I told my doctor I’m asexual, she told me the term is too vague
I was just at my doctors because of mental health problems. She asked me about friends and partners and I told her that I’m asexual and aromantic. She told me that the term is too vague and people mean different things by it. I got pretty angry with her because I felt the usual rejection of my identity that I have gotten from doctors before. I told her that there is literally a definition of asexual online. Then she told me that I’m being nit picky and argumentative. And what she meant was that what’s interesting is what is behind the asexuality. I also asked her if she would say the same thing to a homosexual person. She said no. So I asked okey, so it’s because they have attraction to other (same sex) people? And she said yes. I don’t get it? Asexual just means you don’t have attraction. How hard is that to understand?
Was I in the wrong here or was she? I’m depressed and in a shitty mood so I honestly can’t tell
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I was just at my doctors because of mental health problems. She asked me about friends and partners and I told her that I’m asexual and aromantic. She told me that the term is too vague and people mean different things by it. I got pretty angry with her because I felt the usual rejection of my identity that I have gotten from doctors before. I told her that there is literally a definition of asexual online. Then she told me that I’m being nit picky and argumentative. And what she meant was that what’s interesting is what is behind the asexuality. I also asked her if she would say the same thing to a homosexual person. She said no. So I asked okey, so it’s because they have attraction to other (same sex) people? And she said yes. I don’t get it? Asexual just means you don’t have attraction. How hard is that to understand?
Was I in the wrong here or was she? I’m depressed and in a shitty mood so I honestly can’t tell
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PrideOoh, bandwagon time! This is what an asexual can look like :)
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Didn’t have any burger buns last night so I had to improvise.
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Sex negative people should be banned
And with that I mean anyone who degrades and dehumanises others over them having sex. Anybody who ideologically against sex has no space in a queer community.
Sex averse people are fine obviously I don’t mean those. But I am tired of reading through the posts and comments of people saying that others having sex (just the concept of others not that they are involved in anyway) is disgusting.
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I am sorry but thinking shit like this is extremely harmful for our fellow queer people and shouldn’t be tolerated. If you are against the mere existence of sex , sexuality and porn fuck off right now. I have been in this community for years! I have been identifying as ace for 6 years but recently I don’t want to anymore because I refuse to be associated with people like this. Don’t want sex? Then don’t have sex very simple. But don’t harm others for that…
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And with that I mean anyone who degrades and dehumanises others over them having sex. Anybody who ideologically against sex has no space in a queer community.
Sex averse people are fine obviously I don’t mean those. But I am tired of reading through the posts and comments of people saying that others having sex (just the concept of others not that they are involved in anyway) is disgusting.
https://www.reddit.com/r/asexuality/s/4rPiFl3D5A
I am sorry but thinking shit like this is extremely harmful for our fellow queer people and shouldn’t be tolerated. If you are against the mere existence of sex , sexuality and porn fuck off right now. I have been in this community for years! I have been identifying as ace for 6 years but recently I don’t want to anymore because I refuse to be associated with people like this. Don’t want sex? Then don’t have sex very simple. But don’t harm others for that…
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Thoughts on sexual music?
I like it, especially the sexier ones as a male Demi. Like Guess by charli xcx
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I like it, especially the sexier ones as a male Demi. Like Guess by charli xcx
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