I'd be down for like a movie or like a game of cards honestly
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I am making queer coat of arms. each with their own mythical heraldic animal. Asking for advice, inspriration and cool ideas, since this is still kinda in the making and I wanna collect peoples' ideas and opinions :D

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2meirl4meirl
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I’m making an aromantic OC..is this an okay idea?
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Don't know if it was already published here
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Am I the only one who finds the classic asexual community inside jokes unfunny?😅

Absolutely no hate to people who enjoy it but shit like, "I like garlic bread, not sex" or like the being obsessed with dragons or whatever just feel like they're trying too hard to be quirky and random😭😭 I already feel like I'm not taken seriously BECAUSE I'm asexual, if anyone associated me with that kind of humor because I'm ace I think I'd die. I'm sorry for being a fun hater🙏

(Also yes I do like garlic bread and dragons but that's besides the point💔)

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<3
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Y’all, this means aroace ppl are fashionable :D
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Is there any other ways to show vulnerability towards someone without it being sexual? If so, could you give me any examples?



The reason why i am asking this is bc of how ppl percieve vulnerability in a relationship or in sexual attraction.


I always Heard that sexual attraction and sex itself is a way to show vulnerability towards someone by letting your guard down or show your weakness.

Or that its the only way to be Closer to someone.


But what if you dont want that kind of vulnerability?
Not like an ‘’ oh i am scared of this vulnerability and weakness. Im not showing it ‘’ more of a ‘’ i just dont feel this vulnerability. I don’t feel any kind of weakness in it and i don’t need it ‘’

Kind of way.


And i just never understood it.
I used to think there are many ways to show vulnerability. By emotions, by Joy and Even by expressing it but now i don’t know.
Idk if its bc my enviorment is oversexualized or if its just me.

But it always feels like ppl keep telling you that you should be vulnerable towards someone that way or else you don’t love them enough. Or that its the only way to show this love and if you dont have that kind of vulnerability then you are selfish and never loved them.


I dont think this kind of vulnerability is bad. Its okay for ppl to want it or Even like it. Its okay to want it too

But it just feels like ppl force you to feel that kind of vulnerability, and tells you that there are no other kinds of vulnerability then to just show your naked body and show your weakness by orgasm.

But you dont feel that kind of vulnerability or weakness towards sex/someone else.



You feel it differently but its shown as not enough or just not even vulnerable.


And anytime you hear what ppl hear you just dont know how you should be feeling towards someone. How you should feel vulnerable towards someone. Or how you love.

Now you think there is just only one way of vulnerability and nothing else.
Even though you wish there were, everyone tells you otherwise to the point that you give up.




Its tiring. Idk if there are Even non-sexual kinds of vulnerability. I Hope so.

Is there any kind of way to show vulnerability towards someone without it being sexual?

If so, is there any examples? I would like to know


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How do you deal with the “You’re not asexual, you just haven’t had good sx yet.” comments?

Hi, I (19F) just recently discovered that I’m on the asexual spectrum. (I’ve known something was off for years but couldn’t place my finger on it) I always try to explain it to my friends and even my parents, but they always make the excuse of “you just need to have good sx, then you’ll change your mind.” and it’s absolutely infuriating. Is there a good way to explain it to them? Should I ignore it and cope with it? I know they’re all good people and everything, but it is so frustrating for people to say that and then tell me I’m never going to love someone correctly because I wont be intimate with them. I’m currently in a very happy relationship and no one I know (besides my partner) believes that you can succeed in love without sxual intimacy. Either that or the classic “absolutely nothing is better than sx so you’re just lying to yourself.” Everyone I’ve told about my asexuality brings it up a lot now, and I can’t seem to live without these comments tearing me down.

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Thank you fellow Asexuals and of the like.

When I first discovered this sexuality subreddit I didn’t know I’d I’d be accepted and especially due to the kind of lesbian I am.

But thank you so much for being so nice and kind.

It isn’t easy and I do my best with what I can.

But I am so appreciative of you guys. 🥹

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