Smash or pass
My friends and i used to play smash or pass until I came out to them. Then they changed the name to *Qua or Nah* to make me feel better about the game. I'm really glad I have the support of my friends :)
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My friends and i used to play smash or pass until I came out to them. Then they changed the name to *Qua or Nah* to make me feel better about the game. I'm really glad I have the support of my friends :)
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r/Asexual - Smash or pass
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For anyone who have to argue that Incels/MGTOW and Aces are not the same. Remember; Incels think sex is something you can demand and "deserve". Aces (and hopefully any sane person) believe it's something you can choose to do and respect others for not wanting to do.
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As an asexual, I'd be perfect to pose as a woman's boyfriend if she needs to convince her parents that shes not a lesbian. No risk of ultimately falling for her and causing a bunch of emotional conflict.
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r/asexuality - As an asexual, I'd be perfect to pose as a woman's boyfriend if she needs to convince her parents that shes not…
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I told my mom I might be asexual... that was a bad idea
I say might because it's something it's something I'm still figuring out for myself.
Anyway, literally almost everything that could go wrong with telling someone about this happened. She said the you haven't found the right person thing, told me I'm too young to be saying something like that (I'm 20), and told me not to slap that label on myself without knowing if something is wrong with me instead. So she's now scheduling me an appointment to have blood-work done "in case there's a hormone or something not firing". I love my mother, but this is exactly why I was afraid of telling her. She's swooping in and trying to "fix" everything when I just wanted someone to listen to me. And I didn't plan on telling her, at least not for awhile anyway. I told my sister I was having a rough week, she tells my mom, mom calls me, and then manages to pry it out of me by using the "I'm your mother, you can tell me anything" reason. And I fell for it.
I didn't mean for this to turn into a rant. I just needed to get it out and this seemed like a place that would listen to me; I've been coming to this subreddit for about two months now and everyone has always been very nice. So yeah, I'll be seeing them in a few days because my sister and I are going to a concert together. I'm really hoping it isn't awkward between us. I don't even want to think about what's going through my dad's mind about this.
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I say might because it's something it's something I'm still figuring out for myself.
Anyway, literally almost everything that could go wrong with telling someone about this happened. She said the you haven't found the right person thing, told me I'm too young to be saying something like that (I'm 20), and told me not to slap that label on myself without knowing if something is wrong with me instead. So she's now scheduling me an appointment to have blood-work done "in case there's a hormone or something not firing". I love my mother, but this is exactly why I was afraid of telling her. She's swooping in and trying to "fix" everything when I just wanted someone to listen to me. And I didn't plan on telling her, at least not for awhile anyway. I told my sister I was having a rough week, she tells my mom, mom calls me, and then manages to pry it out of me by using the "I'm your mother, you can tell me anything" reason. And I fell for it.
I didn't mean for this to turn into a rant. I just needed to get it out and this seemed like a place that would listen to me; I've been coming to this subreddit for about two months now and everyone has always been very nice. So yeah, I'll be seeing them in a few days because my sister and I are going to a concert together. I'm really hoping it isn't awkward between us. I don't even want to think about what's going through my dad's mind about this.
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r/asexuality - I told my mom I might be asexual... that was a bad idea
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One reason I like john wick is that there's no love interest, just a man and a gun murdering their way through an entire Russian crime family to avenge a puppy.
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r/asexuality - One reason I like john wick is that there's no love interest, just a man and a gun murdering their way through an…
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Queer “friends” dropped me when I came out as ace-spec and called out their aphobia.
A bunch of “friends” who I thought were some of the most open minded people I knew found out I was demi/ace-spec because I stuck up for myself and other aces when one of them said some really aphobic stuff. Since then they’ve basically stopped talking to me or following me on social media or wanting anything to do with me. I tried to message one personally and they won’t even respond. I’m also a bi woman and they were most of the other queer friends I had. This rejection and lack of acceptance hurts so much. I feel so alone and isolated and it’s making me dread good back to college in the fall even though I love my school. I have other wonderful friends and a wonderful girlfriend who are being incredibly supportive, but I also feel so traumatized. These people were trying to argue with me that ace discrimination/oppression doesn’t exist and so ace inclusion isn’t necessary and saying a bunch of awful shit about hetero-romantic aces and gatekeeping aces in general, and then proceeded to discriminate against me when I tried to stick up for myself and my identity and my experiences and educate them and that’s just so... hypocritical???? Idk I just needed to rant and am also looking for support.
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A bunch of “friends” who I thought were some of the most open minded people I knew found out I was demi/ace-spec because I stuck up for myself and other aces when one of them said some really aphobic stuff. Since then they’ve basically stopped talking to me or following me on social media or wanting anything to do with me. I tried to message one personally and they won’t even respond. I’m also a bi woman and they were most of the other queer friends I had. This rejection and lack of acceptance hurts so much. I feel so alone and isolated and it’s making me dread good back to college in the fall even though I love my school. I have other wonderful friends and a wonderful girlfriend who are being incredibly supportive, but I also feel so traumatized. These people were trying to argue with me that ace discrimination/oppression doesn’t exist and so ace inclusion isn’t necessary and saying a bunch of awful shit about hetero-romantic aces and gatekeeping aces in general, and then proceeded to discriminate against me when I tried to stick up for myself and my identity and my experiences and educate them and that’s just so... hypocritical???? Idk I just needed to rant and am also looking for support.
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r/asexuality - Queer “friends” dropped me when I came out as ace-spec and called out their aphobia.
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I think I’m Asexual
I was on another group and the term asexual came up. I looked it up and started to cry because finally I feel like I’m not just weird and alone.
I’ve never been interested in sex. I don’t like kissing, cuddling, sex etc. I’ve always ended up with men who are super sexual and of course I understand they have needs.
I’m now married with two kids. I’ve never once had sex because I wanted to. I do it to keep my husband happy. He understands to an extent that I’m just not a “touchy” person. I’ve tried talking to my mom about this but she just says I have to give my husband sex to de stress him or keep him interested.
After I had my second child it’s gotten worse. I’m having a harder time pretending I’m interested.
Am I asexual? Or am I just weird and don’t like sex.
How do I talk about this to my husband where he won’t just take it as I’m not attracted to him because I really do love him, I just don’t understand why I’m not normal.
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I was on another group and the term asexual came up. I looked it up and started to cry because finally I feel like I’m not just weird and alone.
I’ve never been interested in sex. I don’t like kissing, cuddling, sex etc. I’ve always ended up with men who are super sexual and of course I understand they have needs.
I’m now married with two kids. I’ve never once had sex because I wanted to. I do it to keep my husband happy. He understands to an extent that I’m just not a “touchy” person. I’ve tried talking to my mom about this but she just says I have to give my husband sex to de stress him or keep him interested.
After I had my second child it’s gotten worse. I’m having a harder time pretending I’m interested.
Am I asexual? Or am I just weird and don’t like sex.
How do I talk about this to my husband where he won’t just take it as I’m not attracted to him because I really do love him, I just don’t understand why I’m not normal.
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r/Asexual - I think I’m Asexual
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