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Do I have to come out??

I've known I'm ace since ever and recently I've 'discover' that I'm also aro.
The point is, I never told my parents or anyone in my family that I am, actually only my two best friends know, but I have never feel like it is a necessity to told them, is not like I was a lesbian or something that they would have to 'deal' (I mean that they had to make themselves the Idea to see me with a girlfriend and all that shit) or accept, is (basically) that I'm not interested at all in dating nor everything that it entails.
And is not like I hide it, I just feel super uncomfortable talking about sexuality with my family, sometimes is a little bit tiring the "Where's the boyfriend?" Or "When is the boyfriend coming?" Or similar cuestión, tho I just answer "Why the hell would I want a boyfriend?" Then they ask exactly the same but with girlfriend, and I answer exactly the same but with girlfriend, And they look quite happy with that answer.

But the point is, sorry I went off on a tangent, Even if it would stop some uncomfortable questions I don't feel like it be such a matter to have to come out, you know what I mean? But sometimes I feel that maybe I should, and I don't know what to do anymore.

So, do I have to come out?? It would really be coming out?? My head's a mess.

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i hated sex and myself



i hated that my life was revolving around a thing that is done in an hour max.. I didn't ever like sex but I had unusaul high sex drive at times .. lucky me I can now focus without having that issues again..


i couldn't focus at anything.. I couldn't deal with girls which I hated myself for .. now I'm finally able to see them as human beings and not chase them for looks but for actual feminine traits

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is there anyone who literally cant masturbate?

Like, you don't feel anything. Never have. I know I'm ace, but I feel like this is something separate from being ace, maybe? I have (rarely) experienced arousal before to an extent but I'm in my mid twenties and never figured out how to stimulate myself. It just doesn't work. I don't feel anything when I touch down there than the expected sensitivity of touching a spot with a lot of nerve endings. No pleasure, no feel goods. I've experimented a lot, so I've always wondered if I'm just physically damaged. female genitalia, if that matters

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This is what bi-aroace muslim (26F) look like. Not ready for my conservative society to bother me about marriage and babies in few years, but Imma have fun while I can.
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When will people understand it's an orientation?!

I don't want sex, period!
Others may fantasize about it and enjoy it but for me it's like a nightmare reel on loop.


It is an ORIENTATION, PERIOD.


I AM NOT GOING TO CHANGE MY ORIENTATION, OMFG.


I CANNOT CHANGE IT.

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Ace laces! The UK charity Stonewall have just announced for their rainbow lace campaign they have added other flags to buy, including the Ace flag! Love seeing us validated so publicly <3
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