Probably has been done before, but that is what I thought about when my friend (who is still in the closet) told me about a game of 'never have i ever' she had to play at a party
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I love it when people think saying "hurr hurr, Asexuals can't get laid" is an insult. (I cut off his username because I'm not advocating brigading him)
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Asexual Icing
I came out a while back, and of course, it came with that backlash of "you just haven't had sex with the right person," etc., we all know the sayings by now.
So I was hanging out someone who originally said such things when I first came out the other day. He's not super supportive of my asexuality, but we've been friends for a long time, so we just don't bring it up around each other. He owed me ten bucks, but he doesn't carry around cash. So we're passing this gourmet cupcake store, and he says "how about I just but you a cupcake so I don't have to go to an ATM." I replied "If you want to buy me something, that's fine, but I don't like icing. It's just sugar for the sake of sugar." And it just BROKE him. "You don't like icing?" A smile crept across his face. "Well, you haven't tried MY icing."
Now we're at his house, and his mom is making her homemade icing, because his entire family is hellbent on turning me to the frosted side. She gives me a tub of icing and a spoon and asks me to straight-up eat it plain. And I'm sure it was good icing, but icing isn't my thing, and it was too sugary for me, and I explained that to them.
I was a little mad that we wasted a few hours on this adventure (he doesn't have much to do at his place, we were just kind of sitting around on our phones), so we leave for our movie with some other friends. On our way to meet said "other friends," he just sighs and says "I didn't think people who didn't like icing existed. This changed my entire life view."
I just kind of realized how similar that was to some of my asexual experiences, and now I always tell people I don't like icing before I tell them I'm asexual, because apparently it's a *damn* good metaphor.
Sorry I'm more of a garlic bread guy than a cake guy. Just thought y'all would enjoy this story. Have a good day!
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I came out a while back, and of course, it came with that backlash of "you just haven't had sex with the right person," etc., we all know the sayings by now.
So I was hanging out someone who originally said such things when I first came out the other day. He's not super supportive of my asexuality, but we've been friends for a long time, so we just don't bring it up around each other. He owed me ten bucks, but he doesn't carry around cash. So we're passing this gourmet cupcake store, and he says "how about I just but you a cupcake so I don't have to go to an ATM." I replied "If you want to buy me something, that's fine, but I don't like icing. It's just sugar for the sake of sugar." And it just BROKE him. "You don't like icing?" A smile crept across his face. "Well, you haven't tried MY icing."
Now we're at his house, and his mom is making her homemade icing, because his entire family is hellbent on turning me to the frosted side. She gives me a tub of icing and a spoon and asks me to straight-up eat it plain. And I'm sure it was good icing, but icing isn't my thing, and it was too sugary for me, and I explained that to them.
I was a little mad that we wasted a few hours on this adventure (he doesn't have much to do at his place, we were just kind of sitting around on our phones), so we leave for our movie with some other friends. On our way to meet said "other friends," he just sighs and says "I didn't think people who didn't like icing existed. This changed my entire life view."
I just kind of realized how similar that was to some of my asexual experiences, and now I always tell people I don't like icing before I tell them I'm asexual, because apparently it's a *damn* good metaphor.
Sorry I'm more of a garlic bread guy than a cake guy. Just thought y'all would enjoy this story. Have a good day!
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r/asexuality - Asexual Icing
60 votes and 6 comments so far on Reddit
For all of you here on r/aaaaaaacccccccce. Found this on a Reddit video... now I’m hungry at 1:43 in the morning.
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Long time lurker here: thank you
I’ve been following this group for a while because my wife is asexual and I want to understand her sexuality deeper so I can celebrate who she is.
Took me until the 13th year of our marriage to deduce it. She doesn’t talk about it much and I’m not going to push it.
Reading about how you interact with the world and your frustrations helps me learn how to love my wife better. This place helps me empathize and use my critical thinking to better love her and be the husband she needs.
So thank you for being you.
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I’ve been following this group for a while because my wife is asexual and I want to understand her sexuality deeper so I can celebrate who she is.
Took me until the 13th year of our marriage to deduce it. She doesn’t talk about it much and I’m not going to push it.
Reading about how you interact with the world and your frustrations helps me learn how to love my wife better. This place helps me empathize and use my critical thinking to better love her and be the husband she needs.
So thank you for being you.
https://redd.it/cf75cz
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r/asexuality - Long time lurker here: thank you
60 votes and 2 comments so far on Reddit
Im bi so I sent a joke I saw somewhere on here to my asexual friend
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This blows my mind..how do people want to instantly copulate with someone they don't know?
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