I love not having sex! I didn't realize how traumatizing I found having regular sex (even with someone I loved and trusted) was until I didn't have to do it
That's it! That's the post! I love being in a marriage where neither of us are interested in sex and there's no pressure to do it. I've been in consensual relationships before where we had sex regularly and I just found it so performative and, now that I look back, uncomfortable. I am simply not meant to have sex and I'm so happy I've finally come to terms with it. I feel so free!
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That's it! That's the post! I love being in a marriage where neither of us are interested in sex and there's no pressure to do it. I've been in consensual relationships before where we had sex regularly and I just found it so performative and, now that I look back, uncomfortable. I am simply not meant to have sex and I'm so happy I've finally come to terms with it. I feel so free!
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What else should i add to my "asexual cannon events" bingo?
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Happy Pride Month to all my fellow Aces everywhere!!
Happy Pride Month, everyone. I can't believe this is my 7th year being a moderator for r/asexual. I am so glad for everyone I've gotten to meet here.
To see our once small subreddit almost have 100K subscribers is amazing. It's all because of you and what you all do in terms of providing community for aces across the planet.
Huge shout-out to my fellow mods: Empathetic\_Artist, u/Kdog0073, u/Mitten\_Shiloh, u/saareadaar,
Thank you all so much for doing everything to moderate for our community. I really appreciate it. For those who didn't know, I was out of work 2 years ago, and I just got back into teaching, and I've been so busy teaching that I haven't had as much time to be here. So, to see our subreddit still be going strong while I've been gone is amazing. I sincerely thank you for everything.
Let's all celebrate this Pride Month and make Pride Month a time for joy! I hope to interact more with you in the times moving forward. I love you all so much, in my asexual way, of course. Let's eat cake, everyone!
—Songbird 💜♠️🂡🏹
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Happy Pride Month, everyone. I can't believe this is my 7th year being a moderator for r/asexual. I am so glad for everyone I've gotten to meet here.
To see our once small subreddit almost have 100K subscribers is amazing. It's all because of you and what you all do in terms of providing community for aces across the planet.
Huge shout-out to my fellow mods: Empathetic\_Artist, u/Kdog0073, u/Mitten\_Shiloh, u/saareadaar,
Thank you all so much for doing everything to moderate for our community. I really appreciate it. For those who didn't know, I was out of work 2 years ago, and I just got back into teaching, and I've been so busy teaching that I haven't had as much time to be here. So, to see our subreddit still be going strong while I've been gone is amazing. I sincerely thank you for everything.
Let's all celebrate this Pride Month and make Pride Month a time for joy! I hope to interact more with you in the times moving forward. I love you all so much, in my asexual way, of course. Let's eat cake, everyone!
—Songbird 💜♠️🂡🏹
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Whats the difference between a sex-repulsed ace and a sex-repulsed allo
Ik what your thinking ‘’ attraction doesn’t equal action ‘’ or ‘’ asexuals can enjoy sex/ allos can be sex-repulsed ‘’
I know
Its just that its kinda hard to understand how can an allosexual be sex- repulsed WITH sexual attraction.
Its kinda hard to tell these two. Ik for sex-repulsed ace is that they fon’t like sex and don’t feel attraction at the same time.
But how can an allo be sex-repulsed but still has sexual attraction?
Ik it sounds weird and i apologise. I seriously don’t know much abt it and its pretty hard to indicate sexual attraction.
And i would like to know the difference between the two. On how allos feel sexual attraction even when sex-repulsed?
How can a person know which one they are?
How does their sexual attraction feel like?
I would like to know
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Ik what your thinking ‘’ attraction doesn’t equal action ‘’ or ‘’ asexuals can enjoy sex/ allos can be sex-repulsed ‘’
I know
Its just that its kinda hard to understand how can an allosexual be sex- repulsed WITH sexual attraction.
Its kinda hard to tell these two. Ik for sex-repulsed ace is that they fon’t like sex and don’t feel attraction at the same time.
But how can an allo be sex-repulsed but still has sexual attraction?
Ik it sounds weird and i apologise. I seriously don’t know much abt it and its pretty hard to indicate sexual attraction.
And i would like to know the difference between the two. On how allos feel sexual attraction even when sex-repulsed?
How can a person know which one they are?
How does their sexual attraction feel like?
I would like to know
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Hey cake lovers! I have a question: What pride items do you wish existed for the ace community?
I’m ace and a crafter—keychains, earrings, DND dice and the like—and I’ve been thinking a lot about how little we’re represented when it comes to pride merch.
With pride month here, I want to make things that actually speak to our community—stuff we’d genuinely want to wear or carry, not just generic rainbow-washed designs that don't reflect our experiences.
So I’m asking: what do you wish you could buy, if at all, that actually feels ace-relevant? Are there phrases, imagery, symbols, jokes, or ideas you’ve never seen on a T-shirt or tote bag but would totally buy if someone made it? I have some ideas like a shirt that says "let them eat cake," a unicorn silhouette, or a cake silhouette, all in the ace flag colours. Maybe something to do with garlic bread???
I’m not trying to spam or pitch anything here—just trying to create things that genuinely reflect our identity and needs and fill the empty gap left by the lack of asexual stuff. If you have ideas, I’d love to hear them. And if I end up making them, I’ll be sure to circle back and share!
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I’m ace and a crafter—keychains, earrings, DND dice and the like—and I’ve been thinking a lot about how little we’re represented when it comes to pride merch.
With pride month here, I want to make things that actually speak to our community—stuff we’d genuinely want to wear or carry, not just generic rainbow-washed designs that don't reflect our experiences.
So I’m asking: what do you wish you could buy, if at all, that actually feels ace-relevant? Are there phrases, imagery, symbols, jokes, or ideas you’ve never seen on a T-shirt or tote bag but would totally buy if someone made it? I have some ideas like a shirt that says "let them eat cake," a unicorn silhouette, or a cake silhouette, all in the ace flag colours. Maybe something to do with garlic bread???
I’m not trying to spam or pitch anything here—just trying to create things that genuinely reflect our identity and needs and fill the empty gap left by the lack of asexual stuff. If you have ideas, I’d love to hear them. And if I end up making them, I’ll be sure to circle back and share!
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Aro Ace Pride Month Hyperpop Futuristic Fashion + Cake
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Aro Ace Pride Month Hyperpop Futuristic Fashion + Cake #aroace #pridemonth #fashion
I made a cool futuristic outfit inspired on the Ace Flag. I hope you find it amusing.