When I say the bloodline ends with me 🤣
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Hear me out alright?
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playing with my cock
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You know when you just…question your whole sexuality?



Bro i am having this every single day and its driving me nuts…( OCD related )

Like, idk how to explain it. First i accept my sexuality, and the next my brain will come up with new ideas on how i might be sexually repressed bc i accidentally looked at someone.

Like, i can find someone pretty then BOOM, my brain is commanding me to Check if my body reacted in a sexual way….and if it does it means i am repressing my sexuality by somehow pretending that i don’t like sex ( i am sex-repulsed ) or that Idk what sexual attraction is yayyy ( i get groinal responce. Which makes it Even worse bc anytime when i do, my brain would make up an idea on how i am denying my sexual desires by pretending it was groinal responce…THANK YOU…THANK YOU FOR THIS BEAUTIFUL INFORMATION…. Now i will be ruminating on this for the past two days )

Bro wtf is wrong with me?

I didnt even get to tell that to my therapist bc was so scared that she would tell me things like ‘’ your thoughts are right bc you don’t like sex and you are repressing sexual desires ‘’

…she would never say that btw, its just something that my brain makes up if i ever tell her whats going on…


The worst part is that anytime i say that to ppl they convince that there is something wrong with me bc i don’t like sexual thought…I AM SEX- REPULSED….

And why? IDK, IM JUST LIKE THIS MAN. NOT EVERYONE WANTS TO BE NAKED AND WANT TO TOUCH PPLS HOO HAS OR THIS WEIRD DANGLING MEAT THING ATTACHED TO THEM…

Like…be quited..That is what INTRUSIVE THOUGHTS MEAN. ITS THOUGHTS THAT YOU DONT’ WANT.

And then they tell me that its not bc it isnt violent thought….WHY…WHY DO PPL SAY THAT.

Like, just bc it isnt doesnt mean it isnt an intrusive thoughts. THEY SRE STILL NOT ENJOYABLE

Bc of what they say, i will go insane abt it and them get scared if i am actually repressing something. I would also get these stupid thoughts of ‘’ what if those aren’t intrusive thoughts? What if i enjoyed it and that i was pretending to hate them’’
These ‘’ what if ‘’ thoughts are so stressful to the point that i cry.

And OH, there is more. I literally use sexuality test. And it will ALWAYS GIVE ME THE SAME FRICKIN ASNWER. And i would make sure to use different ones bc different ones will give you different questions. And that i wouldn’t take a similar answer so that i won’t ’’ purposefully take an obvious answer ‘’


And BOOM, it still gives me the same answer..ace

Like…i am going insane on this to the point that i just call myself ‘’ allo in denial ‘’

Sooo yeah, there is my story on how i go insane abt it. No i don’t want reassurance, not confort. I just like to feel Heard thank you very much. And if you relate its ok if you can vent abt it too if you want.


Ty for listening!


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New tattoo
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Am I asexual?

Hi everyone, I'm still very new to understanding my own sexuality and I’ve recently started exploring the idea of asexuality. I’d really appreciate hearing from others here who might relate or have some perspective.

I’ve had a hard time feeling sexual attraction toward my past partners. It’s not that I find sex gross or repulsive — I just feel pretty indifferent or “meh” about it most of the time. However, there’s one specific fetish I have, and whenever a partner engages in it, I suddenly feel very sexually responsive — like I get a strong desire for sexual activity and even feel sexual attraction to them in that moment. That said, those feelings usually fade away until the fetish is brought up again.

I’m wondering if this still falls under the asexual spectrum, or if it might be something else like a different sexual orientation or a kink-related response. I know sexuality can be complex and personal, but I’d really appreciate any insights or similar experiences you’re willing to share.

Thanks in advance!

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I cuddled naked with my tinder date and didn’t have sex with him

F26 B went to M26 W house after only 3 days of knowing him because I was lonely and wanted innocent cuddles when we was texting I told him I just wanted to cuddle and nothing more he agreed and gave me the address when I went over he seem excited to have me over he then said “no girl has ever came over his house and not have sex with him” so that gave me a great idea to prove him wrong .. we laid in his bed and cuddled I even took my panties off and he took his underwear off .. he rubbed up against me and had small freaky talk after 30 minutes of no sexual activity including kissing he made me leave at 2am in the morning mind you I live 40 minutes away from him and it’s super dark outside I then sent him a text the next day and let him know he was wrong for making me leave his house because I refused to have sex with him even though I told him in the beginning I didn’t wanted sex … and I never got a reply from him ! Was I wrong for not having sex with him ?

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Any other asexual males often accused of being gay?

Just curious

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Ace shoelaces
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I painted my nails purple and green for asexual & agender today!
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As a sequel to my Mandalorian art:
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Realisation came very late

Did you also discover your asexuality very late? I realised it when I was 26. I always thought I was just weird because I liked kinky play, but when the sex part came, I was only able to do it while thinking very strongly about kink play, and it just wasn't enjoyable. It felt like a sport, and most of the time, I quit after about 10 minutes. Am I just stupid or did you have similar experiences?

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frfr📡📡📡📡📡
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Jojo's subreddit is really annoying and deleted my post just because I didn't write it "by me", so I'm posting here my MistAce that I DREW

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To all you asexuals, what is your stance on porn?

Do you indulge? Are you disgusted? Explain.

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asexual men?

i (23f) live in Germany and am currently looking for a boyfriend or at least trying to date. I would call myself asexual. I don’t have any interest in sex whatsoever. And whenever I talk to someone who is kind of my type, has the same interests it always comes down to them wanting sex.
I came to the conclusion that asexual men just can’t be real at this point. Like. Unicorns

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So being Ace is being Straight?

Today, I wrote to a queer organization in the city I live. I always wanted to take part in their activities, but I never really see them sharing Ace content, compared to many other, so I asked them if they considered Asexuality to be in their demographic. (It wouldn’t be the first organization focusing on the first letters of the LGBTQ+).

According to them, since Asexuality is an umbrella term and that heterosexuals can be included in that term, Asexuality is not part of the Queer community.

I don’t know how to feel about that.

Edit: they also ended the conversation by saying that I was still welcome in the activities as an ally.

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Bread 👍
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When and how did you learn and realise you were aromantic?

Just curious enough to hear from other people.

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