Am I Ace?
I've had a roller coaster of a year realizing things about myself and I have questions that Googe doesn't seem to provide easy answers for.
So first off I can find people attractive or interesting and I want to be friends with them or closer with them but the idea of doing anything sexual with anyone is uncomfortable/terrifying.
I don't understand relationships. I have friends who are in long term relationships and they complain if they can't see their partner for a day or two and I don't understand because talking on the phone or texting would be good enough for me. I don't like doting on people or generally even understand when people are upset or emotional. I may be autistic but nothing officially diagnosed.
Yet despite all this I can still feel aroused or otherwise and I don't understand. This has only gotten stranger since I realized I was trans and started transitioning last year. Since them I have had even less interest in people and I'm just confused.
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I've had a roller coaster of a year realizing things about myself and I have questions that Googe doesn't seem to provide easy answers for.
So first off I can find people attractive or interesting and I want to be friends with them or closer with them but the idea of doing anything sexual with anyone is uncomfortable/terrifying.
I don't understand relationships. I have friends who are in long term relationships and they complain if they can't see their partner for a day or two and I don't understand because talking on the phone or texting would be good enough for me. I don't like doting on people or generally even understand when people are upset or emotional. I may be autistic but nothing officially diagnosed.
Yet despite all this I can still feel aroused or otherwise and I don't understand. This has only gotten stranger since I realized I was trans and started transitioning last year. Since them I have had even less interest in people and I'm just confused.
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Am I Ace?
I've had a roller coaster of a year realizing things about myself and I have questions that Googe doesn't seem to provide easy answers for. So...
Guy I like rejected me for being asexual
Title. The confession happened a few days ago. Apparently he has considered dating me before, but decided that me being asexual would be a dealbreaker
I’ve known him for a few years and he’s always been a very supportive friend. It’s just that ever since the rejection, I’ve started to feel ashamed of my sexuality for the first time in 3 years. I’ve been starting to wonder why I had to be so “extra”, despite knowing that being ace is a part of me that I can’t exactly change. I’ve also started to wonder if anyone would ever accept me romantically for who I am
Sorry if this post is too negative and apologies for all the rambling. If anyone has been there before or just has advice in general please do drop a comment. If it matters, my friend and I are both 21
Hope y’all have a great day and thanks ahead of time!
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Title. The confession happened a few days ago. Apparently he has considered dating me before, but decided that me being asexual would be a dealbreaker
I’ve known him for a few years and he’s always been a very supportive friend. It’s just that ever since the rejection, I’ve started to feel ashamed of my sexuality for the first time in 3 years. I’ve been starting to wonder why I had to be so “extra”, despite knowing that being ace is a part of me that I can’t exactly change. I’ve also started to wonder if anyone would ever accept me romantically for who I am
Sorry if this post is too negative and apologies for all the rambling. If anyone has been there before or just has advice in general please do drop a comment. If it matters, my friend and I are both 21
Hope y’all have a great day and thanks ahead of time!
https://redd.it/sj6tzh
@asexualityonreddit
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Guy I like rejected me for being asexual
Title. The confession happened a few days ago. Apparently he has considered dating me before, but decided that me being asexual would be a...
The other day someone told me "I probably get way more pussy than you do!"
With out skipping a beat I said "Yeah, you probably do! Your probably the only one that gives a fuck too!"
And they go
O_O
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With out skipping a beat I said "Yeah, you probably do! Your probably the only one that gives a fuck too!"
And they go
O_O
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The other day someone told me "I probably get way more pussy than...
With out skipping a beat I said "Yeah, you probably do! Your probably the only one that gives a fuck too!" And they go O_O
My bf said I'm a waste for being curvy and ace.
I've always wondered what was wrong with me. I've been dating my bf for 8 months and we never had sex because I was uncomfortable but told him we will when I'm ready. I only came to the conclusion that I was asexual because it seems I have a hormone imbalance. I told my bf that I love him but I'm not sexually attracted to him because I'm realizing I'm ace. We've gotten in plenty of arguments before but he got Hella mad wen I told him I'm ace. He yelled at me and said that I'm wasting my body (I'm very curvy) and that I'm betraying him for not feeling like that with him. He punched me in the boob and called me a waste. He left my apartment and my mom woke up and held me. I tried calling him and he wouldn't answer any of my calls or texts but at 4 in the morning he texted me saying that no sleep respecting man would be with a girl that doesn't suck dick with huge knockers. Why even have big tits if I don't ge a guy off? I feel very hurt. I know I should've had sex with him before coming out as ace but I am just not attracted to anybody like that. Maybe I'm in the wrong. Idk. I wanna make it up to him. I looked up stories similar to mine and people said that the asexual people were selfish for getting together with someone who wasn't and it was never my intention to be selfish. Maybe I'm in the right. Idk.
I posted this on r/sex but I'm nervous that I'll get backlash because they are very anti-ace on there according to the internet so I scurried on over here instead lol.
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I've always wondered what was wrong with me. I've been dating my bf for 8 months and we never had sex because I was uncomfortable but told him we will when I'm ready. I only came to the conclusion that I was asexual because it seems I have a hormone imbalance. I told my bf that I love him but I'm not sexually attracted to him because I'm realizing I'm ace. We've gotten in plenty of arguments before but he got Hella mad wen I told him I'm ace. He yelled at me and said that I'm wasting my body (I'm very curvy) and that I'm betraying him for not feeling like that with him. He punched me in the boob and called me a waste. He left my apartment and my mom woke up and held me. I tried calling him and he wouldn't answer any of my calls or texts but at 4 in the morning he texted me saying that no sleep respecting man would be with a girl that doesn't suck dick with huge knockers. Why even have big tits if I don't ge a guy off? I feel very hurt. I know I should've had sex with him before coming out as ace but I am just not attracted to anybody like that. Maybe I'm in the wrong. Idk. I wanna make it up to him. I looked up stories similar to mine and people said that the asexual people were selfish for getting together with someone who wasn't and it was never my intention to be selfish. Maybe I'm in the right. Idk.
I posted this on r/sex but I'm nervous that I'll get backlash because they are very anti-ace on there according to the internet so I scurried on over here instead lol.
https://redd.it/sjhrs1
@asexualityonreddit
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My bf said I'm a waste for being curvy and ace.
I've always wondered what was wrong with me. I've been dating my bf for 8 months and we never had sex because I was uncomfortable but told him we...
It's not always about garlic bread, cupcakes are great too.
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As an asexual i don't understand how sex is romantic.
There i said it. Like I have a hard time understanding this.
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There i said it. Like I have a hard time understanding this.
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As an asexual i don't understand how sex is romantic.
There i said it. Like I have a hard time understanding this.
have you ever watched a movie/tv show and thought "oh…please don't have sex"
and they actually start having sex and now your day is ruined
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and they actually start having sex and now your day is ruined
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have you ever watched a movie/tv show and thought "oh…please don't...
and they actually start having sex and now your day is ruined
I recommended my mom to read Loveless (Alice Oseman) and today she sent this
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