for some reason. The talking stage, the pressure of intimacy, all the things that we have to consider for compatibility, the “red flags” and the “green flags”, it all feels so performative. I’d rather have a relationship progress like the ones you see in kdramas or a shoujo anime, but that’s not reality. Reality is more transactional.
I think I’ll probably delete Hinge and be single for the rest of my life lol. It just feels more comfortable that way. I do get lonely and want to act on my desires (visual attraction) sometimes, but then I think about how much work goes into it, and how cringe flirting is, and decided that it’s better to just stay single.
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For some context, all throughout middle school, high school, and college I was pretty boy crazy. I had a lot of talking phases, but never had a proper boyfriend. I would lose interest really quickly though once they reciprocated, and eventually labeled myself as aroace. I still found men attractive throughout my 20’s, but it was mainly limerence and I got over it after a few months. I never talked to them or initiated anything.
I’m 29 now and decided to downloaded Hinge to test the waters. However, I’ve been finding myself so icked out as I look through the profiles. Not icked out by the men, but icked out by the concept of dating. It just feels so cringe and stressful for some reason. The talking stage, the pressure of intimacy, all the things that we have to consider for compatibility, the “red flags” and the “green flags”, it all feels so performative. I’d rather have a relationship progress like the ones you see in kdramas or a shoujo anime, but that’s not reality. Reality is more transactional.
I think I’ll probably delete Hinge and be single for the rest of my life lol. It just feels more comfortable that way. I do get lonely and want to act on my desires (visual attraction) sometimes, but then I think about how much work goes into it, and how cringe flirting is, and decided that it’s better to just stay single.
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Disappointed more people dont know how much we like garlic bread
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