Are you happy being asexual?

I (21F) always thought I was ok and prepared to live my life as an asexual person. But as I’ve gotten older and started dating, I’m realising that my relationships aren’t going to look like everyone else’s - and that makes me really sad.

Asexual men seem really hard to find. Allo guys don’t wanna hang around after the third or fourth date because I won’t kiss them, let alone have sex with them. I understand why that can be a dealbreaker, and I don’t judge them for it, but it still hurts.

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The best answer

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Finally Told My Sister I was Asexual and it was disappointing

My sister's (she's eight years old than me--I'm 42) response is the exact response that keeps me from telling others and to keep it to myself because I know who and what I am. "I thought about it for a long time," I said "I'm asexual."

She turned to me briefly (we were in the car) and she said, "Maybe you haven't found the right guy." I shriveled up inside. Her son, my nephew, understood when I admitted it to him and accepted it, at fourteen. My sister is 51 and a nurse practitioner in psychiatry. I hope she doesn't tell her clients that sort of thing.

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Do you guys hold any real hope of getting in relationships?

Idk...it just feels so unrealistic for me. I'm sex-repulsed and it's just a big no. I want to share a home and a bed and build a library and a garden together, yk? It's just so hard to find other ace people that I click with and because I'm semi-attractive, a lot of people refuse to believe I'm ace or see it as a challenge. The options are so limited. I'm young still (18) but I've known since I was 12 or so, and the older I get, the less realistic a relationship seems.

It feels hard to relate to all my friends who are in relationships and going on dates and double dates. I can never go out with the people they want to set me up with or with the people I like because it's always a deal breaker

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WRIGHT and Edgeworth are a qpp power squish! CHANGE MY MIND
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I told my Psychiatrist I was asexual and he straight up told me I wasn’t and said that I WAS IN LOVE WITH HIM %*#!^}\&$?!!!

This is one of those moments you’re so angry and frustrated that THERE ARE NO WORDS.

I told my psychiatrist that I was asexual and he immediately asked me if I masturbate. Headsmack #1.

I said sometimes, maybe two or three times a year, and then he said well then obviously I wasn’t. Headsmack #2.

Then he told me that I was in love with him.

Me. **ME.** He told ME that *I* was in love with *HIM*.


🤬🤬🤬 **WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE!!!!!!!**

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When can a minor realise they are ace?

Just wanted to know! 😃

-an asexual

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To all the asexual gamers out there

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Allos are NOT beating the allegations man
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I Am Part Italian & Ace. I Don't Kid Around About Garlic Bread
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"The Sexy Animals Meme"

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Let’s start calling allegations against allos “allogations”

That’s it lol sorry if this post doesn’t fit

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TW Aphobia "woke content detector" steam game list does NOT like aspec people

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What y'all think of this?
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Love language?


Fellow A-specs.

What's yalls love language?

I'm asking because I've come to notice that a lot of allosexual men tend to have physical touch as their love language and tbh I just think SOME of them are horn dogs.

Or it could be the consequences of toxic masculinity and touch deprivation lol.


But yh as an ace I find it weird it's #1 on most of their lists.


I'd say physical touch ranks 4th on my list.




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