Visiting Paris for the weekend and absolutely delighted to find a keyring with ace colours in one of the souvenir shops!!!
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"But won't you get lonely in old age if you don't want to have sex?"
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Coming out to my boyfriend as a questioning demisexual!
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Why do people shame others for being a virgin?



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Yeah sex is cool but... #6512
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Asexual people need to calm down

You peeps arent fucking around. *that was my pun thanks for listening*

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My asexuality is killing me now

When it comes to the spectrum of things, I can't feel anything sexual at all which in turn is hell for my situation with my family. I'm 21 and Im being bombarded by the question of when I will get married and have children, my sexuality is being put into question by my family and the bullying is rampant, my own dad said that it's embarrasing that at my age I have never had a girlfriend. Living in the hispanic culture and pretty much in the backwoods, I'm a latino red neck who loves farming and agriculture, it has helped me not leave my country for ''a better life'' but as any latino, I should be having my 2 child by now according to my parents. IT IS HELL. worse part is being tall and good looking makes it even worse because girls talk to me first some times and then they invite me to local festivals where people get drunk and have sex yet im afraid to tell her that even her beautiful aesthetic body doesn't turn me on. One girl just flat out told me that ''is it bcs you have a small penis or something'' and that one was something else because I don't but the term asexual has not hit latin america. all those dates were forced ofc, I only enjoy the first 2 dates with a girl because after that they start giving sex hints etc. Tbh I wouldn't mind having a gf and she can have sex with other people I would support her sexuality, but im aware that such thing is not one I can present straight foward and the mentality for it isn't here. I would be happy if I met an ace girl here in real life and we can just hide what we are and pretend we are straight normal couple. but that won't happen and in turn this hell continues, do such girls even exist to start? My asexuality is in the extreme, kissing or any contact that is sexual is no no for me, I have a deep desire to want a family but I don't want the sexual part. Worse part of being a guy is that if you are ace you it's not like I can just order sperm to have babies or something, surrogates are expensive , so thats another thing that depresses me :( . Being asexual is hell for us that live in less understanding countries. My friends even laugh at me when I say that I just care for a girls personality and how their bodies do not turn me on at all. they think im just being romantic and cliche, and its hurtful that my way of natural being is always put into question

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Today is my cake day. Give cake and upvotes. But not that kind of "cake"....

Regular old cookie n cream cake

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My first brACElet - Thank you u/thefox_andthewolf for inspiring me to do it. It's not as beautiful as yours, but I am very proud nonetheless.
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Had a fun time frolicking through a splash-pad at pride! Featuring that "Ace-of-Spades" shirt :)
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sex-repulsed.

just recently, my over-sharing friend talked about her recent ‘time’ with her boyfriend and went into too much detail.

i was with another friend at the time (it was the three of us) and she was just asking for more details and everything explicit.

i sat there and was almost sick to my stomach. i didn’t want to tell them to stop talking about it because i’d hate for me to be the reason they don’t have fun and discuss.

instead, i congratulated my friend before taking my leave and said i was going to find something to drink from the kitchen.

being asexual i don’t mind at all. i love it, more of, but sometimes i hate that i have to be repulsed. i wish i could’ve sat there and listened to my friends story and not have been bothered. i wish i could’ve been happy for her and not have been feeling the urge to throw up at the same time.

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does anyone else feel the same way, or am i alone??

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Yea sec may be cool and all but have you ever had cheesy garlic bread
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I am the dog
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Had to make an edit of this wholesome masculinity meme to make it perfect.
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"Hmm, we have a character that is perfectly happy not having sex or any romantic attachments at all. Let's give them a romantic subplot!"

\-Every TV and Movie Producer ever

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Def not porn
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Figured Y'all Would Appreciate This
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I'm asexual and I hate it

I feel like being asexual just... really sucks. I try to be positive and accepting of myself and hey, I usually am! But once I start thinking about relationships and my future it just makes me realize how shitty my situation is. While I realize this is mostly my own personal problem, I feel like asexuals in general get the short end of the stick... Sorry for the negativity, especially towards allosexual people. I promise I don't usually feel as strongly about these issues but I'm really in a bad mental place right now. I can only hope I'm not alone on this...

The thing is, allosexual people love to say that sex is the most intimate expression of love and yet so many of them that nuke their entire relationship because there's none involved. It's contradictive, manipulative and gross. If they really wanted intimacy, if they really cared so deeply about connecting with the person they're with, they'd be willing to find a new way to do so. There are so many ways to feel close to a person... Seriously, no matter how I look at them, most allo-ace relationships just seem one-sided to me. Whenever I read about them it's always the asexual person that's making effort, usually by forcing themselves to have sex, while the allosexual person is just making demands. I have yet to see a story that's the other way around. It's extremely unfair. I understand that relationships are all about compromises but they're also supposed to be a team effort... No?

This wouldn't annoy me half as much if only allo people stopped pretending like sex is an Ultimate Spiritual Bonding Experience and asexuals are The Bad Ones for denying them that. Just admit you like sex! That's it! It's extremely common for allosexuals to sugarcoat it this way and I find it extremely insulting. We're no less capable of intimacy than anyone else, you just don't feel like making the necessary effort. And you know, you might say that agreeing to a sexless relationship and forcing yourself to have sex are both equal compromises, but you'll never convince me that simply not having sex is the same as letting someone violate your body. Not when masturbation exists. People just feel entitled to other people's bodies and don't like to admit it.

Granted, asexuals can date each other and I think that's amazing! That seems like an ideal kind of relationship to me and personally I'd love to have something like that in the future. But with asexuality being so rare, I feel like it's very hard to find someone like you without actively looking for them... It hurts me quite a bit that I can't just fall in love naturally without bracing myself for some kind of disappointment and big sacrifices. It feels like I have no chance for normalcy in this world...

I just hate everything about this. I hate entitled allosexuals and I hate myself. I hate how I'll most likely have to compromise my bodily freedom in order to make a relationship work. Not only is the idea unpleasant and awkward in itself but the fact that I'm a woman makes things so much worse. The possibillity of pain and pregnancy makes me completely afraid of having sex and I feel like I'm at a dead end. Once again, I'm sorry for being negative but man, I feel like my life is worthless. The only thing keeping me going is the fact that romantic relationships aren't that important to me. But I still wish things would be different... I can't help but feel depressed about the injustice of it all...

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Being a high libido ace is like having a really flashy car but you take the bus everywhere



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Relatable AF
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So basically this is ace
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